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      07-05-2006, 02:18 PM   #45
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Well that might be your problem, you're more straight forward like a guy and she's a typical female with the mind game mentality...
And thats always the problem that occurs with me and my friends. I think like a guy most of the time, and i dont get their mood swings. I mean if your happy to be around your friends, act like it. If your not, tell me and ill leave you alone. but dont act like everything is legit, then 2 days later your still mad.. if you want shit resolved, then its gotta be brough out in the open.

When she emailed me about not working at the restaurant anymore, i didnt get mad.. but i made it clear that i was a little preturbed. I simply wrote back "shit happens, what can you do?.. well call me up whenever you have the time to hang out".

So we'll see what she says.
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And thats always the problem that occurs with me and my friends. I think like a guy most of the time, and i dont get their mood swings. I mean if your happy to be around your friends, act like it. If your not, tell me and ill leave you alone. but dont act like everything is legit, then 2 days later your still mad.. if you want shit resolved, then its gotta be brough out in the open.

When she emailed me about not working at the restaurant anymore, i didnt get mad.. but i made it clear that i was a little preturbed. I simply wrote back "shit happens, what can you do?.. well call me up whenever you have the time to hang out".

So we'll see what she says.
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      07-05-2006, 03:28 PM   #47
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In my world, there is no best friend, people will turn in a split second and stab you in the back.
I agree with you to certain extent. When you think you have a good friend, you gotta ask yourself: Will this person sacrifice his time, his money, even his personal well being in order to be there for you when the time comes? That is why I only have two true friends, the rest are just aquaintances.
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      07-05-2006, 03:49 PM   #48
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Yea but im very blunt and upfront. When she acted all weird in Vegas, i straight up asked her if anything was wrong.. she said no. I asked are you sure? she said yea. So i left it at that.. then 2 days later i found out she was irritated cause i complained of the heat. WELL WTF do you expect, it was 128 degrees outside!! I didnt originally migrate from the sun and shit.. it was HOT.
see that's exactly what i'm saying. you can be upfront all you want but if she's the one who is stubborn and simply prefers silent treatment to confrontation. she will be immensely offended by the stupidest thing, won't tell you about it and rather cut you out of her life. is behavior like that worth your time, energy and friendship?
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I'd like to hear the other parties side of the story.
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if i were you bella i would just visit her house, ask her parents why she's been actin this way or confront her face to face for an explanation..good luck
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Well Bella....I can understand why you are upset. You like to be real upfront with all kinds of shiznit.

Your friend however...is not able to easily communicate her issues. And from what you described on your first post...sounds like she has been going through alot of shit herself. Sometimes when people that are not able to cope/deal/express their frustrations freely, will completely shut everyone out in times of desperation. She likely does not mean to hurt you...but cannot deal with you and any problems of yours right now...because she is completely overloaded with her own.

I know...should be 2 way street...but fuck that. Hardly ever happens that way when the shit hits the fan. Give her space...she will get over things. That is if you still want to salvage the friendship in the long run. Just sucks you do not have other girls you can rely on while she is taking care of her issues.

Good luck. Your homies got your back.
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that's how life works. Let me tell you about my so-called best friend. So me and this guy were best buds. I used to go to his house pretty much everyday and we'd go hang out and stuff. We were hella close and had each other's back through thick and thin. Then last year's football season he lost $4k. He was gonna double it or nothing and I stopped him cus I thought that if he loses that'd be $8,000 in losses. So he agreed and didnt bet on it. Turned out that if he went with it, he woulda won.

So in the end I felt bad but it was logical for me to stop him then. We were still cool, no hard feelings. I tried hella hard to help him come up with the money and shit. All his other friends couldnt loan him cus they "didnt ahve any money". So I helped him come up with $4k but not the last $2k cus I ran out of people to borrow from (in the end he lost another $2k so it was 6 total). I told him the only people left are his parents but if they know they'd be hella pissed. But there was no other way so he told them. They give him the $2k to pay it off.

The thing was I was in the middle of him and the guy I place the bet with (not the bookie). So when he gave the money to me his mom was with him. She thought it was my fault that he lost the money. His parents were hella pissed off at me and so I couldnt come over anymore. So then I havent seen the dude for like 6 months. We went from hanging out everyday to not seeing each other for half a year. And the funny thing was...I did nothing wrong...
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Your friend however...is not able to easily communicate her issues. And from what you described on your first post...sounds like she has been going through alot of shit herself. Sometimes when people that are not able to cope/deal/express their frustrations freely, will completely shut everyone out in times of desperation. She likely does not mean to hurt you...but cannot deal with you and any problems of yours right now...because she is completely overloaded with her own.

Good luck. Your homies got your back.
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Bella starts a post and 40 replies within 2 hours.........Fucking Amazing.....Bella gets more replies than the E92 price release
Word. I've noticed that too... more power to her when she can out thread the E92 speculation.
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      07-05-2006, 11:49 PM   #56
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Hahaha she called me today, wanted to know if i wanted to grab dinner. I was with my cousins from italy, so i told her no. .. but i think she called cause at the end of the conversation she wanted to know if it was ok to bring her entire family into my restaruarnt tomorrow night for dinner. she was being really cool, and thus, i was too. So we'll see.
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      07-06-2006, 03:53 AM   #57
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theres always something goin on in your life...

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well as a good friend you gotta realize that some people aren't gonna be constant... i mean they're gonna move around and take obstacles as they come... if anything you should support her and understand that she loves you abut is beginning to prioritize other things as she encounters them...

*shrugs* i'm not very clingy to anybody.. i drop em like itsss hott but its more like i've already realized that not everybody is meant to stand next to you... life keeps changing & adapting is pretty hard but you get used to it.
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      07-15-2006, 11:23 PM   #59
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So.. update...

Ive emailed her, texted her, called her and she isnt returning any of my messages. I didnt sugarcoat the email- i told her straight up that i have no idea why she hasnt tried calling or atleast letting me know what her problems is, IF she even has one. But i find it strange that after all we went through, she doesnt have the decency to explain herself. My other best friend shannon, whom ive known since i was 13, lives up in LA with her boyfriend and goes to Law school- yet we talk atleast 5x a week. Whether it be through IM, Text, Phone..etc. I thought trang was different, i thought we had a solid friendship. If we had a big fight, then atleast there are no mysteries. Even my parents think its unusual since she lived with us for 4 months and helped out at our restaurant.

But if this is how she wants to say goodbye, then i guess so be it. I never would have thought id leave for NY like this. But i guess you never know who your true friends are.
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i guess you never know who your true friends are.


sad but true...
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S But i guess you never know who your true friends are.
Yep, you're lucky if you can count them on one hand. It's the most simple of things people simply don't get; a freindship is a two way street. Bright side is you get to move to an awesome city and hopefully make some cool new freinds. Good luck.
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what kinda name is trang anyways... trang, hmmm
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what kinda name is trang anyways... trang, hmmm
trrr-ang t-t-trang trang trannngg

good question, uh, my phone is ringing.. gotta go...
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trrr-ang t-t-trang trang trannngg

good question, uh, my phone is ringing.. gotta go...
ya sounds like tranny ....
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