Stay away from Brushstoke in NYC unless you want to drop $500...

[ddk632]

Originally Posted by HTran

Oh I fully understand. But when you're young, it seems like there are endless ways to meet women such as: college, work, clubs, hobbies, parties. How does it work at an older age? Bars, friends of friends?

I don't know, I'm not that old yet!!!

But seriously think about it, ok college goes away.
Work, never a good idea (don't shit where you eat)

Hobbies, that stays constant as long as you continue to have them.

Clubs? Do you meet lots of girls at clubs? Maybe. Yes, the weird 45 year old dude at the club does stand out, but I don't see this as a major place anyway.

There are lots of meetup groups for similar interests;
Bars will get you the same trash at any age;

You can be at a grocery store, or the local mall or outdoor place in the evening, and regardless of age find someone to talk to.

Friends of friends, and even setups, happen for younger folks as well as the middle aged.

Here in Florida, there are even more classy bars/restaurants that cater to an older crowd, so even senior citizens can find a mate! (Yeah, not a fun visual).

I think if you have interests and hobbies, and are out and about doing those things, and are social, then you can meet people, no matter what age,

There are single women in their 20's, 30's and even 40's, and single divorced moms in the same age ranges that are DTF and frequent the same places.

Except for the college thing being out, I don't see much of a difference, really, for the guys in their 40's.

Oh and parties continue to happen. They might change in style (kegs become wine and cheese) but as you get older, parties don't just go away.

And, a dude in his 40's can date 30 year old chicks and it's cool. Often, if the guy is successful or at least has his shit together, and is in decent shape, he will be a candidate for the younger women.

[amanda hor$t]

Originally Posted by HTran

Oh I fully understand. But when you're young, it seems like there are endless ways to meet women such as: college, work, clubs, hobbies, parties. How does it work at an older age? Bars, friends of friends?

church, funerals, and there's always the internet because most grown ups are too busy to "hang out". my roommate from college works 70 hr weeks. though i met a lot of people when i had a "real job", all from the same line of work. 10 yrs out of college, i would be surprised if you're still in regular touch with 3 of those "friends forever" people.

i hit up a bartender in amsterdam after we shared a pizza together, but then she tried to be a player. too bad, i was about to fly her to l.a. (never been to america, wanted to)

[HTran]

Originally Posted by ddk632

I don't know, I'm not that old yet!!!

But...l

Fair enough. It makes sense. Everyone approaches the market differently. IMO The general overview is, it sounds very difficult when you're not around women saturated area like college for example and ample raging parties.

[ddk632]

Originally Posted by HTran

Fair enough. It makes sense. Everyone approaches the market differently. IMO The general overview is, it sounds very difficult when you're not around women saturated area like college for example and ample raging parties.

Tell me more about these ample raging parties!

[HTran]

Originally Posted by ddk632

Tell me more about these ample raging parties!

Well, a lot of drinking subjective to your tolerance.. Then after that I'm sure no one ever could recall what happened that night.

[Colt]

A fleshlight with her picture on it would be cheaper

[ddk632]

Originally Posted by HTran

Well, a lot of drinking subjective to your tolerance.. Then after that I'm sure no one ever could recall what happened that night.

So.. You think this can't happen at a wine and cheese party when you're older?

[TrevorM3]

Originally Posted by DSB335d

I hope she love you long time

i raffed.

[Kwando]

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[ddk632]

Originally Posted by TrevorM3

i raffed.

Am I getting too old, or what the fuck does that mean?

[kihun]

you are in 40's. spending 500 dollar on dinner shouldn't be that bad. =D hopefully I can say the samething after 13 years

[persian54]

Originally Posted by Crimson92

Guess its just me then.

Well, first date no… but after a while, yes.

I'm taking my girl out to dinner at a multi Michelin start restaurant in Vegas, and it'll be about $250/pp. They have a tasting menu that, if memory serves me right, cost $1k…. THAT I'm not down for right now

We go to Providence in LA once in a while, which generally comes out to $150ish, $200/pp if we get wine (nether of us really care to drink unless it's a special occasion.

[dreamingat30fps]

4+ Michelin Only Baby! That's how I roll.

[Crimson92]

Originally Posted by TrevorM3

i raffed.

Took me a second. But I got it.

[F32]

Originally Posted by ddk632

Am I getting too old, or what the fuck does that mean?

When you get it, you'll LOL.

[paradoxical3]

Originally Posted by Endless619

Agreed… However I do like from time to time…

Ruth Chris
The French Laundry

First and list time Ruth Chris will ever be mentioned in the same sentence as a Keller joint.


(P.S. I like Ruth Chris a lot, but common...)

[Nkc]

First the divorce/alimony payments, then the asian gf with crazy mom, now this...I'm sensing a troll or a bad luck Brian.

[stimpy]

lol @ op

Clue you in ... first date is dinner and/or drinks and she pays for her self. There's absolutely no reason to treat some random girl to a free meal like that. Why? Because she has a vagina? Plenty of those out there. Chivalry? Chivalry is acting like a gentlemen - not paying for randomgirl01's food.

[ddk632]

Ok got the raffled. That's actually pretty funny. Brain not working last night.

Leally funny...

[Nkc]

Originally Posted by ddk632

Ok got the raffled. That's actually pretty funny. Brain not working last night.

Leally funny...

you mean lilly funny white?

[TrevorM3]

loll..^

[ddk632]

Originally Posted by Nkc

you mean lilly funny white?

Exactly, light!