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      08-19-2013, 03:14 PM   #375
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This is why I am married a Dr. She makes around $600k per year and I won't ever make that much, well not for a few years anyways. I am at a little over $100k now as an engineering manager. If it goes south... she will have no interest in my money nor would she be able to get it either.
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This is why I am married a Dr. She makes around $600k per year and I won't ever make that much, well not for a few years anyways. I am at a little over $100k now as an engineering manager. If it goes south... she will have no interest in my money nor would she be able to get it either.
Not everyone can find a $600k earnings a year hoe yo

If she's even remotely bangable, she's one in a million
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I'm probably way too late to this party, but I saw OP post this thread in another thread today.

OP: I'm not divorced (was never married) but I do pay CS, so I have some idea of what you are going through, I went through a similarly shitty breakup with my ex. I'm not sure if your case is already settled (even if so, they can be amended) -- but a couple of things to consider:

1. Imputation of Income -- If your wife has any kind of degree, or professional certification, even if you can prove she had X job before -- your lawyer should be able to argue that the judge 'impute' the higher income on her as if she currently makes it, even if she doesn't -- which would re-balance the CS/AL numbers.

2. Get full custody of your daughter -- She's 14, which means she decides which parent she wants to live with. Sounds like you have a financial advantage, and this might sound cold: but you should lie, cheat, bribe and steal to convince her to choose to live with you full time. If that happens, not only does the CS go away -- it goes against your EX, which should reduce the ALM payment by cancelling some of it out (I don't care if its $300 a month, you want it).

3. Once you've done #2 -- You and your daughter can take the advice of the above posters, my personal choice would be Germany. Then you get to keep your daughter, and your money -- since you are a programmer, you should be able to either telecommute or pursue a similarly-paid position in Europe.

I did your #1. She used make $90K a year and now makes only 30K. My lawyer was able to adjust her income to 60K but that was the most it could be accepted since good old days are gone, and there is no way sghe can make 90K again.

#2 is IMPOSSIBLE unless the other parent gives up his/her parental rights. This was not the case so I got 50/50.

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Again this is US law. It means absolutely nothing if you move out of the country.

Another thing ,why on Earth do you men let your wife's know about this shit? Most wife's have no fricken clue what they are entitled and most cant afford an attorney anyway. Why would you tell them what type of money you make? I hinted in my marriage but with so many divorces you never know when your marriage will be compromised so I treaded cautiously.

I never shared a bank account with my ex-wife or shared any assets. She came into a marriage and left with what she came in with, nothing. She deserved nothing. I dont give two shits what some court thinks. If she would have come after my retirement or any of my money I would have remarried and moved out of the country. Problem solved.

I hate seeing guys getting screwed over by bitches.
Even the dumbest woman, including my X, is smart enough to talk to lawyers. Most of them offer free consultation anyway. There is nothing stronger than the smell of free money...

If it was not for my daughter this is exactly what I would have done. but she means a lot to me and I can not give her up for all the money in the world!

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This is why I am married a Dr. She makes around $600k per year and I won't ever make that much, well not for a few years anyways. I am at a little over $100k now as an engineering manager. If it goes south... she will have no interest in my money nor would she be able to get it either.
You are one smart and lucky guy my friend!!!
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This is why I am married a Dr. She makes around $600k per year and I won't ever make that much, well not for a few years anyways. I am at a little over $100k now as an engineering manager. If it goes south... she will have no interest in my money nor would she be able to get it either.
What kind of Dr. is she?
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      08-19-2013, 09:37 PM   #381
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This is why I am married a Dr. She makes around $600k per year and I won't ever make that much, well not for a few years anyways. I am at a little over $100k now as an engineering manager. If it goes south... she will have no interest in my money nor would she be able to get it either.
What kind of Dr. is she?
Double board certified... Pulmonary and ICU critical care
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Double board certified... Pulmonary and ICU critical care
Score!
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Double board certified... Pulmonary and ICU critical care
Cha-Ching,Cha-Ching!!!
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Not everyone can find a $600k earnings a year hoe yo

If she's even remotely bangable, she's one in a million



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lol this is a thread about a guy who got out of a sour divorce and is still currently paying a big sum on a monthly basis. Now we have a guy posting pics of his $600k earning Doctor wife just to feed the burn.
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To be honest, hearing about her credentials alone was a turn on even before you posted her pics.
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Bangability factor goes right out of the window when $600k is in the picture. But who am I to judge if she's bangable, Litos does that for us.
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      08-20-2013, 09:15 AM   #389
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She is very bangable...
You talk like that about your wife on a message board with bunch of strangers? Then post pics of her? Dude, seriously.
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You talk like that about your wife on a message board with bunch of strangers? Then post pics of her? Dude, seriously.
Whats wrong with being proud and attracted to my wife? We all know Litos is proud of his... and no one busted his balls for posting pics of her and objectifying her. Oh well, to each their own.
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You talk like that about your wife on a message board with bunch of strangers? Then post pics of her? Dude, seriously.
Some people don't think twice before hitting the "submit reply" button it seems...
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Whats wrong with being proud and attracted to my wife? We all know Litos is proud of his... and no one busted his balls for posting pics of her and objectifying her. Oh well, to each their own.
Some people have bitched about Litos' pics but there is always some one waiting to bitch about something.

What i'm curious about is, why is a couple who collectively earns over $700,000 per year, driving any BMW with a 1 in the model name?

I get that some people aren't into cars, and i fully get that most Dr's aren't into cars; especially female Dr's. But you're on a BMW enthusiast forum driving an X1 and a 135.

Just curious.
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Some people have bitched about Litos' pics but there is always some one waiting to bitch about something.

What i'm curious about is, why is a couple who collectively earns over $700,000 per year, driving any BMW with a 1 in the model name?

I get that some people aren't into cars, and i fully get that most Dr's aren't into cars; especially female Dr's. But you're on a BMW enthusiast forum driving an X1 and a 135.

Just curious.


i know doctors that make that much and drive a Camry to work....seriously. I am a physician myself...and have seen a wide variety of automotive trends in physicians....some care, some really do not. Most physicians are very financially conservative, a lot don't like financing things, and they still to more 'old fashioned' lifestyle choices----something i find quite depressing actually.

the young ones like me.....well we overspend! and are happy to do so! LOL

(although i'd rather have a BMW with a 1 in the name because i don't like big bloated cars)
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What i'm curious about is, why is a couple who collectively earns over $700,000 per year, driving any BMW with a 1 in the model name?
don't think it would fit the image to drive to work in a bently or a ferrari
she maybe doesn't seem to cares about cars, and he's got his 135i on his own income - do you want him in a lambo off his wife's salary?
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You talk like that about your wife on a message board with bunch of strangers? Then post pics of her? Dude, seriously.
While I appreciate a lot of the wife pictures (most guys here have pretty wives), I do wonder how their wives would feel about their pics being on a BMW forum that is 99% guys.
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