Dating a chick with nood pix?

Comet · 04-15-2011, 07:04 AM

Say you've been dating a chick for a few weeks and she's awesome and everything

you then find out that she has either:
a) a porn video
b) she has naked pictures and they are well known
and this was brought to your attention by one of your friends.

how would you feel knowing that all your friends have seen your gf naked and/or taking a dick? Would you dump her?

and if you found out that one of your friends has such a girl, would you tell him? would you jerk off to his gf's porn video?

NYCGP · 04-15-2011, 07:05 AM

awww skeet skeet..

fun ticket · 04-15-2011, 07:16 AM

Depends. You in it for potential long term? If so, is that the type of chick you want for that; could be a rocky road....personally, I would dump her. If not for long term, wrap it, have fun for a while and move on to the next.

escobar929 · 04-15-2011, 07:18 AM

i would keep banging her, taking more pics of her, making as many movies as I could, then dump her

Comet · 04-15-2011, 07:23 AM

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Originally Posted by fun ticket

Depends. You in it for potential long term? If so, is that the type of chick you want for that; could be a rocky road....personally, I would dump her. If not for long term, wrap it, have fun for a while and move on to the next.

say it was semi serious
like your friends all met her, and you guys watch the notebook or some gay ass movie like that often..
Think "Girl Next Door" (the movie) scenario

you find out the girl has this deep dark secret where she was in a porno, erotic photography or stripper
and your friends have ALL seen her naked

jaco · 04-15-2011, 07:39 AM

If the girl is hot.... Add to her online collection after the breakup.

Freakazoid · 04-15-2011, 08:09 AM

i could never, ever do a long term relationship with the girl.

BTM · 04-15-2011, 08:16 AM

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Originally Posted by escobar929

i would keep banging her, taking more pics of her, making as many movies as I could, then dump her

this

ragingclue · 04-15-2011, 08:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Comet

Say you've been dating a chick for a few weeks and she's awesome and everything

you then find out that she has either:
a) a porn video
b) she has naked pictures and they are well known
and this was brought to your attention by one of your friends.

how would you feel knowing that all your friends have seen your gf naked and/or taking a dick? Would you dump her?

and if you found out that one of your friends has such a girl, would you tell him? would you jerk off to his gf's porn video?

There are multiple facets to the situation here. In all reality, you should stay with her if you feel it's all worth it. I personally would have no problems with the solo pics and whatnot, but taking dick is a different story. It all depends on your comfortability level.

If you found out one of your friends does have a girl like this, you don't really have any duty to tell him, but yeah it would be weird as shit to fap to that. I wouldn't be able to.

Anyway, any pics or links to share to help with the advice?

Comet · 04-15-2011, 08:25 AM

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Originally Posted by ragingclue

Anyway, any pics or links to share to help with the advice?

nope
just a random thread idea which I don't think was covered

random girls for people who expected pictures

kyleb350 · 04-15-2011, 08:32 AM

Surprised no one has told you to post them yet

Comet · 04-15-2011, 08:34 AM

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Originally Posted by kyleb350

Surprised no one has told you to post them yet

OT knows I know OT's rules..
I deliver when required/possbile

fun ticket · 04-15-2011, 08:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Comet

say it was semi serious
like your friends all met her, and you guys watch the notebook or some gay ass movie like that often..
Think "Girl Next Door" (the movie) scenario

you find out the girl has this deep dark secret where she was in a porno, erotic photography or stripper
and your friends have ALL seen her naked

Having hung out with or whatever you want to call it, a stripper, I can tell you the following:

1. Can be uber fun at times
2. Forget any type of rational thinking and/or behavior
3. Not someone you introduce to mama, business associates, etc.
4. At times, you will be frustrated far beyond anything you can ever imagine; late to dates, forgets dates, drama this/drama that like you can't believe, give me money, etc.....
5. I WOULD NEVER CONSIDER A LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP WITH HER

At the end of the day, play with your girl for awhile, take some pics for memory lane (post them here) and move on to something more productive. Thats the best I can offer.

vig · 04-15-2011, 09:19 AM

ehh i wouldnt ever go long term with her.. not a good idea in my book

BlackMoupe · 04-15-2011, 09:35 AM

Go to your parents house to introduce her, once you are in the door shout "DAD I BROUGHT THE STRIPPERS" proceed to get slapped, problem solved.

NYCGP · 04-15-2011, 09:55 AM

I don't know. Everyone is different. Over the last year or so I have slept with a handful of strippers. I will (rarely) take one out with me to a club to guarantee some good sex after a night out. My friends will meet them. Majority know the deal though.. My friends are often there when I meet them for the first time.

