This one checks all your boxes, 2nd color choice (Jet Black). I don't follow E92 pricing, but it seems pretty high to me?
http://cpo.bmwusa.com/used/2013-BMW-...3012?zip=98028
This one also checks all the boxes, though the color is unknown (BMW Individual), would have to call the dealer and have them check the sticker under the hood. Maybe it's Ruby Black!
http://cpo.bmwusa.com/used/2012-BMW-...8121?zip=98028