Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

[bimmette]

Originally Posted by CTinline-six

Playing it safe usually means getting nowhere and being friend zoned haha.

Nah, he's got this. upstatedoc, waiting for a play-by-play! This is my weekend excitement!!

[________]

It's not happening this weekend.
Hopefully during the week next week, or else only next weekend

[upstatedoc]

Originally Posted by bimmette

Nah, he's got this. upstatedoc, waiting for a play-by-play! This is my weekend excitement!!

She is in Delaware for the weekend. I have to figure out what my next move is.

[________]

Originally Posted by upstatedoc

She is in Delaware for the weekend. I have to figure out what my next move is.

Your next move is the easiest ever...

You'll text her next week (hopefully she'll text you first, so wait a while) and ask her how her trip went.

She'll tell you, you'll say how the corn field was a-mazing, and then invite her to something. She'll say yes and you're free to grab her by the pussy, because now you're a star.

[upstatedoc]

Meow

[lens]

Originally Posted by OnerDriver

Your next move is the easiest ever...

You'll text her next week (hopefully she'll text you first, so wait a while) and ask her how her trip went.

She'll tell you, you'll say how the corn field was a-mazing, and then invite her to something. She'll say yes and you're free to grab her by the pussy, because now you're a star.

^ ignore the last sentence though.

[________]

Originally Posted by chaungo

^ ignore the last sentence though.

Like eating a muffin and ignoring the top.

[gatorfast]

Originally Posted by upstatedoc

She is in Delaware for the weekend. I have to figure out what my next move is.

Delaware

[________]

Originally Posted by gatorfast

Delaware

I hope she's the one on the left, because the one on the right... ooof

[lens]

Originally Posted by OnerDriver

I hope she's the one on the left, because the one on the right... ooof

what if the one on the right is...doc?

[Turkish Pickle]

friends, is there a way to get with a girl that's known to make boys follow him (aka orbit and feed her attention)? or do we cut our losses and move on because it's probably not worth it?

i'm not trying to be an orbiter, i know not to do that but i just want to see if it's possible

[________]

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

friends, is there a way to get with a girl that's known to make boys follow him (aka orbit and feed her attention)? or do we cut our losses and move on because it's probably not worth it?

i'm not trying to be an orbiter, i know not to do that but i just want to see if it's possible

Well that depends.
Do you know her? Have anything in common? Attend the same places?

[Never_Enough]

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

friends, is there a way to get with a girl that's known to make boys follow him (aka orbit and feed her attention)? or do we cut our losses and move on because it's probably not worth it?

i'm not trying to be an orbiter, i know not to do that but i just want to see if it's possible

Just stay away from that type of cunt. Too many fish in the sea...

[Never_Enough]

I'm a little surprised that I still haven't gotten back on any dating sites. I am enjoying having less stress & not dealing w/the shit show, though.

[________]

Originally Posted by Never_Enough

I'm a little surprised that I still haven't gotten back on any dating sites. I am enjoying having less stress & not dealing w/the shit show, though.

Stay strong. It's like giving up cigarettes. You know it sucks but you still occasionally think of going back.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Never_Enough

I'm a little surprised that I still haven't gotten back on any dating sites. I am enjoying having less stress & not dealing w/the shit show, though.

Life, happiness and success is all about your views and what you allow to stress you. Remove the bullets and no one has any ammo to fire at you.

[Kev312]

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

friends, is there a way to get with a girl that's known to make boys follow him (aka orbit and feed her attention)? or do we cut our losses and move on because it's probably not worth it?

i'm not trying to be an orbiter, i know not to do that but i just want to see if it's possible

Yes. Spend as much money as humanly possible on her. Drown her in texts and voicemails to show your dedication. Women like men that take initiative.

[Never_Enough]

Originally Posted by Not_Judy

Life, happiness and success is all about your views and what you allow to stress you. Remove the bullets and no one has any ammo to fire at you.

Over a month so far!

At some point, I will have to sign back up if I ever want to meet a lady for a LTR, though.

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by OnerDriver

Well that depends.
Do you know her? Have anything in common? Attend the same places?

yes, yes and yes
i'm a civil engineer, she's a mechanical engineer - we met at the library because she was tutoring for diff eq and i had a midterm the next day. since then i've seen her a few times at the library

Originally Posted by Never_Enough

Just stay away from that type of cunt. Too many fish in the sea...

this has also been an option in my head tbh, definitely saw this coming

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by Kev312

Yes. Spend as much money as humanly possible on her. Drown her in texts and voicemails to show your dedication. Women like men that take initiative.

thanks for the suggestion, do i also like every single pic she posts on social media and comment how beautiful she is??

[________]

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

yes, yes and yes
i'm a civil engineer, she's a mechanical engineer - we met at the library because she was tutoring for diff eq and i had a midterm the next day. since then i've seen her a few times at the library

this has also been an option in my head tbh, definitely saw this coming

I'd say friend zone her. Be nice, be memorable, but don't act on it as if you want her as a GF. Try to even put it in your head that you want her just as friends. She'll come to you the minute she realizes you're not after her.

But again, you have to have something she looks for (maybe you know the answers to a test, or you have done interesting work she wants to learn more about, or you have a huge dick creating an impressive volume on your tight spandex pants)

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Never_Enough

Over a month so far!

At some point, I will have to sign back up if I ever want to meet a lady for a LTR, though.

Again, change your mindset. The likelihood of any long term relationship working in this society is nonexistent. Don't look for the long term relationship and you'll never be disappointed that you don't find one, yet if you do you'll be even more pleased with it.

Also keep in mind that any relationship formed from a dating site has a very low percentage rate of becoming long term. Remember these girls are accustomed to a carousel of dicks being paraded around them. They change interest from one guy to the next without a second thought. This mentality doesn't change just because they started talking to you. How upset will you be if you find the one that you think is "the one" only to find out later she stops talking to you because someone else has a hell cat one year newer than yours?

Again, let them have no ammo and they can't shoot. Shoot the hostage and they have no leverage, however you want to look at it.