Would i legit date/get serious with one of them? No fucking way. But I would certainly get the most out of the situation. If it bothers you now, it will bother you forever. Have your fun, move on.

McMuffin · 04-15-2011, 09:58 AM

An old buddy of mine dated a porn star for 4 years. She spoiled that SOB rotten!!! They're no longer together, she caught him fucking another girl IN HER HOUSE!

Verbiage · 04-15-2011, 10:00 AM

Lol. If you really like her then you could TRY to make it work. At least you know she is definitely experienced.

I'd keep her if she could cook. I yearn for a woman who cooks delicious food.

ToothDoc · 04-15-2011, 10:06 AM

What's the big deal? If you like her and she likes you, why not give it a chance? From the responses I see, I'm guessing most of you guys are in your 20s. I'm in my 30s and have a wife and 3 kids and have been married for over 12 years now. At this point, all that matters is that I get laid, she's a good mom, wife doesn't spend everything I make, and that we just get along. If she were a previous porn star or had previous pictures or videos, I could care less (not that she has any - besides the ones I took).

nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn · 04-15-2011, 10:26 AM

My friend was married to a porn star. I emphasize was.

CollinsE90 · 04-15-2011, 10:42 AM

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Originally Posted by McMuffin

An old buddy of mine dated a porn star for 4 years. She spoiled that SOB rotten!!! They're no longer together, she caught him fucking another girl IN HER HOUSE!

Hey honey, this is where you come in and act mad but decide to join in.

grieverr · 04-15-2011, 10:45 AM

I think staying with her would depend on how you view nudity (and I guess maturity level too). I have seen some of my buddies gf's boobs and butts. Some by accident, some while being drunk and silly. And vice versa, some have seen my girl's boobs. And yea, it's a free peep show for a few minutes, but none of us are fapping to each other's girls or trying to see them naked again. And we respect each other and understand that it was just us being carried away, and nothing has come from it.

If you and your friends have that kind of relationship, then I think it shouldn't matter if she has nudes out there. Believe me, the novelty will wear off and the ones that may keep her images in mind are the jealous ones that want her.

If you really like this girl and it may lead to something, I wouldn't penalize her for that. We've all done things in our past.

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NYCGP WTF are you looking at? 232 Rep 1,560 Posts Drives: Bandwagon Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Jungle iTrader: (0)	I don't know. Everyone is different. Over the last year or so I have slept with a handful of strippers. I will (rarely) take one out with me to a club to guarantee some good sex after a night out. My friends will meet them. Majority know the deal though.. My friends are often there when I meet them for the first time. Would i legit date/get serious with one of them? No fucking way. But I would certainly get the most out of the situation. If it bothers you now, it will bother you forever. Have your fun, move on. __________________ "It is better to be hated for what you are than loved for what you are not." -André Gide
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Verbiage Dismembered Member 3583 Rep 9,213 Posts Drives: F80 ZCP 6MT, R55 Clubman S 6MT Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: DMV iTrader: (6)	Lol. If you really like her then you could TRY to make it work. At least you know she is definitely experienced. I'd keep her if she could cook. I yearn for a woman who cooks delicious food. __________________ My delivery experience and beach photoshoot here.
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ToothDoc Second Lieutenant 5 Rep 241 Posts Drives: 997.2 TTS, CLA 45 AMG Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Chicagoland iTrader: (0)	What's the big deal? If you like her and she likes you, why not give it a chance? From the responses I see, I'm guessing most of you guys are in your 20s. I'm in my 30s and have a wife and 3 kids and have been married for over 12 years now. At this point, all that matters is that I get laid, she's a good mom, wife doesn't spend everything I make, and that we just get along. If she were a previous porn star or had previous pictures or videos, I could care less (not that she has any - besides the ones I took).
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grieverr Private First Class 29 Rep 174 Posts Drives: F32 Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Here iTrader: (0)	I think staying with her would depend on how you view nudity (and I guess maturity level too). I have seen some of my buddies gf's boobs and butts. Some by accident, some while being drunk and silly. And vice versa, some have seen my girl's boobs. And yea, it's a free peep show for a few minutes, but none of us are fapping to each other's girls or trying to see them naked again. And we respect each other and understand that it was just us being carried away, and nothing has come from it. If you and your friends have that kind of relationship, then I think it shouldn't matter if she has nudes out there. Believe me, the novelty will wear off and the ones that may keep her images in mind are the jealous ones that want her. If you really like this girl and it may lead to something, I wouldn't penalize her for that. We've all done things in our past.
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