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      07-28-2011, 10:16 PM   #1
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A girl with relationship issues early...

I am dating a girl who seems to really like me. But she has some issues with relationships in general. She's very timid about getting into one and she's really self conflicted and not sure how to resolve it within herself. Should I wait it out or drop it and go for someone with less issues? Everything else is great. But this is kind of a biggie. Your opinion and rationale would be much appreciated.
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      07-28-2011, 10:20 PM   #3
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lol. I should've known someone was gonna say this. I'm not posting her pic here but on a scale of 1-10, she's a 7.5 or an 8.
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      07-28-2011, 10:31 PM   #8
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ugh. I don't even know why I asked in here.
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I think her problem may stem from the fact that you not only turned a time lapse of you washing your car into a youtube video, you seem to be rather proud of it.
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I am dating a girl who seems to really like me. But she has some issues with relationships in general. She's very timid about getting into one and she's really self conflicted and not sure how to resolve it within herself. Should I wait it out or drop it and go for someone with less issues? Everything else is great. But this is kind of a biggie. Your opinion and rationale would be much appreciated.
Why does the girl have issues @ the moment? Did she just get out of a relationship or something?
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Seems like the plot of No Strings Attached. Just become friends with benefits.
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Especially if she's an 8.
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I am dating a girl who seems to really like me. But she has some issues with relationships in general. She's very timid about getting into one and she's really self conflicted and not sure how to resolve it within herself. Should I wait it out or drop it and go for someone with less issues? Everything else is great. But this is kind of a biggie. Your opinion and rationale would be much appreciated.
My advise?.......RUN!! Sounds exactly like a girl I tried to date a while back. Turns out she was raped in college. She told me about this, but never told her friends or family, who couldn't help but wonder why she was bombing out of relationships. Its typically rape, or a physical boyfriend that's the case in these girls. I just use a philosophy of: plenty of fish in the sea. Move on, and thank me later.
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My advise?.......RUN!! Sounds exactly like a girl I tried to date a while back. Turns out she was raped in college. She told me about this, but never told her friends or family, who couldn't help but wonder why she was bombing out of relationships. Its typically rape, or a physical boyfriend that's the case in these girls. I just use a philosophy of: plenty of fish in the sea. Move on, and thank me later.
Hm, seems like "rape" and abuse are getting more common these days. Sad...
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OP that is such a good story. I really can't pick "one part" that I liked the best. But if you were to hold a gun to my head, I would go with the part with the pictures. I just got off the phone with an armored truck company. They will be arriving in the morning to pick up my back up disk, which I just saved your story on to.

There probably won't be much traffic, because I forwarded the police your story, and they agreed to escort the armored truck to its destination. At first the police chief didn't want to help, but then I guided his attention to the incredible pictures that you embedded along with your story.

I mean, the story was good enough. But as soon as I saw the pictures that went along with it, I called my grandmother, who is blind and has Alzheimer’s disease to tell her. As far as her doctors in the nursing home are concerned, she is cured of all her ailments now that she heard your cool story. She is actually preparing to run the Boston marathon this year now. Thank you OP.
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OP that is such a good story. I really can't pick "one part" that I liked the best. But if you were to hold a gun to my head, I would go with the part with the pictures. I just got off the phone with an armored truck company. They will be arriving in the morning to pick up my back up disk, which I just saved your story on to.

There probably won't be much traffic, because I forwarded the police your story, and they agreed to escort the armored truck to its destination. At first the police chief didn't want to help, but then I guided his attention to the incredible pictures that you embedded along with your story.

I mean, the story was good enough. But as soon as I saw the pictures that went along with it, I called my grandmother, who is blind and has Alzheimer’s disease to tell her. As far as her doctors in the nursing home are concerned, she is cured of all her ailments now that she heard your cool story. She is actually preparing to run the Boston marathon this year now. Thank you OP.
Ok, I rarely give props to someone on here. Especially a guy I don't recognize, but there is a first time for everything.

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OP that is such a good story. I really can't pick "one part" that I liked the best. But if you were to hold a gun to my head, I would go with the part with the pictures. I just got off the phone with an armored truck company. They will be arriving in the morning to pick up my back up disk, which I just saved your story on to.

There probably won't be much traffic, because I forwarded the police your story, and they agreed to escort the armored truck to its destination. At first the police chief didn't want to help, but then I guided his attention to the incredible pictures that you embedded along with your story.

I mean, the story was good enough. But as soon as I saw the pictures that went along with it, I called my grandmother, who is blind and has Alzheimer’s disease to tell her. As far as her doctors in the nursing home are concerned, she is cured of all her ailments now that she heard your cool story. She is actually preparing to run the Boston marathon this year now. Thank you OP.
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I am dating a girl who seems to really like me. But she has some issues with relationships in general. She's very timid about getting into one and she's really self conflicted and not sure how to resolve it within herself. Should I wait it out or drop it and go for someone with less issues? Everything else is great. But this is kind of a biggie. Your opinion and rationale would be much appreciated.
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OP that is such a good story. I really can't pick "one part" that I liked the best. But if you were to hold a gun to my head, I would go with the part with the pictures. I just got off the phone with an armored truck company. They will be arriving in the morning to pick up my back up disk, which I just saved your story on to.

There probably won't be much traffic, because I forwarded the police your story, and they agreed to escort the armored truck to its destination. At first the police chief didn't want to help, but then I guided his attention to the incredible pictures that you embedded along with your story.

I mean, the story was good enough. But as soon as I saw the pictures that went along with it, I called my grandmother, who is blind and has Alzheimer’s disease to tell her. As far as her doctors in the nursing home are concerned, she is cured of all her ailments now that she heard your cool story. She is actually preparing to run the Boston marathon this year now. Thank you OP.
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My advise?.......RUN!! Sounds exactly like a girl I tried to date a while back. Turns out she was raped in college. She told me about this, but never told her friends or family, who couldn't help but wonder why she was bombing out of relationships. Its typically rape, or a physical boyfriend that's the case in these girls. I just use a philosophy of: plenty of fish in the sea. Move on, and thank me later.
Interesting take. I don't want to jump to conclusions, but something like this is possible for sure.
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