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      09-18-2018, 02:39 PM   #529
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yeah im not about that, im down to cook for two or cook with her and then eat it... not about to set up a "romantic and perfect" evening where there's a five course meal and the napkins are folded nicely and of course ironed properly.

if im feeling like it most i'll do is light up a candle. look into mancans (manly candles) if that's youre thing, they actually smell awesome

From someone who has been around a lot of women, the more sophisticated you act in the event that you aren't a millionaire, the more suspect women become of you. Be a man and they'll appreciate it. Act like a MANcy boy and you'll be renovating a downstairs nightclub that no one will come to.
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yeah im not about that, im down to cook for two or cook with her and then eat it... not about to set up a "romantic and perfect" evening where there's a five course meal and the napkins are folded nicely and of course ironed properly.

if im feeling like it most i'll do is light up a candle. look into mancans (manly candles) if that's youre thing, they actually smell awesome

From someone who has been around a lot of women, the more sophisticated you act in the event that you aren't a millionaire, the more suspect women become of you. Be a man and they'll appreciate it. Act like a MANcy boy and you'll be renovating a downstairs nightclub that no one will come to.
Holy crap hahahaha

Some zingers here lol
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From someone who has been around a lot of women, the more sophisticated you act in the event that you aren't a millionaire, the more suspect women become of you. Be a man and they'll appreciate it. Act like a MANcy boy and you'll be renovating a downstairs nightclub that no one will come to.
call me stupid but i don't see what you're saying with this...
mancans aren't that expensive; its a college here lol there's only so much "flexing" and "sophistication" you can pull off (maybe im not seeing your point because im thinking in a smaller frame?) and not look like a complete douche who can only get laid thanks to daddy's wallet
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From someone who has been around a lot of women, the more sophisticated you act in the event that you aren't a millionaire, the more suspect women become of you. Be a man and they'll appreciate it. Act like a MANcy boy and you'll be renovating a downstairs nightclub that no one will come to.
call me stupid but i don't see what you're saying with this...
mancans aren't that expensive; its a college here lol there's only so much "flexing" and "sophistication" you can pull off (maybe im not seeing your point because im thinking in a smaller frame?) and not look like a complete douche who can only get laid thanks to daddy's wallet
I'm referring to Jaye's comments and posts in other threads he's made. I'm not quite sure how he's allowed in public places without a chaperone and a crash helmet. You could make a thread about the color brown and he would somehow insert something about home renovations or how great he is with the ladies, then several posts later will bitch about his wife.

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https://www.e90post.com/forums/showthread.php?t=1503702
https://www.e90post.com/forums/showthread.php?t=1529584


As for candles, dude; that's spot on. Low light/candles, good music, (If you need some new tunes, check out Chet Faker, Alex Claire, Two Feet, Hippie Sabotage, Glass Animals) and have your place smelling good (I use teak wood air diffusers from Bath and Body Works).

As for music...Im always down for new recommendations if any of you have some good ones....excluding country. Hard to set the mood with that garbage.

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haha there's always at least one troll that can't read or interprets things all fucked up. here you go:

while we were still single/just hanging out in the early days of the relationship
Well, that's an important detail you left out. Don't be a tool.
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I'm referring to Jaye's comments and posts in other threads he's made. I'm not quite sure how he's allowed in public places without a chaperone and a crash helmet. You could make a thread about the color brown and he would somehow insert something about home renovations or how great he is with the ladies, then several posts later will bitch about his wife.

As for candles, dude; that's spot on. Low light/candles, good music, (If you need some new tunes, check out Chet Faker, Alex Claire, Two Feet, Hippie Sabotage, Glass Animals) and have your place smelling good (I use teak wood air diffusers from Bath and Body Works).

As for music...Im always down for new recommendations if any of you have some good ones....excluding country. Hard to set the mood with that garbage.
I love Yankee Candles. For Valentine's Day last year I went all out for the cunt I was seeing. Even took leftover Niteshades spray & hit my dining room bulbs for that dim look

Here is the playlist I currently use. Always get positive feedback from the ladies on my musical taste.

