Need some honest advice :(

shimshimhada · 12-19-2005, 12:33 AM

I need some advice on what could be a life changing decision.

I've suspected for some time now that my girlfriend has been having an affair. The usual signs. Phone rings, I answer, someone hangs up.

She started going out 'with the girls' a lot recently although when I ask which girls it is always "Just some friends from work, you don't know them."

I always look out for her car coming home but she always walks down the drive although I can hear another car setting off. As if she has got out of the car round the corner. Why? Is it not her car?

When she comes home her hair is different than when she left and she smells of more perfume than when she left....is she trying to cover up the scent of another man? I saw once her pants had a white stain on them, she said it was ranch dressing from the salad she had at dinner with "the girls."

I once picked her cell phone up just to see what time it was and she went berserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her.

Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my girlfriend. I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her.

I decided I was going to hide behind my car which would give me a view of the whole street so I could see which car she gets out of. It was while I was crouched behind my car that I noticed rust around my rear wheel arch and under the side skirt.

Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from the local auto shop and try to repair it myself?

BMW F22 · 12-19-2005, 12:37 AM

LOL man you are funny!!!

nabutes · 12-19-2005, 12:54 AM

hahahahahaha.....

Curt3s · 12-19-2005, 01:13 AM

Good one.

Asiann · 12-19-2005, 01:48 AM

You almost had me on that one. Pretty good though!

diesel007 · 12-19-2005, 01:56 AM

hehe, good one. I was really starting to feel bad for you.

Enroutte · 12-19-2005, 01:56 AM

lol DUDEEE while reading it i had this WHOLE SCHPEEEL ON HOW UR GF WAS CHEATING ON YOU. pshh!! youre funny.

SCA · 12-19-2005, 06:40 AM

lmao...

The car has a rust warranty for 7-10 years (don't remember which one). I would mention it to your dealer.

Just an idea, but if she resides with you I would find a way to check her cell phone call list (dialed and received). Hopefully she hasn't thought that far ahead and deleted the stored info.

shimshimhada · 12-19-2005, 07:04 AM

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Originally Posted by SCA

lmao...

The car has a rust warranty for 7-10 years (don't remember which one). I would mention it to your dealer.

Just an idea, but if she resides with you I would find a way to check her cell phone call list (dialed and received). Hopefully she hasn't thought that far ahead and deleted the stored info.

It's a joke

BeemMeUp · 12-19-2005, 07:07 AM

I would get both of them fixed.....You had me going too...

SCA · 12-19-2005, 07:10 AM

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Originally Posted by shimshimhada

It's a joke

It was so detailed you would have thought otherwise.

Broken1 · 12-19-2005, 07:35 AM

haha...that was good :-)

scottz5 · 12-19-2005, 07:37 AM

haha run her over and show her the rust up close!

davinet78 · 12-19-2005, 08:38 AM

very good one you had me on there
lol

Cory1000 · 12-19-2005, 09:01 AM

that was fucking awsome!!

the*saint* · 12-19-2005, 10:02 PM

I got to hand it to you. Very well done!

shimshimhada · 12-19-2005, 10:06 PM

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Originally Posted by the*saint*

I got to hand it to you. Very well done!

I would like to take credit, but it's someone else's work. I laughed profusely the first time I read it.

puck724 · 12-19-2005, 11:24 PM

LOL..that was awesome man!!

fyi- if you wnat to know who shes calling just get a hold of her phone bill...lol..

northerncalguy · 12-20-2005, 01:34 AM

I was going to recommend Joey Grieco on Cheaters, but now I am thinking BMW rust warrantee administration department??? Crazzy!

Arby 330 · 12-20-2005, 01:59 AM

lol... thats hilarious. I was starting to be like "man ur getting played"... LOL GOT ME U FUCKER

BellasBmw · 12-20-2005, 02:16 AM

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Originally Posted by puck724

LOL..that was awesome man!!

fyi- if you wnat to know who shes calling just get a hold of her phone bill...lol..

Hmm, i wonder who you're talking about?!

Wow, that story got me.. i was sooo into it. I was even thinking of my response while i was reading it. The dr.phil in me almost came out

Xens · 12-20-2005, 03:25 AM

LOL, got me. I was already searching for things to say half way through the story, haha.

12-19-2005, 12:33 AM	#1
shimshimhada Brigadier General 442 Rep 4,838 Posts Drives: Portal Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Portal iTrader: (2)	Need some honest advice :( I need some advice on what could be a life changing decision. I've suspected for some time now that my girlfriend has been having an affair. The usual signs. Phone rings, I answer, someone hangs up. She started going out 'with the girls' a lot recently although when I ask which girls it is always "Just some friends from work, you don't know them." I always look out for her car coming home but she always walks down the drive although I can hear another car setting off. As if she has got out of the car round the corner. Why? Is it not her car? When she comes home her hair is different than when she left and she smells of more perfume than when she left....is she trying to cover up the scent of another man? I saw once her pants had a white stain on them, she said it was ranch dressing from the salad she had at dinner with "the girls." I once picked her cell phone up just to see what time it was and she went berserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her. Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my girlfriend. I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her. I decided I was going to hide behind my car which would give me a view of the whole street so I could see which car she gets out of. It was while I was crouched behind my car that I noticed rust around my rear wheel arch and under the side skirt. Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from the local auto shop and try to repair it myself?
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SCA Brigadier General 565 Rep 3,742 Posts Drives: Multiple BMWs Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: 🇺🇸 iTrader: (0)	lmao... The car has a rust warranty for 7-10 years (don't remember which one). I would mention it to your dealer. Just an idea, but if she resides with you I would find a way to check her cell phone call list (dialed and received). Hopefully she hasn't thought that far ahead and deleted the stored info.
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