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03-05-2013, 09:01 PM | #111 |
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Why are you asking us? Just to show you baus you are? BFD- I brought home an incredibly sexy 23 year old last night an hour after meeting her, but I still found a lot of great insights in that book. Sounds like Grimlock finds it particularly interesting, which is good. If you're not interested in reading it, don't. No need to be a douche.
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03-05-2013, 09:17 PM | #113 |
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Every one of your posts in this thread is you being a douche bag to someone, trying to make other people feel bad about themselves and trying to make you feel better about yourself. It's pathetic.
If you have interesting insights, feel free to share. If you don't and all of this is obvious to you, no need to stick around if you aren't interested. Last edited by carve; 03-05-2013 at 09:25 PM.. |
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Poor me? You weren't making fun of me.
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03-06-2013, 08:31 AM | #117 | |
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Going to finish it today.. btw. how was the 23yr old? READ BOOK GOT LAID HAHAHAHAH |
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03-06-2013, 09:50 AM | #119 |
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Back on topic, these books and these articles are more than just about getting laid.
yes getting laid is very very nice and let me tell you...fun! But what I suggest you do is not only read these books and articles to help you get laid but to do better in your life and business. The same tools you learn about with respect to posture and dress and behavior which may lead you the well educated the well meaning man to break down the bitch shield of the nice girl at the end of the bar will also help you better understand the dynamic of your work environment. And why people do what they do. I grew up as the only tan person in an all white town…everyone thought I was a terrorist because I was from iran…not good. And not good for my ego. So growing up I had none, and well it showed not only in my dress but in the way I sat and stood. My turning point came when I was at university, you know when people walk up and mock punch you in the gut and say “ha ha got you asshole” Well I use to be that guy who my friends would do that to. Until I started reading some of these books and when people in halls would mock punch me…I just stood there tall…and even took a few. I could, I worked out I was athletic and still am. So what’s a punch in the gut from a friend. I just took it and smiled. It was that my friend was trying to show his dominance to the world so that he would get laid via the fake punch to the gut…but when I stopped falling for it….i broke his mojo. This worked for me when I went off to work. The CEO of my former company in Finland was Swedish (Swedes being a minority in Finland) and I was the new hire. He tried that a few time…the fake punches and I just sat there and smiled and showed how physical response. Not only did I gain his respect but I gained the respect of his very attractive secretary who had very attractive friends. I know you think you are very evolved and very intelligent…but the reality of the situation is that if it wasn’t for our ability to communicate and have thumbs we are just hairless apes. We are primitive in our wants, our desires and our actions. So if you wish to evolve and grow…read, learn and be more. |
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03-06-2013, 10:44 AM | #120 |
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I'm sure most of you have experienced when your single you go through droughts, but ONCE you get in a relationship girls start flying at you like those axe commercials.
What's that about? Girls want what they can't have? |
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03-06-2013, 10:50 AM | #121 |
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Yes, it's not just about getting laid, just putting it out there as a 'step' to get over.
What is more important is everything behind. "Vulnerability and Showing Desire The true power of vulnerability is that it resolves the investment paradox. The investment paradox, as mentioned in the previous chapters, is the apparent conflict between the two aspects of female attraction. Women are attracted to men who are of higher status than themselves (or in our terms, less needy). They are also aroused by men who desire them. The paradox is that typically, if a man shows desire towards a woman, then he’s also showing some degree of neediness or that he’s lower status than she is, thus making himself unattractive. The common term for this is “putting her on a pedestal." Vulnerability short-circuits the paradox. A man comfortable being vulnerable will not behave in a needy way. And when desire is shown without neediness, it is attractive. When desire is shown with neediness, it is unattractive." |
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03-06-2013, 10:55 AM | #122 |
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we all want what we can't have.
But women well it's like this. They see you with another woman, which indicates that you are a half way decent guy....as in the girl you are with did all the work to check you out...you now have a stamp on your ass that indicates you of good quality.... It's kind of like this. women say the place they look for their future husband or current boyfriend is at work. Why? Simple. They work there so they know they are of good quality and they trust that HR which picked them also did a good job picking a man! |
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03-06-2013, 10:58 AM | #124 |
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Women work to find husbands .. not to work
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03-06-2013, 12:29 PM | #125 |
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Yeah well...they do....
There was a study out there that something like 40% of all women met their husbands at work? Well when you think about it any company worth it salt has a good HR department where only those who are worthy can have a job. And if they are worthy of a job...they have demonstrated value...they are worthy of a date. get it? And the same for women going after men who have women. If they are worthy of a girlfriend...they have demonstrated value...theya re worthy of getting picked off. |
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03-06-2013, 01:35 PM | #126 |
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Yeah- there are several reasons
1) He's pre-selected, as Shah said. If another desirable woman wants him and is dating him, he's probably quite a catch 2) He already has what he needs, so is inherently un-needy 3) He's not afraid of commitment (although, this is less of a factor than you think. I make no secret that I date several women at once) There's also a narsistic factor...competitiveness amongst woman. They feel good to know a man with lots of options chooses her above all the others, and they compete for that attention and feel like they win when they get it. It's really primal, but I've been shocked how much this is the case and I'm still getting comfortable owning that COMPLETELY unapologetically. Grimlock: Tall, lean and twiggy. 5' 8", long brown hair, working on her masters, 125 pounds, bisexual, very perky B-cup, shy at first but literally jumped on me the second I kissed her and...this was amazing...if I put my hands around her waist with my finger tips touching behind her back, my thumbs were only a few inches from touching in front (but I have big hands)! Very sexy. Hopefully she's into girls who aren't butch Probably not relationship materiel though. |
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Needless to say, this strategy is not wise when you are not at home, I waved my fist at this little thieving/crazy highschool kid/guy who was messing with my bag on what appeared to be a highschool trip in Venice, I was backpacking with two other nerdy chinese guys. bad idea, that one guy only was MENTAL and started swinging like he was on drugs, I ducked/ran but the guy who was a mega bruce lee fan and was showing off his kicks etc all the time FROZE and got his glasses knocked down, the other non-violent Italian kids picked it up for him but the guy was mental just chasing all of us swinging .. in the middle of freaking VENICE tourist capital of the world. Those guys probably hate me now I kinda get being violent only works when you are in a safe environment with teachers/law etc. and kids are left to duke it out amongst themselves. moral: I can stand up for myself. But that still leaves the 99 other things that are wrong with me.. |
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