Would you date a woman that had a kid?

xxForgedxx · 09-29-2008, 08:24 PM

I'm almost 23 and well... my game is strong enough that it isn't uncommon for me to cross paths with an older (older than me) woman that is interested. However, I some times wonder if I could do it... date a girl that already had a kid. To me it is such a hard decision to make especially considering I don't know if I would ever feel close enough to the person providing everything went that far. Almost as if I would never mean as much to her as the first dude who gave her the most important thing to her. Make sense? Weird but I don't know if I could do it.

silvergray545 · 09-29-2008, 08:28 PM

nope i could never do it but im 19 so what do i know

TiAg335i · 09-29-2008, 08:29 PM

I'm 20....I wouldn't do it. Too much baggage IMO.

The_Blob · 09-29-2008, 08:32 PM

I would never date a milf in her 40's with a kid. As a friend ok, but not like a long term relationship.

silvergray545 · 09-29-2008, 08:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TiAg335i

I'm 20....I wouldn't do it. Too much baggage IMO.

exactly plus i wouldnt want to take care of someone elses kid

ZJP · 09-29-2008, 08:38 PM

Hell no.

kevinbahnz · 09-29-2008, 08:47 PM

I dated(had a relationship) with a baby momma. She was 23 we lived together for 2 and a half years. I bounced on her , not because of the kid but because she was unfaithful. But i wouldnt want to date another girl with a kid . like some of you said, too much baggage. You might change your mind when you get older and have some baggages of your own. hahah

ArmyBimmerDude · 09-29-2008, 08:50 PM

I have. Nothing wrong with it. I mean it's not like you have to adopt the child. I love kids so it's never been an issue. Problems arise from the baby's daddy I suppose. When you get older, it really isn't a big deal. At least not for me.

GuyOh · 09-29-2008, 09:20 PM

maybe if i was over 35, or if i was old and divorced

Oregano123 · 09-29-2008, 10:52 PM

if she treats me as her boy toy and takes care of me, YES.
if i wear the pants in the relationship, NO

ADHD · 09-29-2008, 10:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bmwhype

if she treats me as her boy toy and takes care of me, YES.
if i wear the pants in the relationship, NO

Nailed me to a T!! lol

Asiann · 09-29-2008, 11:02 PM

You did say dating so the child would not be of a big concern as if you were marrying her. I did it and I barely saw the baby.

lecatrache · 09-29-2008, 11:10 PM

We would never what we're capable of until we try

Joonsup · 09-29-2008, 11:22 PM

it makes sense that if you're still young in your early 20s you'd say hell know lemme get the fawk out of here. but as you get older it wont be as big of a deal. trust me

dmkaldas · 09-29-2008, 11:24 PM

just hit it, quit and say you never did it

MrSteak · 09-29-2008, 11:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dmkaldas

just hit it, quit and say you never did it

Hah, well you wouldn't be the first to do that (kids dad would be #1).

But in all seriousness... Hell NO! She may be easier than normal, but who wants to date a cum dumpster.

I've seen a few single girls with kids, and they're in that position for a reason. They want to be whores, or date thugs/assholes/old dudes/etc... that are gonna use them, this is what they get (deserve). Given people make mistakes, but when you date a certain type of guy (over and over) and you get screwed over (literally & figuratively) it shows a lot about your (lack of) character.

kevinbahnz · 09-30-2008, 01:00 AM

"cum dumpster"

Year's_End · 09-30-2008, 01:06 AM

No. But I'm still a week and a half shy of 19, so I don't really apply.

karliejai · 09-30-2008, 02:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The_Blob

I would never date a milf in her 40's with a kid. As a friend ok, but not like a long term relationship.

friend?! what friend?

akack79 · 09-30-2008, 10:20 AM

If Jessica Alba with kid in tow is ever single again..............

Enjoiyourlife · 09-30-2008, 10:33 AM

im 23 and no......... baggage.. ive heard all the stories.

my buddy dated a girl with a kid... bad news.... drama with the baby daddy

my ex gf dated a guy with a kid.... drama with the baby mama.

Tondtar · 09-30-2008, 10:34 AM

May be ...Only if she is not older and does not drive a Cadillac :

http://www.e90post.com/forums/showthread.php?t=174862

09-29-2008, 08:24 PM	#1
xxForgedxx Lieutenant Drives: Slow/Fat Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: USA Posts: 517 iTrader: (1)	Would you date a woman that had a kid? I'm almost 23 and well... my game is strong enough that it isn't uncommon for me to cross paths with an older (older than me) woman that is interested. However, I some times wonder if I could do it... date a girl that already had a kid. To me it is such a hard decision to make especially considering I don't know if I would ever feel close enough to the person providing everything went that far. Almost as if I would never mean as much to her as the first dude who gave her the most important thing to her. Make sense? Weird but I don't know if I could do it.
	Tweet

09-29-2008, 08:47 PM	#7
kevinbahnz Lieutenant Drives: 2008 335xi sedan Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Ma-NC Posts: 445 iTrader: (1)	I dated(had a relationship) with a baby momma. She was 23 we lived together for 2 and a half years. I bounced on her , not because of the kid but because she was unfaithful. But i wouldnt want to date another girl with a kid . like some of you said, too much baggage. You might change your mind when you get older and have some baggages of your own. hahah __________________

