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      12-21-2007, 02:37 AM   #1
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to you guys with girlfriends/wives (have a question)

been going out with my girlfriend for two years now and while this may sound a bit funny - how the hell do you guys deal with guys talking about your gf or something of that matter behind your back?

now this part might sound complicated but i know you guys will get it....im getting sick of my gf's friends (girls) that have guy friends who are always interested or asking my gf's friends if shes single or "is she still going out with that one guy" - how the hell do you guys put up with this?

usually im just like whatever and dont let it get to me but this shit is starting to piss me off and i dont know how i should react. i have to admit i do have a slight temper problem (passed down from my dad unfortunately) and just dont know what to do, if i should chill let it go, or if i should do something so someone gets a fucking hint.

sorry for the rant but this seriously just pisses me off already
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      12-21-2007, 02:57 AM   #2
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Bro, just let it go
As long as your gf is not a bitch ur fine
If you see them pulling moves then you do something
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      12-21-2007, 03:16 AM   #3
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just be a man about it.......

when you lose your sense of security....

that's when your mind starts playing trick on you.
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      12-21-2007, 03:24 AM   #4
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Bro, just let it go
As long as your gf is not a bitch ur fine
If you see them pulling moves then you do something
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just be a man about it.......

when you lose your sense of security....

that's when your mind starts playing trick on you.
thanks for the serious replies guys .... really appreciate it.

yeah i think the right thing to do would to just brush it off unless something really DOES happen
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Be a man and kill them. Do the right thing.
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      12-21-2007, 03:55 AM   #6
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Be a man and kill them. Do the right thing.
i would but my gun permit expired and i cant afford another arrest on my record
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      12-21-2007, 03:59 AM   #7
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Let it go man. It's all pointing to the good fact that you have a great girl and everybody wants a piece. That's a great compliment and you should be thankful of having her.
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      12-21-2007, 04:27 AM   #8
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Let it go man. It's all pointing to the good fact that you have a great girl and everybody wants a piece. That's a great compliment and you should be thankful of having her.
good way to look at it.... thanks man
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Np man. Happy Holidays
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when you lose your sense of security....
that's when your mind starts playing trick on you.
Very good way to put it... just put some trust in your girl and your relationship. But one thing is important, communication and tell your girl that her friends persistance with their comments aren't cool.

Its the Christmas season... buy her a santa hat and some stockings and give her your Cane!
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Dude if you are secure about your relationship with her what the fuck does it matter what others are saying? In fact I see it as a complement that I've got a hot chick!
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      12-22-2007, 06:46 PM   #12
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If guys want her so badly and shes with you, consider that a compliment.

Now, if you can trust her not to act upon it, well then yeah you know where I'm goin with this
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      12-22-2007, 06:51 PM   #13
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i used to dog people and bust heads for guys trying to hit on my girlfriend.

but i learned to just laugh it off. a guy asked my girl if she was single.... i heard that and i went over to her and said " come on babe lets go...." and the guy was just looking.

if guys are checking out your girl just be proud, cuz you know you got a beautiful girl.
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that used to happen to me a lot, but after nearly 4 years, people pretty much realize there is no chance. we are pretty much married. just let it go, take it as a compliment, YOURE the one who gets her at the end of the day.
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if guys are checking out your girl just be proud, cuz you know you got a beautiful girl.
Yep. Think about it that way. I wouldn't do anything unless they actually started making moves towards her. Then I'd have to step in.

Besides, if you both are really serious about each other, your girl will make things clear to the other guys and tell them to back off. If that's the case, you got yourself a keeper.
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Yep. Think about it that way. I wouldn't do anything unless they actually started making moves towards her. Then I'd have to step in.

Besides, if you both are really serious about each other, your girl will make things clear to the other guys and tell them to back off. If that's the case, you got yourself a keeper.
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Tell her to give you a BJ right in front of them... that will shut them up...

Whenever I get a new girlfriend, I always bring her to my boys' pads and tell her to give me a Bj in front of them and film it in case anyone that miss it can refer back to it later.

They ALL know she's mine.
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been going out with my girlfriend for two years now and while this may sound a bit funny - how the hell do you guys deal with guys talking about your gf or something of that matter behind your back?

now this part might sound complicated but i know you guys will get it....im getting sick of my gf's friends (girls) that have guy friends who are always interested or asking my gf's friends if shes single or "is she still going out with that one guy" - how the hell do you guys put up with this?

usually im just like whatever and dont let it get to me but this shit is starting to piss me off and i dont know how i should react. i have to admit i do have a slight temper problem (passed down from my dad unfortunately) and just dont know what to do, if i should chill let it go, or if i should do something so someone gets a fucking hint.

sorry for the rant but this seriously just pisses me off already
don't hang out with her friends or with their guy friends wtf? How can u blame them for wanting to nail her. They can't at least ask their friend if she is available? wtf?

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Two years, time for some sort of ring.
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      12-29-2007, 06:35 PM   #22
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she's with you for a reason. I'd take it as a compliment that other guys desire her. As long as she isn't giving them a reason to think you aren't together I don't really see the issue. Guys gawk at my wife all the time and I could care less, she's going home with me
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