I dont understand this girl???

Taittinger · 11-19-2007, 05:02 PM

Are women meant to be understood by men?

JOSG328I · 11-19-2007, 05:04 PM

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Originally Posted by 335rocket

she cute. seems like a cool girl. I would go out with her again. Ill see what happens. I just wish she made her feelings more clear. I def think she has her guard up. Dont really think its me

I think I know what is wrong with her.... She is a female that is whats wrong.

Just play it cool and don't get all mushy over her you are young and should always keep the options open. Talking to one girl doesn't mean you can't talk to others, and if she comes around sweet if not you have other ladies to pursue.

335rocket · 11-19-2007, 05:06 PM

lol, thats EXACTLY what my father said to me

T-MC-G · 11-19-2007, 05:12 PM

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Originally Posted by JOSG328I

I think I know what is wrong with her.... She is a female that is whats wrong.

Just play it cool and don't get all mushy over her you are young and should always keep the options open. Talking to one girl doesn't mean you can't talk to others, and if she comes around sweet if not you have other ladies to pursue.

haha, planting seeds

335rocket · 11-19-2007, 05:15 PM

f*ckin women are the ONLY thing that ads stress and heart ache to my life. But Ima dick, I let it

toofasttooslow · 11-19-2007, 05:16 PM

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Originally Posted by ianbiz

she wants to be your friend

+1 welcome to the 'just firends' club

B Smooth · 11-19-2007, 05:28 PM

Where is she from? I have a friend that just broke up with her bf like 2 and half months ago, and she is on match and just went out with someone. Hahah, that would be an INCREDIBLY small world! However, im on Long Island, and she is in Suffolk.

JOSG328I · 11-19-2007, 05:29 PM

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Originally Posted by T-MC-G

haha, planting seeds

Johnny Appleseed is the way to go. But watch out for the one seed that gets away and grows into a tree then comes back to tangle you up in its branches.

I like to call that seed the "damned seed" cause it grows into what I call the wife tree.

335rocket · 11-19-2007, 05:30 PM

hahahaha!!! that would be insane. Shes from Nausau county

Spool · 11-19-2007, 06:39 PM

She's using you as a back up, and is probably still sleeping with her ex...

they're probably doing it right now. Not something u wanna hear, but that's life man...

Josh49 · 11-19-2007, 07:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Spool

She's using you as a back up, and is probably still sleeping with her ex...

they're probably doing it right now. Not something u wanna hear, but that's life man...

^^^the troof, yo

aapriadi · 11-19-2007, 09:03 PM

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Originally Posted by darkcloud

just out of curiosity, but why are you looking for someone on match? You're a young guy just like most of us. You shouldn't have trouble meeting someone. I'm not trying to be an ass or anything just wondering.

dude i am having trouble meeting someone, help me please :sad0147:

help me detail my car, i mean

TheLegacy · 11-19-2007, 09:34 PM

women are just crazy. Been single for a bit over 4 months now, gone on a bunch of dates and I dont dig so much and others are just whacked out rofl.

!Xoible · 11-19-2007, 09:37 PM

first of all do not try to understand a girl. seriously. it's only headache and waste of time.

maybe she wanted to give u another shot, or maybe she talked to a girl friend of hers and she talked her into talking to you again or something.

as long as you know what YOU want act based on that, not based on your predictions of what she wants.

g'luck

!Xoible · 11-19-2007, 09:37 PM

btw

renegade · 11-19-2007, 09:45 PM

Man if I were you I'd put her on the back burner...just give her the silent treatment and if she's interested she'll come back around and correct, but you need to stop being available to her for every aim convo/txt msg./ etc. Let her get the feeling that you're a busy man and don't have time to waste if that's what she's about.

335rocket · 11-19-2007, 10:39 PM

makes the most sense. Im gonna def put her on the back burner. Women say were complex, their 10000% more complex than we are. Dating is frustrating, aggrevating, time consuming, and one big headache

Neil · 11-19-2007, 10:45 PM

go to match.com and trade her in for a new one

cmega412 · 11-19-2007, 11:21 PM

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Originally Posted by 335rocket

yeah, because she did say she was hesitant at first to start dating again.