Alive Adelitas Way
Love In an Elevator Aerosmith
Walk This Way Aerosmith
Take On Me A-Ha
I Wanna The All-American Rejects
Love Shack B-52's
Can't Get Enough Bad Company
Body Movin' Beastie Boys
Colors Beck
Poison Bell Biv Devoe
I Gotta Feeling Black Eyed Peas
Boom Boom Pow Black Eyed Peas
No Diggity Blackstreet/Dr. Dre
Livin' on a prayer Bon Jovi
Let me Take you Home Tonight Boston
Grenade Bruno Mars
Locked Out Of Heaven Bruno Mars
Treasure Bruno Mars
Thats What I Like Bruno Mars
24K Magic Bruno Mars
Just What I Needed The Cars
Butterfly Crazy Town
Just Like Heaven The Cure
Pour Some Sugar on Me Def Leppard
Danza Kuduro (feat. Lucenzo) Don Omar
Paralyzer Finger Eleven
My House Flo Rida
Get Low Flo Rida ft. T-Pain
Right Round Flo-Rida feat. Kesha
Dirty White Boy Foreigner
Pony Ginuwine
Damn I Wish I Was Your Lover Halestorm
Take Me Home Tonight Hinder
Here Comes The Hotstepper Ini Kamoze
I Need You Tonight INXS
Laid James
CAN'T STOP THE FEELING! Justin Timberlake
Rock Your Body Justin Timberlake
Can't Get You Out Of My Head Kylie Minogue
Just Dance ft. Colby O'Donis Lady GaGa
I want you to want me Letters to Cleo
Doin' It LL Cool J
Party Rock Anthem LMFAO
Sexy and I Know It LMFAO
Fantasy Mariah Carey
Honey Mariah Carey
Uptown Funk (feat. Bruno Mars) Mark Ronson
Stutter Maroon 5
Kiwi Maroon 5
Love Somebody Maroon 5
Moves Like Jagger (feat. Christina Aguilera) [Studio Recording from The Voice Performance] Maroon 5
Lips on You Maroon 5
She Will Be Loved Maroon 5
Sunday Morning Maroon 5
Animals Maroon 5
the way you make me feel Michael Jackson
dont stop til you get enough Michael Jackson
Ride Wit Me feat. City Spud Nelly
Hot In Herre Nelly
Hella Good No Doubt
If You Leave OMD
Hey Ya! OutKast
Happy Pharrell Williams
Raise Your Glass Pink
Every Breath You Take The Police
1999 Prince
Let's Go Crazy Prince
I Would Walk 500 Miles Proclaimers
Blurred Lines Robin Thicke/T.I./Pharrell
Beast Of Burden The Rolling Stones
Crazy Seal
Boombastic (Prod By Sting International) Shaggy
It Wasn't Me Shaggy
Don't You (Forget About Me) Simple Minds
Santeria Sublime
Caress Me Down Sublime
Fly Sugar Ray
Shivering Gold Tove Lo
Stranger Tove Lo
Romantics (feat. Daye Jack) Tove Lo
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My Gun Tove Lo
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Got Love Tove Lo
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California Love (Original Version) Tupac
Mysterious Ways U2
Yeah! Usher
A Thousand Mile Vanessa Carlton
Shut Up and Dance Walk the Moon
Can't Feel My Face The Weeknd
(If You're Wondering If I Want You To) I Want You To Weezer
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The key is to be a bit of both. Be a manly man but also someone who cleans up nice and she isn't afraid to take to a family gathering or out to a nice restaurant.
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The key is to be a bit of both. Be a manly man but also someone who cleans up nice and she isn't afraid to take to a family gathering or out to a nice restaurant.
Very much this!
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I love Yankee Candles. For Valentine's Day last year I went all out for the cunt I was seeing. Even took leftover Niteshades spray & hit my dining room bulbs for that dim look

Here is the playlist I currently use. Always get positive feedback from the ladies on my musical taste.

