Why Men and Women Can't Be JUST Friends

Uber V8 · 12-12-2011, 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted by BTM

Can be friends with average looking chicks that you get along with, but aren't physically attracted to. Just don't get drunk with them if they're attracted to you, because then you'll end up fucking

Which goes back to the main point.

"There may be ugly girls out there, but pussy doesn't have a face"

choicez · 12-12-2011, 02:41 PM

Men and women can be friends if the friendship was established in the workplace.

M3Bahn · 12-12-2011, 02:52 PM

Then there's the "WTF, you really aren't attracted to me?" lets get it on chick.

carve · 12-12-2011, 02:56 PM

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Originally Posted by FwdFtl

And the average looking female friends never onced crossed your mind if anything else was there? Come on be honest...

No- I'm sure it happens a lot where "friends" become more- it just isn't a requirement.

I married my female just-a-friend. But we'd known each other for years and were basically best friends by that point and decided to take it further. I've had plenty of other female friends before and since then where I wasn't interested in being anything more. My female friends are typically fellow engineering type nerds, usually a coworker, who I can geek out with.

Wakka · 12-12-2011, 02:57 PM

I have some friends that are girls... they are butt ass ugly, or fat though. something no man would want to fuck, that seems to be their problem... the usually want to fuck me too. so i guess it goes both ways.

matthewk · 12-12-2011, 03:11 PM

The comedy of this thread is amazing. "If she ugly we can just be friends", the people on this form must all have nothing br runway model magazine spread type GF/Hookup's/Exs... I bet at least in this aforementioned point, reality is likely very different from the boisterous propaganda within this thread.

Oh yeah, I agree, men and women cannot be friends. Harry had that one right.

BTM · 12-12-2011, 03:26 PM

^^ WTF are you talking about...no one in here posted they only fuck models and perfect 10s. They just posted that a friendship with a girl has the best chance if you aren't physically attracted to them.

matthewk · 12-12-2011, 03:40 PM

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Originally Posted by BTM

^^ WTF are you talking about...no one in here posted they only fuck models and perfect 10s. They just posted that a friendship with a girl has the best chance if you aren't physically attracted to them.

You're right, it was just my interpertation of many of the threads like these.

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Originally Posted by BTM

Just don't get drunk with them if they're attracted to you, because then you'll end up fucking

^^^ this is totally true.

Uber V8 · 12-12-2011, 03:51 PM

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Originally Posted by choicez

Men and women can be friends if the friendship was established in the workplace.

This was proven untrue by personal experience. Thank God she was a temp.

BMWinNorthdakota · 12-12-2011, 07:11 PM

There needs to be a poll For TT

NYCGP · 12-12-2011, 07:30 PM

Everyone is making this more complicated than it needs to be. Men have penises. Women have vaginas. That's why men and women can't be just friends.

scollins · 12-13-2011, 12:19 AM

The only way it works, is if the guy is gay......

Inspired · 12-13-2011, 12:29 AM

Kind of sad when I think about it, but it is quite true. Especially when you want to be close friends. The girl and the guy gotta find each other attractive in some aspect.

NYCGP · 12-13-2011, 08:15 AM

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Originally Posted by twinturbo335

Kind of sad when I think about it, but it is quite true. Especially when you want to be close friends. The girl and the guy gotta find each other attractive in some aspect.

Call me a bad person, but, I don't have any ugly friends. Fat people depress me too.. I am superficial in that way.

I mean I am "friendly" with them... but not necessarily friends.

yakev724 · 12-13-2011, 08:37 AM

It's definitely skewed.

You tell/show a girl (who's clearly interested in you) that you're not interested and she won't be hanging around, sometimes gives you shit for it. Guys otoh are willing to invest for a chance at hooking up and this just spoils girls into constantly being in one-sided friendships with most guy friends and expecting that sort of attention.

Only girls I've been able to keep a friendship with are gfs/exs of friends. I've never been good at 'investing', makes the future relationship too complicated.

sanf · 12-13-2011, 10:03 AM

if the girl is avg or above. no chance of being just friends.

silvermist99 · 12-13-2011, 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

Yeah but I havent given him the chance so it will never happen,.. resulting in us staying just friends.

yes its possible with the situation Sara in. It is possible because those guys will stick around for a very long time/forever, they don't know how to hook up with other girls and friends zone is better than nothing. By the time they learned how to pick up a girl, they'll probably be deep into the friend zone anyways. Speaking from experience from the single guy friends I have who is stuck in this stage... they're too chicken to make a move.

I've been telling them to just hit it... girls want to be with a man that is gentle to them but at the same time manly to others and make majority of the decisions

Sara · 12-13-2011, 11:10 AM

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Originally Posted by silvermist99

yes its possible with the situation Sara in. It is possible because those guys will stick around for a very long time/forever, they don't know how to hook up with other girls and friends zone is better than nothing. By the time they learned how to pick up a girl, they'll probably be deep into the friend zone anyways. Speaking from experience from the single guy friends I have who is stuck in this stage... they're too chicken to make a move.

I've been telling them to just hit it... girls want to be with a man that is gentle to them but at the same time manly to others and make majority of the decisions

See Ive been great friends with the person for over a year now. He talks about his girl issues with me/ I talk about my guy issues with him so we know that we arent into each like the way we are with other people. But we have so much in common that we're always together just not in "that" type of way.

UltimateBMW · 12-13-2011, 11:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

See Ive been great friends with the person for over a year now. He talks about his girl issues with me/ I talk about my guy issues with him so we know that we arent into each like the way we are with other people. But we have so much in common that we're always together just not in "that" type of way.

Test it then, ask if he is dtf and you'll get your answer.

$10 say he is.

Blayne · 12-13-2011, 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by UltimateBMW

Test it then, ask if he is dtf and you'll get your answer.

$10 say he is.

i got $10 on that to

Wakka · 12-13-2011, 11:50 AM

ill put $50 on it

silvermist99 · 12-13-2011, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

See Ive been great friends with the person for over a year now. He talks about his girl issues with me/ I talk about my guy issues with him so we know that we arent into each like the way we are with other people. But we have so much in common that we're always together just not in "that" type of way.

Yes thats what I was talking about, he is probably still attracted to you but don't care since there are other girls he is hitting on so friends zone is fine. Other men on this thread are saying if he gets a opportunity to hookup with you, he will which is probably true. But you won't let this happen since he is in your friends zone which is also true.

What will you do/do you think will happen if, one day he gets sick and tired of the drama he is having with other girls and tries to hook up with you... I'm just curious, since I know a lot of man right now wants to do this but scared to... including many of my guy friends lol

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yakev724 Brigadier General 231 Rep 3,561 Posts Drives: 15 S3 Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: NYC iTrader: (49)	It's definitely skewed. You tell/show a girl (who's clearly interested in you) that you're not interested and she won't be hanging around, sometimes gives you shit for it. Guys otoh are willing to invest for a chance at hooking up and this just spoils girls into constantly being in one-sided friendships with most guy friends and expecting that sort of attention. Only girls I've been able to keep a friendship with are gfs/exs of friends. I've never been good at 'investing', makes the future relationship too complicated.
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