^So the first step is attracting the girl -must not seem too interested at this point, to maximise her guesstimate of your desirability
If you have not succeeded with this first, continueing is just going to end badly? (because she is not attracted)
When you sense she may be interested, you tap the brakes (analogy) and can show some interest, but not more than she shows , or it will ruin it (=slam on brakes, don't do).
Then you just have to reel her in, always responding with interest, but less than she shows, so YOU are the one attracting her to you, not the other way around which would allow her to call it off at any time.
Is this correct or am I way off base?
So far I have mastered the showing zero interest, which does seem to work as girls look in your direction or move subtly towards you (little do they know the subconcious mind tricks you are playing
) but have not had the courage to apply step 2 which is reel them in..