09-29-2008, 08:50 PM	#8
ArmyBimmerDude Major General Drives: Lola Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Georgia Posts: 5,502 iTrader: (3) Garage List 02/2007 E92 335i [0.00]	I have. Nothing wrong with it. I mean it's not like you have to adopt the child. I love kids so it's never been an issue. Problems arise from the baby's daddy I suppose. When you get older, it really isn't a big deal. At least not for me. __________________ 2007 E92 Montego Blue 335i

09-29-2008, 09:20 PM	#9
GuyOh Lieutenant Colonel Drives: 08 AW 335i coupe Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Vancouver B.C. Posts: 1,764 iTrader: (0) Garage List 2008 E92 335i [0.00]	maybe if i was over 35, or if i was old and divorced __________________

09-29-2008, 10:52 PM	#10
Oregano123 Banned.....j/k Drives: '09 535xi, '11 Panamera Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: South Dakota Posts: 174 iTrader: (0)	if she treats me as her boy toy and takes care of me, YES. if i wear the pants in the relationship, NO __________________

09-29-2008, 08:28 PM	#2
silvergray545 Banned Drives: E60 545i Sport Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Cleveland, OH Posts: 443 iTrader: (1) Garage List 2005 545i Sport [0.00]	nope i could never do it but im 19 so what do i know

09-29-2008, 08:29 PM	#3
TiAg335i Trance Life Drives: 2007 E92 335i Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Long Island, NY Posts: 4,712 iTrader: (4)	I'm 20....I wouldn't do it. Too much baggage IMO.

09-29-2008, 08:32 PM	#4
The_Blob Second Lieutenant Drives: 2008 E92 335i Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Canada Posts: 290 iTrader: (0)	I would never date a milf in her 40's with a kid. As a friend ok, but not like a long term relationship.

09-29-2008, 08:38 PM	#6
ZJP Lieutenant Colonel Drives: E92 335i Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: LI, NY Posts: 1,756 iTrader: (7)	Hell no.

09-29-2008, 11:02 PM	#12
Asiann Got Seoul? Drives: 2012 535i MSport Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Honolulu Posts: 2,863 iTrader: (0) Garage List 2012 BMW 535i [0.00] 2008 750Li [0.00] 2006 BMW [0.00]	You did say dating so the child would not be of a big concern as if you were marrying her. I did it and I barely saw the baby. __________________ Can you say Alooooha? [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]

09-29-2008, 11:10 PM	#13
lecatrache Five Star General Drives: 330i Black Sph PP/SP/NV/MTk Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Texas Posts: 774 iTrader: (0) Garage List 2006 330i [0.00]	We would never what we're capable of until we try

09-29-2008, 11:22 PM	#14
Joonsup Lieutenant General Drives: E92 M3, E30 325i Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Bay Area Posts: 17,312 iTrader: (8) Garage List 2008 BMW M3 [4.75]	it makes sense that if you're still young in your early 20s you'd say hell know lemme get the fawk out of here. but as you get older it wont be as big of a deal. trust me

09-29-2008, 11:24 PM	#15
dmkaldas Rollin 3rd Drives: Something fast Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Chino Hills Posts: 1,019 iTrader: (13)	just hit it, quit and say you never did it __________________

09-30-2008, 01:00 AM	#17
kevinbahnz Lieutenant Drives: 2008 335xi sedan Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Ma-NC Posts: 445 iTrader: (1)	"cum dumpster" __________________

09-30-2008, 01:06 AM	#18
Year's_End Cpt. Buzzkill Drives: '08 E92 335i Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: St. Pete, FL Posts: 11,785 iTrader: (0)	No. But I'm still a week and a half shy of 19, so I don't really apply. __________________ _.[In a love/hate relationship with...] E92 335i: Space Grey\|Coral Red\|Aluminum Trim _________VMR V710s\|M-Sport Rear Bumper & Rockers\|M3 Spoiler\|Golf-T__________Moved on to the misc. Later, brahs.

09-30-2008, 10:20 AM	#20
akack79 riDIRKulous Drives: long live the N54 Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: T E X A S Posts: 3,027 iTrader: (18) Garage List 2008 E92 335i [5.00]	If Jessica Alba with kid in tow is ever single again.............. __________________ 2008 E92 335i \|Montego\|GrayWalnut\|Auto\|ZPP\|ZSP\|Heated\|CA\|iPod\|PDC MODS: AeroLip\|PaintedReflectors\|PaintedKidneys\|LowerBlk Mesh\|EuroSwitch\|AlumnPedals\|M Footrest\|KW V1\|BorlaExhaust\|4"Tips\|35% F1Tint\|6000Kd1S\|BMC Filter\|LUX H8\|M-TechSides\|V1 Hardwired\|Vorsteiner CSL Trunk\|CF wrap interior\|EuroArmRest\|M Tech Wheel\|LCI taillights\|19"BBS LM-R

09-30-2008, 10:33 AM	#21
Enjoiyourlife Sensei Drives: E92 335i Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: San Diego Posts: 1,053 iTrader: (3)	im 23 and no......... baggage.. ive heard all the stories. my buddy dated a girl with a kid... bad news.... drama with the baby daddy my ex gf dated a guy with a kid.... drama with the baby mama. __________________

09-30-2008, 10:34 AM	#22
Tondtar 12 yr old Juvie Drives: His Mom Crazy Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: El Lay Posts: 886 iTrader: (2) Garage List 2008 (RIP in 2011) ... [0.00]	May be ...Only if she is not older and does not drive a Cadillac : http://www.e90post.com/forums/showthread.php?t=174862

Thread Tools	Search this Thread
Show Printable Version Email this Page	Search this Thread: Advanced Search