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View Poll Results: When going out with girlfriend do you pay for the food/drinks/base spending?
All the time, because that is what guys are suppose to do. 44 36.97%
Most of the time. 45 37.82%
We split it. 10 8.40%
We switch off. 16 13.45%
She pays for me. 4 3.36%
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      01-17-2011, 05:53 PM   #1
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When going out with girlfriend do you...

...pay for the food/drinks/basic spending?

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      01-17-2011, 05:55 PM   #2
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Mate! You got to give her a contract that outlines you will pay for her dinner if she agrees to your clauses. You can have whatever clause you want, mine is usually PIITB as clause one...list of clauses can go on (don't get to carried away). Make sure she SIGNS!
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Fuck no. I'm in school. She can pay for her own shit. I'm not a fucken whore bank.
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Fuck no. I'm in school. She can pay for her own shit. I'm not a fucken whore bank.
you are in rare form tonight
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When going out with a girlfriend, we either split or take turns for who pays. Simple.
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you are in rare form tonight
Its still afternoon here. Yeah. I think I'm a little sad. My family was visiting for the weekend. Kind of puts everything into perspective and makes me realize where my life choices have got me. Makes me miss home. Guess its sometimes a little lonely at the top.
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Mate! You got to give her a contract that outlines you will pay for her dinner if she agrees to your clauses. You can have whatever clause you want, mine is usually PIITB as clause one...list of clauses can go on (don't get to carried away). Make sure she SIGNS!
This makes a lot of sense. I've searched the forum for a template, do you have one that I can use? If you've already populated the template agreement with PIITB clauses, just leave that in there. Will be useful... thx!

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Its still afternoon here. Yeah. I think I'm a little sad. My family was visiting for the weekend. Kind of puts everything into perspective and makes me realize where my life choices have got me. Makes me miss home. Guess its sometimes a little lonely at the top.
You just made me put down my drink for a second and have a deep talk with my dog. Now I'm all introspective. Thanks, goddamn it.
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In the (VERY) beginning I paid for everything. Then once we started dating we started to either take turns or split.

but now I'm single wah hooooo!! :-D
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I voted for the first option. But it doesnt make sense each girl is different. You have your whores, gf, wifeys, friends, best friends, etc..

I know girls that love to take me out pay. I know girls who only expect me to pay. So it varies..

You can read a lot from a girl when teh bill comes and what they do. I had some leave the table and go to the "restroom." And I had some stand up and fight with me in front of everyone just to pay the bill.
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I voted for the first option. But it doesnt make sense each girl is different. You have your whores, gf, wifeys, friends, best friends, etc..

I know girls that love to take me out pay. I know girls who only expect me to pay. So it varies..

You can read a lot from a girl when teh bill comes and what they do. I had some leave the table and go to the "restroom." And I had some stand up and fight with me in front of everyone just to pay the bill.
Wholeheartedly agree with this. If it's like a good female friend we'll split as I would with any of my guy buddies.

But with my girlfriend, for the most part I pay for our dinner/drinks - as I believe it's the man's role to take care of his woman. She will fight for the bill and try to pay or at least split and I appreciate that.

Sometimes I will let her because in part, I don't want to take away her feeling of independance or being able to contribute either, if that makes sense. She does feel bad, but she makes up for it in other ways.

If she just sat there without doing anything or expected it, she'd be gone in a second.
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Fuck no.
That's what she said.

Depends... what are the benefits?
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Anyone who didn't pick one of the first two needs to reconsider their manhood/values.

Flame on, bitches.
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Anyone who didn't pick one of the first two needs to reconsider their manhood/values.

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depends which girl

but with my gf, i generally pay with her occasionally paying

with my girl, same as above except I'll pay more often

and if it's with a girl I seldom have time go out with, I pay
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