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Meeting the right woman to marry was a goal of mine since I was little. I wanted a smart, beautiful, sexy woman and that's what I got. We met when I was 24 and were married by 28. My suggestion is the same to all my single friends, guys & girls. You have to know what you are looking for! You need to have a picture in your mind and keep it there. You also need to know what type of personality is compatible with you when it comes to a long term relationship. That doesn't mean someone you just always agree with, it means someone you respect and when you are around them there is serious chemistry. My wife is as beautiful to me today as she was when I met her.
Anyway, you also have to know yourself, very well. If marriage isn't your goal, as it always was for me, then accept that and enjoy being a batchelor and all that has to offer. For me, being single got boring by the time I was about 26-27. Casual relationships seemed pointless. I wanted to be serious and have a serious relationship. My point is - what are your relationship goals, benchmarks? Like a business, you will get out of them exactly what you put into them. Effort, thought, imagination work, goals, visualization, it all matters! OP, what city do you live in? How old are you? How many serious relationships (said "I love you" or close to it) have you been in? Lastly - my wife exceeded my goals outwardly, inwardly I really respected her - but she wasn't as easy going as I was used to and that put me off a little. But, as a man of faith I truly felt she was the one, as her spiritual beliefs were like mine and her appreciation and admiration for my family and our belief system was high. 16 yrs later and life is beautiful! |
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1: What the fook is a “congruence test”?
2: past third date or 3rd week and no sex then cheers to you, friend. Because that’s all you’ll be. I’m not wasting time, Either you’ve got the hots for me or you don’t. 3: you are her gay friend and you don’t know it. She might not even know it but that little scene is straight out of straight girl gay gay friendship cattiness. 4: bail 5 eject eject eject 6 run Forrest run.
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I'm guessing you are over 40? Social media has wrecked the dating scene. The whole "grass is always greener" mentality, and people jump from person to person until in the end they are left with nothing.
The people you speak of are out there, but on the endangered species list now.
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42 and thankful - dating app life sounds like a proper nightmare
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OP, why do you even want to pass her "tests"? What is your goal here?
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