Broke up with ex-gf after 1 year 4 months, *ASIAN ADVICE NEEDED*

FDfranklin · 03-08-2011, 10:47 AM

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Originally Posted by ferrari355fi

If there is good reason to not trust her, then there is no reason for the relationship. Why choose to be around someone you can't trust?

Exactly lol I said in my post I would have left her before I found out she was fucking these other guys she was dating.

NYCGP · 03-08-2011, 10:48 AM

If you don't trust her it is either because she is actually cheating or you think she would cheat. Either way, is that someone you want to spend the rest of your life with?

Verbiage · 03-08-2011, 10:53 AM

I disagree with the fact that just because you have trust for someone that makes it okay for them to just go out with anyone. Some people really are uncomfortable with that notion (usually women), and for good reason. Anyone is susceptible to temptation, no matter how much "trust" you think you have. Its how a good number of things fall apart.

Verbiage · 03-08-2011, 10:54 AM

Also, I think open relationships are a complete waste of time and utter bullshit. Fuck that.

JayKay335i · 03-08-2011, 10:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Bavarian III

I disagree with the fact that just because you have trust for someone that makes it okay for them to just go out with anyone. Some people really are uncomfortable with that notion (usually women), and for good reason. Anyone is susceptible to temptation, no matter how much "trust" you think you have. Its how a good number of things fall apart.

Nope. I have friends of both sexes. I go out with either whenever I want, wherever, and however. If I ever had a girlfriend that said she didn't like it I would tell her tough shit. She has every right to meet my friends if she so desires but I will not not hang out with people because she isn't secure. If I'm dating somebody I am dating them. It would be a waste of time and energy to cheat and I would just break up with them. I tell girls that before I date them.

Verbiage · 03-08-2011, 11:00 AM

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Originally Posted by JayKay335i

Nope. I have friends of both sexes. I go out with either whenever I want, wherever, and however. If I ever had a girlfriend that said she didn't like it I would tell her tough shit. She has every right to meet my friends if she so desires but I will not not hang out with people because she isn't secure. If I'm dating somebody I am dating them. It would be a waste of time and energy to cheat and I would just break up with them. I tell girls that before I date them.

I feel ya man. I guess I'm just referring to the more intimate "going-outs" and such. The girl I dated the longest had a close relationship with a lot of outside people, being very popular as she was, and I got used to that. People's reputations precede them, though; some things I just take a bit more cautiously.

JayKay335i · 03-08-2011, 11:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Bavarian III

I feel ya man. I guess I'm just referring to the more intimate "going-outs" and such. The girl I dated the longest had a close relationship with a lot of outside people, being very popular as she was, and I got used to that. People's reputations precede them, though; some things I just take a bit more cautiously.

I take everything into consideration but I tell them that I wont waste their time and I'd appreciate if they didn't waste mine. I'm cool with it if they want to get it somewhere else, just let me know, so I can leave them in a dumpster somewhere.

NYCGP · 03-08-2011, 11:05 AM

Dumpster = bad idea..

Verbiage · 03-08-2011, 11:07 AM

If you put them in a dumpster, NYC will find them.

How many bodies have you found, man?

BoostedBarrett · 03-08-2011, 11:07 AM

Move on. When you keep breaking up with the same person it isn't a stable relationship. Besides, it sounds like she is disrespecting you by all of her actions.

Afterall, you drive a BMW, and chicks love BMWs!

NYCGP · 03-08-2011, 11:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Bavarian III

If you put them in a dumpster, NYC will find them.

How many babies have you found, man?

ftfy

JayKay335i · 03-08-2011, 11:10 AM

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Originally Posted by NYCGP

Dumpster = bad idea..

I know, by dumpster I just mean wet alley way.

Verbiage · 03-08-2011, 11:11 AM

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Originally Posted by NYCGP

ftfy

NYCGP · 03-08-2011, 11:12 AM

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Originally Posted by JayKay335i

I know, by dumpster I just mean wet alley way. With no finger tips, teeth, face or distinguishable markings.

NYCGP · 03-08-2011, 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Bavarian III

JayKay335i · 03-08-2011, 11:14 AM

Well, duh. Although I'd suggest removing the whole mandible. And burning the body, with alcohol.

NYCGP · 03-08-2011, 11:17 AM

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Originally Posted by JayKay335i

Well, duh. Although I'd suggest removing the whole mandible. And burning the body, with alcohol.

Now we're cookin' with gasoline... I will help you guys learn how to "do work" the right way.

Freakazoid · 03-08-2011, 11:17 AM

move the fuck on.

that is all

OC Guy · 03-08-2011, 11:17 AM

You're young, she's young, you were accepted into a major University. This gives you the opportunity to be more stress free and concentrate on school and more importantly, meeting new people at your new school.

As hard as this may sound, a lot of us have been through the same thing, thinking there will never been anyone like her, but you will find a new girl shortly enough. There's plenty out there.

MediaArtist · 03-08-2011, 11:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Bavarian III

Also, I think open relationships are a complete waste of time and utter bullshit. Fuck that.

I don't know, persian54 seems to think his open relationship is pretty successful.

JayKay335i · 03-08-2011, 11:21 AM

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Originally Posted by NYCGP

Now we're cookin' with gasoline... I will help you guys learn how to "do work" the right way.

No no no. Gasoline doesn't burn hot enough.

NYCGP · 03-08-2011, 11:24 AM

wait.. you're in high school. Azns are strange. Talking about marriage at age 18 is just ridiculous.

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