I'm wondering how that whole match.com thing works. I meet girls all the time but never really seem to take it to the relationship level, seems like I can't find a girl who wants a commitment that I could put up with. Isn't match suppose to well match you up or something.

Alpine · 11-20-2007, 12:18 AM

Seems to me like you expected to hit it off perfectly and make a commitment on the first date. It doesn't exactly work that way if you want a REAL relationship. As far as her reactions go...who knows what she's thinking. As guys we're never gonna know or understand for that matter. Just chill... be yourself, be the guy she was interested in on match (hopefully the real you). The best, longest, strongest relationships are built on a solid friendship, similar interests, and just enjoying each others company. Building all those takes time, but it doesn't have to be an 'agonizing wait.' Getting to know each other better is the fun part. If you go out again, take her somewhere fun where you can both let go and be goofy. The ladies like that, and it takes the awkwardness out for the most part.

phantom330 · 11-20-2007, 10:03 AM

she's playing hard to get and wants to be chased. DON'T do it or you'll just push her away. Blow her off a little, don't respond to messages for a few days and she'll come around. No kiss on first date is bad sign. Why on Match? Can't meet girls in person?

Just kidding, hope it works out.

txusa03 · 11-20-2007, 10:17 AM

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Originally Posted by 335rocket

makes the most sense. Im gonna def put her on the back burner. Women say were complex, their 10000% more complex than we are. Dating is frustrating, aggrevating, time consuming, and one big headache

dude, you forgot the most important thing, dating is also $$$, unless the girl pay for the date

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335rocket Captain 119 Rep 890 Posts Drives: 2013 F30 328i sport Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Westchester, NY iTrader: (0)	f*ckin women are the ONLY thing that ads stress and heart ache to my life. But Ima dick, I let it __________________ 2013 F30 328i Mineral Grey/Everest Grey leather/sport line/8 auto/premium package/lighting package/navi/heated seats
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B Smooth Private 1 Rep 81 Posts Drives: 07 335i Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: NY iTrader: (0)	Where is she from? I have a friend that just broke up with her bf like 2 and half months ago, and she is on match and just went out with someone. Hahah, that would be an INCREDIBLY small world! However, im on Long Island, and she is in Suffolk.
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335rocket Captain 119 Rep 890 Posts Drives: 2013 F30 328i sport Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Westchester, NY iTrader: (0)	makes the most sense. Im gonna def put her on the back burner. Women say were complex, their 10000% more complex than we are. Dating is frustrating, aggrevating, time consuming, and one big headache __________________ 2013 F30 328i Mineral Grey/Everest Grey leather/sport line/8 auto/premium package/lighting package/navi/heated seats
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Alpine Major 47 Rep 1,433 Posts Drives: e90 330i Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Nashville, TN iTrader: (5) Garage List 2006 330i [0.00]	Seems to me like you expected to hit it off perfectly and make a commitment on the first date. It doesn't exactly work that way if you want a REAL relationship. As far as her reactions go...who knows what she's thinking. As guys we're never gonna know or understand for that matter. Just chill... be yourself, be the guy she was interested in on match (hopefully the real you). The best, longest, strongest relationships are built on a solid friendship, similar interests, and just enjoying each others company. Building all those takes time, but it doesn't have to be an 'agonizing wait.' Getting to know each other better is the fun part. If you go out again, take her somewhere fun where you can both let go and be goofy. The ladies like that, and it takes the awkwardness out for the most part. __________________
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phantom330 Captain 18 Rep 892 Posts Drives: e93 335i Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: OH iTrader: (0)	she's playing hard to get and wants to be chased. DON'T do it or you'll just push her away. Blow her off a little, don't respond to messages for a few days and she'll come around. No kiss on first date is bad sign. Why on Match? Can't meet girls in person? Just kidding, hope it works out.
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