this girl is confusing me....need advice

[krnshinsa]

she's using you for your bmw don't be a tool





jk get her number. careful of friend zone. be there for her but not like a friend. take control and don't be shy. take her out play your cards right then seal the deal.

DO NOT I repeat DO NOT be obsessed with her and have her as an only option. You should be having fun with other chicks on the side. If she rejects you think nothing of it. IT HAPPENS. Also don't think she's out of your league. this should be your mindset=If she doesn't want to be with me thats her loss. confidence is bliss good luck

[superboy.]

man....just go for it!

[FrankoQ]

Brazil girl... better make your move or someone else will.

[Scimitar335i]

Originally Posted by ejazbmw

well i don't come on here for girl advice but this chick is confusing the hell out of me. Anyway i've been taking this night class it has about errrr 7 kids lol 6 guys 1 girl and for the first few classes this girl sat allllllll the way at the other end i mean this class is a lecture hall probably for 200+kids, and then one night she took my seat at first i was like "what the hell I've been sitting there for 3 weeks" (I'm not the nicest person at 8pm) anyway she looked at me and said your going to have to take a seat next to me. So she started to talk to me about the class and how we hated it mostly.

soo fast forward a few weeks and we've been talking on a regular basis i don't have her number but we always see each other on campus, we had lunch a few times nothing serious. My friends all tell me to ask her out on a date but i think shes out of my league lol I mean I'm not ugly but this chick is about 8ish maybe 9 I mean shes from Brazil .

Alright to the part that confuses me i thought this chick started to like me since i always made her laugh and we had a good time but all the sudden she starts talking about her ex-boyfriend and how he won't leave her alone, and now all she talks about is this kid i kind of just sit and listen to the voice in my head thats saying "why do i always get the obsessed girls"

anyway what do you guys think i should do? this actually happened to me before and i cut the chick off she wanted to be friends but i just stopped talking to her lol i don't want to do that to this girl since we get along so well....i don't know maybe she just wants to be friends? but the hints she gives me seem like she likes me

The classic: I need cannon fodder to make my ex go crazy and whoop some slob's ass

Don't fall for it.

J/K just go for it man... your pussy doesn't hurt does it?

[Spool]

We need pics man...so we can better assess the situation...

[Enjoiyourlife]

+1 pics of this hottie first..

But really.. What usually works best is you ask her out for dinner and drinks..

Most girls will say yes..

Obviously choose some place chill where you can set the mood and talk. Have a couple drinks. If she's feelin it, you can tell. Body language is like 80% of communication lol

At the end of the night, go in for the kiss.. These days, girls give that up on the first night 99% of the time hahaha

Simple as that man.. Don't get stuck in the "friend zone"

Good luck.

[Neurorad]

Make up your own mind about what to do. Be decisive.

[ejazbmw]

all good advice guys thanks a lot I'm seeing her today and I'm gonna go for and ask for her number and from their I'll ask her out, I don't want to late like some of you guys are saying I'd rather get rejected then not ask her out at all....

as for pics hahaha i'll try to seek some phone pics i guess or I give you her myspace link although its private I'll look for it after class since i don't have a myspace i can't get into her pics lol

[uabimmer]

Originally Posted by rickc

^^^ ok that was an exaggeration but the point i was trying to make is for him to not act like a pussy when she's talking about her ex-bf and to level the playing field. he sounds young so the bottom-line advice from me was to "just have fun."

oh... well in that case i have to agree with you completely haha

Posted by krnshinsa
she's using you for your bmw don't be a tool

jk get her number. careful of friend zone. be there for her but not like a friend. take control and don't be shy. take her out play your cards right then seal the deal.

DO NOT I repeat DO NOT be obsessed with her and have her as an only option. You should be having fun with other chicks on the side. If she rejects you think nothing of it. IT HAPPENS. Also don't think she's out of your league. this should be your mindset=If she doesn't want to be with me thats her loss. confidence is bliss good luck

^^^ Yes exactly .... this also tends to creep girls out (its like you become a stalker) <- hope i spelled that right LOL

[darkphantom]

Originally Posted by Spool

We need pics man...so we can better assess the situation...

was wondering when you would get on the scene....

[Spool]

Originally Posted by darkphantom

was wondering when you would get on the scene....

in this day and age on the internet there lots of stories...we need visual evidence to make things more interesting...



give us a pic and we'll tell you if it's worth the hassle or not ejaz

[Frankiedez]

well i u dont ask her i might just have to come to your school and do it for my self lol

[cyba]

your already talking to her so just ask her out....

[darkphantom]

where is the OP?? I demand a pic!

[Rick]

Originally Posted by darkphantom

where is the OP?? I demand a pic!

+1

[FrankoQ]

get a couple of pics from class.

[ejazbmw]

haha chill out I'll post some pics as soon as i get out of school i can't really go on myspace here

[E92_335]

wow we need some pics asap haha.. good luck with this situation let us know how it goes

[ejazbmw]

lol yeah pics are coming my school blocks sites like myspace and facebook so kids won't waste time its pretty stupid even though i have non of them

[darkphantom]

thanks op, so you ask her out yet?

[xg3]

pic or i call this bs.. is a brazillian dude..

just joking dude.

[Spool]

if i didn't step in we wouldn't be seeing pics...you guys are so weak