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Originally Posted by F32Fleet
"She's been overweight for 15 years now. If she was capable of losing the weight herself, she would have done it already. IMO"
- It's psychological. There's something else going on. Years ago I was told that women who intentially put on a lot of weight do so because the weight acts as a psychological barrier between them and whatever they're unable to deal with.
I also suspect she's in a lot of discomfort with that repaired ankle.
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Agree. High likelihood of past trauma, unfortunately, that is not being dealt with, sadly. The choice evidently is to eat and put on weight and suffer consequences of poor self care and not addressing past or current trauma.