Completely forget about 40/45 profile tires.
The rest you mentioned could all work but will
NOT keep in line with the specified factory ration. Have you tried TireRack.com? I just done a quick search
CLICK HERE. As you can see there are many tires available for your specified application, OEM.
You could also upgrade tire sizes; 245/35 Fronts and 285/30 Rears. Or like many on here do, 255/35 Fronts and 275/35 Rears.