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      06-11-2012, 11:08 AM   #23
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I believe long distance relationships can work. I did IT whilst working London and my gf at the time was in South Africa. We did it for 8 months, no problem. When I came back we stayed together for 2 years before breaking up. If you want to make it work you can. Trust and loyalty are the two key ingredients
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      06-11-2012, 11:14 AM   #24
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LOL at OP acting like he actually has the mental ability to tell her 'no'
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      06-11-2012, 11:15 AM   #25
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I believe long distance relationships can work. I did IT whilst working London and my gf at the time was in South Africa. We did it for 8 months, no problem. When I came back we stayed together for 2 years before breaking up. If you want to make it work you can. Trust and loyalty are the two key ingredients
she probably ended up marrying the guy that she was fucking...........in South Africa......
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      06-11-2012, 12:19 PM   #26
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Litos' avatar matches his posts in this thread..hahahaha
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      06-11-2012, 12:21 PM   #27
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stay away from long distance relationships.

within a week she'll have your friend's dick in or around her mouth.
^ this
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      06-11-2012, 12:43 PM   #28
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Do you have a dick?
Do you like this dick to get wet?
Then why?

Here is how it works my good man, your average woman can go without sex for...well most of her natural life. Your average man? Maybe 6 months!

And it gets better, women love to have "pocket book boyfriends". If you have ever had the misfortune of relying on online dating you will know what this is...bitches who won't stop stalking but never meet you.

Why? Because you are her pocket book boyfriend! Still confused?

Ever seen the movies "the lake house" and "time travelers husband"? well those movies make the ladies go "aaahhhh" why? Because he's the perfect man. He's there but he never wants to have sex.

Now do you want to be that man? I'll give you a hint...you don't!
Dump her ass or just be friends. That's right put that bitch in the friend zone and score one for the cocks!
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      06-11-2012, 01:29 PM   #29
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Wondering why this is an issue, the distance between you is not long at all...

I've been with my girl for a while now, and we see each other every weekend (we live 1.5 hours away from each other because of work). We don't have any issues.

If we were farther apart then there might be an issue, just because we wouldn't be able to see each other as often. I think it's good that we don't spend every waking moment together though, at least for now. It gives us something to look forward to (sex) every weekend and then some personal/private time during the week. We've talked about moving in together, so we'll see how that goes. Neither of us are opposed to it, it's just that neither of us (especially me) can just up and move right now. Within the next 6 months we'll probably be living together.

/end rant, but you get the idea... It can work depending on the people, and your distance isn't really that long...
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      06-11-2012, 01:43 PM   #30
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If you have something on the side for fun. sure, this would work
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      06-11-2012, 02:18 PM   #31
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I've been with my girl for a while now, and we see each other every weekend (we live 1.5 hours away from each other because of work). We don't have any issues.
hey look - i found naive guy......
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      06-11-2012, 02:32 PM   #32
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hey look - i found naive guy......
Hey look, I found troll guy...
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      06-11-2012, 02:38 PM   #33
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If your sex drive is a once a week kind of sex drive .... odds are you are rocking skinny jeans and have a thing for anime.....so yeah more power to you.
But i'm one of those fuzzy chested JW drinking men who needs to make love 3 times per week with his gf. And no i'm not taking matters into my own hand you cupcake baking freak!

Now where is my afternoon tea time to pontificate
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      06-11-2012, 02:52 PM   #34
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If your sex drive is a once a week kind of sex drive .... odds are you are rocking skinny jeans and have a thing for anime.....so yeah more power to you.
But i'm one of those fuzzy chested JW drinking men who needs to make love 3 times per week with his gf. And no i'm not taking matters into my own hand you cupcake baking freak!

Now where is my afternoon tea time to pontificate
So I had to lol
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      06-11-2012, 03:08 PM   #35
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I make love baby, fuzzy chested deep voiced lovin. Anyone can have sex. But it takes a real man and a loving woman he knows to make love. That slow sensual kind of lovin.
(now if you read this and the voice in your head was of Berry white.....you know what I'm talking about)
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      06-11-2012, 04:48 PM   #36
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I've had a 3 LDRs in the past

Doesn't work out well

But my LDRs were separated by the Pacific ocean

1.5 hours is nothing

It can take me 1.5+ hours to drive 30 miles if I have to go to DTLA during rush hour


I don't know why you guys say he shouldn't do it.... this isn't a LDR...

But if you've only been with her for a month... then you are better off as FWB.

However, if you've known her for years and are in love blah blah, 1.5 hours ain't shit.

I drive 3 hours to get work done on my M3...now that's love.
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      06-11-2012, 05:14 PM   #37
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Quote:
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i still stand by my original post.

within a week, knowing your over an hour away, she'll be shacked up with your biggest and blackest friend..................


i hope i'm doing a great job in convincing you that it's just a stupid idea...
HAHAHAHAHAHA



but really, a long distance relationship is counter-intuitive, in my opinion. There are so many women out there, local to yourself. Use your BMW, drive out, find one, take her out to dinner, bring her home, and then punch her in the face and- ... well, you get my logic.
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      06-11-2012, 05:21 PM   #38
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stay away from long distance relationships.

within a week she'll have your friend's dick in or around her mouth.
pretty much this.

At least in my exeperience. Was in a year long rel's and my gf at the time went to college up north at UC Davis. After our very first argument as a LDR couple, she immediately hopped on another cock. Although he wasn't anyone I knew, the best reason she had for why she cheated was I ignored her calls for a day after our argument and she said I made her feel alone in a far away place or some shyt like that.

But then again, it got me to that awesome level where you can fuk your ex gf and still be with other girls and there's no problems!

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      06-11-2012, 06:13 PM   #39
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Only way it makes sense is if you have spent a long time dating within close proximity. You would also need a date of when you will be back together.

If you're entire relationship is being spent long distance you should not even attempt it.


Speaking from experience
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      06-11-2012, 07:32 PM   #40
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It all depends on the situation TBH. Were you two going out for some time and (s)he moves away for work/school? Did you two just meet and she lives on the other side of the country.

A long distance relationship requires alot of trust in each other. And a phone card.

When my bf and I started to go out, he lived about an hour away from me (might not fall under what you are referring to OP), but it worked for me. We are still together 6.5 years later.
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      06-11-2012, 07:41 PM   #41
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      06-12-2012, 11:42 AM   #42
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OR how about you put her in the "friend zone" and use her to get your confidance up and talk to all the cute girls WHO LIVE NEAR YOU!
god!
KIDS these days! Have no clue how to get laid!
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Don't do it man. It almost never works out.
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      06-12-2012, 12:21 PM   #44
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I think OP is a girl... I might be wrong. But I could've sworn OP was a lesbian?
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