this girl is confusing me....need advice

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You know its not going well when he's on a date but still keeps his bimmerpost thread updated

[Alex@AKMotorwerk]

Originally Posted by ejazbmw

things are going pretty good guys, had to get on my phone and update you guys haha

HAHAHA... true guy, updating everyone while ON the date. Good luck bro and full details tonight/tomorrow depending how well the night goes

[darkphantom]

damn, 3 pages too late, can't see the pic anymore! OP removed it!

[NaTuReB0Y]

pics or ban!!!!

[in5ane_3]

wtf you post on your phone but can't snap a quick pic for us? Where's the love for your e9x brotherin?

[dreamk]

Originally Posted by darkphantom

damn, 3 pages too late, can't see the pic anymore! OP removed it!

same here. anyone saved it?

[ejazbmw]

update from last night date...

I think it went great we first went to dinner at this place nothing to fancy she told me she liked the bonefish grille so we went there, we talked about things like what we wanted to do after college and stuff everything was going good. After words we went to a little get together at my friends house had a few drinks (this is were i was really relaxed since i had a few drinks in me) she seemed to be having a good time as well.

so we called it a night at 1:30am i dropped her off at her apartment, and this were i kinda got confused because she just sat in my car looking at her shoes lol and i remember from that move HITCH when he gave kevin james the advice if a girl starts to play with something she wants you to come in, so i dropped her off to her door and she did ask me to come in for a drink, but i said NO because i didn't want her to get everything in one night i wanted to keep her on her feet and looking for more, but she did give me a kiss which made me happy as hell, but i hope to god i didn't fuck up because i could have gotten laid last night hahaha oh well she did text me in this morning saying she wanted to go out again so i think i did the right thing.....right?

[ejazbmw]

i didn't remove the pic thats odd, give me a few mins i'll upload it again

[tjlayzer]

Load up the pic . Not too bad for your first date and its always a good sign when she wants to go out again.

[Tallest]

Ok, here's my take on OPs situation:

Originally Posted by ejazbmw

anyway she looked at me and said your going to have to take a seat next to me. So she started to talk to me about the class and how we hated it mostly.

So she made the move. That's not bad, she obviously picked you out of all the other dudes in the room, so it's a start.

Originally Posted by ejazbmw

but i think shes out of my league lol I mean I'm not ugly but this chick is about 8ish maybe 9 I mean shes from Brazil .

1. Stop putting girls on scale, wtf is wrong with you. She is either nice or not. all this geek shit, 8 out 10, whatever.
2. Who cares how you look? Girls like confidence. Be confident, she'll be attracted to that. Be bit of an ass, but not too much.

Originally Posted by ejazbmw

Alright to the part that confuses me i thought this chick started to like me since i always made her laugh and we had a good time

good so far, they like humour

Originally Posted by ejazbmw

but all the sudden she starts talking about her ex-boyfriend and how he won't leave her alone, and now all she talks about is this kid i kind of just sit and listen to the voice in my head thats saying "why do i always get the obsessed girls"

Either ignor the BF talk or tell her that you don' t know her well enough to be talking about her problems with BF. Then suggest some way how you can get to know her better. Offer her a fackin baloon ride over the town, haha.

Originally Posted by ejazbmw

i don't want to do that to this girl since we get along so well....i don't know maybe she just wants to be friends? but the hints she gives me seem like she likes me

Did you expect to jump into bed with you same day? gonna have to work, I mean without knowing you its hard to specifically suggest something here - usually you just know if girl likes you and it's quite easy and if she doesn't like you well, you can't force feelings. Hang out with her outside of school, make her laugh, give her occasional compliment, the usual stuff.

I think many girls love dancing, so go to night club, it's a good opportunity to dance with her, be a bit more intimate, not in classroom yap yap hate teacher environment.

and chill out, you are like obcessing over her already, do not do that, or you'll get hurt!

[ejazbmw]

^^^^^^^^ good points

[uabimmer]

uhm ... so am i the only one who is still waiting for a PIC

failure to provide visual proof of any statments made, such as but not limited to "this girl is hot" , "maybe 9 I mean shes from Brazil " will result in permanent dismissal (ban) from e90post and neighboring forums

[DougLikesBMW]

Originally Posted by uabimmer

uhm ... so am i the only one who is still waiting for a PIC

Nope, I am too.

[closer98]

Originally Posted by ejazbmw

update from last night date...

I think it went great we first went to dinner at this place nothing to fancy she told me she liked the bonefish grille so we went there, we talked about things like what we wanted to do after college and stuff everything was going good. After words we went to a little get together at my friends house had a few drinks (this is were i was really relaxed since i had a few drinks in me) she seemed to be having a good time as well.

so we called it a night at 1:30am i dropped her off at her apartment, and this were i kinda got confused because she just sat in my car looking at her shoes lol and i remember from that move HITCH when he gave kevin james the advice if a girl starts to play with something she wants you to come in, so i dropped her off to her door and she did ask me to come in for a drink, but i said NO because i didn't want her to get everything in one night i wanted to keep her on her feet and looking for more, but she did give me a kiss which made me happy as hell, but i hope to god i didn't fuck up because i could have gotten laid last night hahaha oh well she did text me in this morning saying she wanted to go out again so i think i did the right thing.....right?

For a 20 yr old guy you did great!! for us older guys we wouldve went in for the kill right away. send the pic. proud of you though! good work!

[IWearScrubs]

DOnt do the movie thing, go mini-golfing...

Seriously, Best Date Ever.

[unagi1]

Originally Posted by DougLikesBMW

Nope, I am too.

+1...put it back up already...and OP, congratulations on clearing stage 1.

[kevinbahnz]

Dont post the same pic you had up. that one was old and you can hardly see her. get an updated pic of her on your phone. oh by the way good job. you must really like this girl. she asked you in and you refused. the girl practically asks to get laid and you refused. hmm. i did that to a few girls and they thought that I was gay or had a problem.. I hope she doesnt think the same.

[uhaulball]

wtfux pics? nice story. hope i can get the same thing going. im taking a night class and etc...

[bmwturbopower]

I've been following this thread since you posted. You played it well. I think you have snagged her now beat it up.

[darkphantom]

Originally Posted by IWearScrubs

DOnt do the movie thing, go mini-golfing...

Seriously, Best Date Ever.

Mini-golf + women = most boring thing ever.....after the first few holes, my gf and I skipped the boring ones and did maybe 2-3 more and then went to the Go-Karts Now THAT is fun as hell!

[TheLegacy]

ehh lame skip da 4play and just cut her up in bits and store her in the walls... wait.... wrong advice thread

hehe jk, good deal keep playing "the game" i'm sure u've got this

[Inspired]

I call BS! He is only 17 or 18. This kid purposely put a picture the size of a dime and then claims someone took it off. And now he's scared of replying on this thread.. Fucking ridiculous..