Alive Adelitas Way
Love In an Elevator Aerosmith
Walk This Way Aerosmith
Take On Me A-Ha
I Wanna The All-American Rejects
Love Shack B-52's
Can't Get Enough Bad Company
Body Movin' Beastie Boys
Colors Beck
Poison Bell Biv Devoe
I Gotta Feeling Black Eyed Peas
Boom Boom Pow Black Eyed Peas
No Diggity Blackstreet/Dr. Dre
Livin' on a prayer Bon Jovi
Let me Take you Home Tonight Boston
Grenade Bruno Mars
Locked Out Of Heaven Bruno Mars
Treasure Bruno Mars
Thats What I Like Bruno Mars
24K Magic Bruno Mars
Just What I Needed The Cars
Butterfly Crazy Town
Just Like Heaven The Cure
Pour Some Sugar on Me Def Leppard
Danza Kuduro (feat. Lucenzo) Don Omar
Paralyzer Finger Eleven
My House Flo Rida
Get Low Flo Rida ft. T-Pain
Right Round Flo-Rida feat. Kesha
Dirty White Boy Foreigner
Pony Ginuwine
Damn I Wish I Was Your Lover Halestorm
Take Me Home Tonight Hinder
Here Comes The Hotstepper Ini Kamoze
I Need You Tonight INXS
Laid James
CAN'T STOP THE FEELING! Justin Timberlake
Rock Your Body Justin Timberlake
Can't Get You Out Of My Head Kylie Minogue
Just Dance ft. Colby O'Donis Lady GaGa
I want you to want me Letters to Cleo
Doin' It LL Cool J
Party Rock Anthem LMFAO
Sexy and I Know It LMFAO
Fantasy Mariah Carey
Honey Mariah Carey
Uptown Funk (feat. Bruno Mars) Mark Ronson
Stutter Maroon 5
Kiwi Maroon 5
Love Somebody Maroon 5
Moves Like Jagger (feat. Christina Aguilera) [Studio Recording from The Voice Performance] Maroon 5
Lips on You Maroon 5
She Will Be Loved Maroon 5
Sunday Morning Maroon 5
Animals Maroon 5
the way you make me feel Michael Jackson
dont stop til you get enough Michael Jackson
Ride Wit Me feat. City Spud Nelly
Hot In Herre Nelly
Hella Good No Doubt
If You Leave OMD
Hey Ya! OutKast
Happy Pharrell Williams
Raise Your Glass Pink
Every Breath You Take The Police
1999 Prince
Let's Go Crazy Prince
I Would Walk 500 Miles Proclaimers
Blurred Lines Robin Thicke/T.I./Pharrell
Beast Of Burden The Rolling Stones
Crazy Seal
Boombastic (Prod By Sting International) Shaggy
It Wasn't Me Shaggy
Don't You (Forget About Me) Simple Minds
Santeria Sublime
Caress Me Down Sublime
Fly Sugar Ray
Shivering Gold Tove Lo
Stranger Tove Lo
Romantics (feat. Daye Jack) Tove Lo
Lady Wood Tove Lo
Vibes Tove Lo
My Gun Tove Lo
Talking Body Tove Lo
Got Love Tove Lo
Paradise Tove Lo
California Love (Original Version) Tupac
Mysterious Ways U2
Yeah! Usher
A Thousand Mile Vanessa Carlton
Shut Up and Dance Walk the Moon
Can't Feel My Face The Weeknd
(If You're Wondering If I Want You To) I Want You To Weezer
That's one hell of a list there sir. Some gems in there.
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Here is the playlist I currently use. Always get positive feedback from the ladies on my musical taste.

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Santeria Sublime
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A song about hunting down your ex-girlfriend's new man and shoving a .45 down his throat? Que romantico..

I truly love how little people listen to Sublime's lyrics. "Wrong way" is absolutely amazing. Take a song about banging a 12 year old prostitute and put it to a poppy beat and suddenly I'm hearing it on the "Hits of 90s" bullsh*t ez-listening station in my dentists' office. Dude, is no one hearing these lyrics? I'm thinking to myself as I'm trying not to laugh as I look around the room and see middle aged women bobbing their heads and tapping their toes to the catchy beat.
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A song about hunting down your ex-girlfriend's new man and shoving a .45 down his throat? Que romantico..

