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IF you are truly more worried about your finances than about the love of your potential kid, go get fixed. (NOT AT ALL A FLAME!!)
It's GREAT to be able to go to the baseball field, see that the league needs (insert here) and just go buy it, but it's WAAAYYYY more important that you are there to see the games, go to practice, watch them fail, watch them succeed.
One thing to consider, unless you are going to be a "Disneyland" dad, you won't be working those long hours, heck you'll be lucky to work a single regular day for a few years after birth. Kids need thing like rides to Dr., clothes, milk, food, . . . I'm not talking about the $ aspect, they need YOU to go get it for them. Don't make your wife do it all, she won't be your wife for very long.
But the BIGGEST gain you will get, and it's worth ALL the money in all your accounts, is to see the love and amazment and trust as that little person looks up to you for guidance, and a hug.
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