I should have come here first, I've been having the same problem with FTM showing up but not allowing me to reset it because the option is greyed out on my non-M E90 . I'll be following deadlyhate's instructions when I get home today and hopefully that's been my issue all along.
The funny part is that I only found this thread because my work VPN blocks the E90 forums here, but none of the others. I guess I'm glad they did that now