I truly love how little people listen to Sublime's lyrics. "Wrong way" is absolutely amazing. Take a song about banging a 12 year old prostitute and put it to a poppy beat and suddenly I'm hearing it on the "Hits of 90s" bullsh*t ez-listening station in my dentists' office. Dude, is no one hearing these lyrics? I'm thinking to myself as I'm trying not to laugh as I look around the room and see middle aged women bobbing their heads and tapping their toes to the catchy beat.
EMF's Unbelievable is a great one that no one knows the lyrics to. Most used F-bomb in public as no one picks up on it. After the chorus during the guitar riff there is a sample of a man saying "What the fuck.....was that? It's unblelievable." For decades no one has got it.
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EMF's Unbelievable is a great one that no one knows the lyrics to. Most used F-bomb in public as no one picks up on it. After the chorus during the guitar riff there is a sample of a man saying "What the fuck.....was that? It's unblelievable." For decades no one has got it.
Rad! Just Googled the lyrics. I had no idea. Love that!
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Rad! Just Googled the lyrics. I had no idea. Love that!
My mom bought me the cassette for Christmas when I was a teenager and the lyrics were inside the sleeve. I've told people about this for years. I always get cracked up at sporting events seeing holier than thou people dancing and trying to sing it and they have no idea that subliminal profanity is hard at work here.
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Just deleted the bumble account I had too...

It proved my earlier point... way easier and more efficient to just being open to real life i.e. open to eye contact and impromptu conversations when you're out. Sure, an interesting conversation that leads to number exchanging and a "date" may happen once a month, but isn't that what happens on these apps anyway? At least in real life you've already seen the person and know if they're fat or disfuncional on first impressions.

I got one in these 10 days. That's good enough.
The bullshit makes it not worth it.
One of my best friends hit #30 this past weekend. His strategy? Just chat to girls in real life about anything. His favorite spot are coffee shops where he will study or do some personal work then strike up conversation. He will date girls for several weeks then dip when he gets bored.

He hasn't done Tinder or any apps in over 3 years.
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Just deleted the bumble account I had too...

It proved my earlier point... way easier and more efficient to just being open to real life i.e. open to eye contact and impromptu conversations when you're out. Sure, an interesting conversation that leads to number exchanging and a "date" may happen once a month, but isn't that what happens on these apps anyway? At least in real life you've already seen the person and know if they're fat or disfuncional on first impressions.

I got one in these 10 days. That's good enough.
The bullshit makes it not worth it.
One of my best friends hit #30 this past weekend. His strategy? Just chat to girls in real life about anything. His favorite spot are coffee shops where he will study or do some personal work then strike up conversation. He will date girls for several weeks then dip when he gets bored.

He hasn't done Tinder or any apps in over 3 years.
That's what I'm talking about.
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One of my best friends hit #30 this past weekend. His strategy? Just chat to girls in real life about anything. His favorite spot are coffee shops where he will study or do some personal work then strike up conversation. He will date girls for several weeks then dip when he gets bored.

He hasn't done Tinder or any apps in over 3 years.
Dip aka ghost?
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One of my best friends hit #30 this past weekend. His strategy? Just chat to girls in real life about anything. His favorite spot are coffee shops where he will study or do some personal work then strike up conversation. He will date girls for several weeks then dip when he gets bored.

He hasn't done Tinder or any apps in over 3 years.
Dip aka ghost?
Sounds like an a-hole to be honest.
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you guys remember that bdsm chick, right?
she says she did that because she thought respect comes through power and control of someone (red flag 1) and "figured" i dont respect her (literally until she confessed that it was fine) and that's why she tried to pull that shit off (red flag 31000000)

10/10 will lead some poor dude to shoot himself in the balls one day because of her antics

"fool me once, shame on you. fool me twice, shame on me" ---> applies because i truly have an issue with crazy chicks i keep on attracting them and/or being attracted. what might be wrong with me?
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you guys remember that bdsm chick, right?
she says she did that because she thought respect comes through power and control of someone (red flag 1) and "figured" i dont respect her (literally until she confessed that it was fine) and that's why she tried to pull that shit off (red flag 31000000)

10/10 will lead some poor dude to shoot himself in the balls one day because of her antics

"fool me once, shame on you. fool me twice, shame on me" ---> applies because i truly have an issue with crazy chicks i keep on attracting them and/or being attracted. what might be wrong with me?
We're programmed to be attracted by the crazy. The crazier they are, the harder we fall for them.

Nothing is wrong with you...
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One of my best friends hit #30 this past weekend. His strategy? Just chat to girls in real life about anything. His favorite spot are coffee shops where he will study or do some personal work then strike up conversation. He will date girls for several weeks then dip when he gets bored.

He hasn't done Tinder or any apps in over 3 years.
I see your signature says you are from the NW and the Midwest. Wondering which of those locations your friend is from? I can see his technique being a goldmine in the midwest and failing miserably in the NW. Around here (Seattle) people are generally the most unfriendly and closed off of anywhere I have lived or visited. No one will look you in the eye. Any coffee shop you enter is a sea of people with headphones on, watching their electronic devices, shutting out the whole world. People legitimately give you the look of death if you even talk to them and say "hello." I grew up in Seattle and never knew any different. It wasnt until I started traveling extensively for work that I realized something was off. I still remember this chick striking up a conversation with me while in the TSA line at the airport. She was very friendly and pretty and my immediate gut reaction was to think "F*uck off, why are you talking to me? I'm in a hurry, no one likes the security line, I'm irritated, and you're chatting me up about nothing?" She said she was headed home to Chicago. I retold the story to a friend who grew up in the Chicago area and that's when he enlightened me that Seattle is pretty much F'd." I never knew!

So anyway, curious if your buddy who cleans up with the women in coffee shops by just chatting and being real is from Chicago or the NW.
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One of my best friends hit #30 this past weekend. His strategy? Just chat to girls in real life about anything. His favorite spot are coffee shops where he will study or do some personal work then strike up conversation. He will date girls for several weeks then dip when he gets bored.

He hasn't done Tinder or any apps in over 3 years.
I see your signature says you are from the NW and the Midwest. Wondering which of those locations your friend is from? I can see his technique being a goldmine in the midwest and failing miserably in the NW. Around here (Seattle) people are generally the most unfriendly and closed off of anywhere I have lived or visited. No one will look you in the eye. Any coffee shop you enter is a sea of people with headphones on, watching their electronic devices, shutting out the whole world. People legitimately give you the look of death if you even talk to them and say "hello." I grew up in Seattle and never knew any different. It wasnt until I started traveling extensively for work that I realized something was off. I still remember this chick striking up a conversation with me while in the TSA line at the airport. She was very friendly and pretty and my immediate gut reaction was to think "F*uck off, why are you talking to me? I'm in a hurry, no one likes the security line, I'm irritated, and you're chatting me up about nothing?" She said she was headed home to Chicago. I retold the story to a friend who grew up in the Chicago area and that's when he enlightened me that Seattle is pretty much F'd." I never knew!

So anyway, curious if your buddy who cleans up with the women in coffee shops by just chatting and being real is from Chicago or the NW.
This would be the case in New England as well. Women are extremely difficult to approach here.

On a related note one of my friends is having lots of interesting matches on Tinder. Literally 4/5 of his matches are with poly women. I didn't realize this was so popular. One of their profiles says "in a happy long term relationship with 4 other amazing guys but open to more". I was like dude RUN from that one. She wasn't even super attractive or anything.
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This would be the case in New England as well. Women are extremely difficult to approach here.

On a related note one of my friends is having lots of interesting matches on Tinder. Literally 4/5 of his matches are with poly women. I didn't realize this was so popular. One of their profiles says "in a happy long term relationship with 4 other amazing guys but open to more". I was like dude RUN from that one. She wasn't even super attractive or anything.
I lived in the Boston area for 7 years; as bad as NE was it was nothing like Seattle! NE was hard to develop deep, real, relationships. At least in Boston you could always open with "Hey, you catch that game (Sox, Pats, Bruins, Celtics) last night?" and there was about a 95% chance the persona would answer "yes" and you're in.
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