this girl is confusing me....need advice

ejazbmw · 10-16-2008, 09:43 AM

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Alex@AKMotorwerk · 10-16-2008, 09:47 AM

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Originally Posted by ejazbmw

http://www.e90post.com/forums/attach...1&d=1224168191
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Nice... go for ur's bro. Oh, i sent u a PM too

Enjoiyourlife · 10-16-2008, 09:55 AM

she likes big wheels. lol make it happen brudduh

Spool · 10-16-2008, 09:56 AM

Skirt, high heels, low cut top...

Spool approved

ejazbmw · 10-16-2008, 10:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Spool

Skirt, high heels, low cut top...

Spool approved

haha i actually never seen her dress like that shes always in her work clothes but when i saw that pic all i could do was

ejazbmw · 10-16-2008, 10:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Enjoiyourlife

she likes big wheels. lol make it happen brudduh

haha yeah i thats a 6series in the back? rims look to big though for it, but i guess thats not the point lol

Alex@AKMotorwerk · 10-16-2008, 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by ejazbmw

haha yeah i thats a 6series in the back? rims look to big though for it, but i guess thats not the point lol

whatever it is, i just hope her heel isn't digging into that front fender... if it was, i don't care if she was a 10, it would be a deal breaker for me- lol

FrankoQ · 10-16-2008, 10:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Spool

Skirt, high heels, low cut top...

Spool approved

Looks like spool wants to go on a recon mission.

ejazbmw · 10-16-2008, 11:08 AM

I'm sure spool will get her address and start sending her naked pictures of him

just messing with you spool

montreal_bimmer · 10-16-2008, 12:59 PM

its already taken too long man.... ask for her number before she continues to look at you as just a friend.... nothing to be shy about... just do it...

ask her to go for lunch on a saturday or sunday... girls love lunch, and it looks less like a date... eat lunch, go for a walk or a drive, then drop her off at home... be cocky and funny... make her want more... dont answer all her questions, and respond to some with another question.... make her laugh

iatacs19 · 10-16-2008, 01:17 PM

never do lunch.

ejazbmw · 10-16-2008, 02:50 PM

its official i have a date with her on Saturday!!!! first were going to get some something to eat i know a few good places that are nice, and after that were going to a party at my college..wish me luck...lol

MTV · 10-16-2008, 02:53 PM

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Originally Posted by ejazbmw

its official i have a date with her on Saturday!!!! first were going to get some something to eat i know a few good places that are nice, and after that were going to a party at my college..wish me luck...lol

You're in.

ejazbmw · 10-16-2008, 02:55 PM

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Originally Posted by MTV

You're in.

hopefully everything goes well....

oh and thanks a lot guys for the tips and advice

WAYNEBO · 10-16-2008, 03:46 PM

Ah Grasshoppa...

If there is anything I've learned in my wise old years it is to never, ever try to figure out a woman. They don't have a logical means to an end. They thrive on emotion, and pseudo pi-polar disorder. There could be a multitude of variables that may have caused her to initiate a connection with you, whether it be romantic or plutonic. And the bottom line is you are motivated by 1 thing (duh) and she is motivated by several. You will lose every time in the guessing game, because she has many check boxes to fill regarding you and/or your "relationship"…. whatever it materializes into. You are dangerously encroaching into the "just friendship" zone that you can never cross back from, so be careful. Be honest and be yourself. If you make your intentions known and it bounces back, look at it this way.... you get your seat back and she returns to the other side

My consultations are free....

Dali Lama Do All Day.

FrankoQ · 10-16-2008, 03:56 PM

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Originally Posted by ejazbmw

hopefully everything goes well....

oh and thanks a lot guys for the tips and advice

Full report and better pics by sunday!

MMMazing07 · 10-16-2008, 03:57 PM

how did ya do it

duh

ejazbmw · 10-16-2008, 06:15 PM

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Originally Posted by WAYNEBO

Ah Grasshoppa...

If there is anything I've learned in my wise old years it is to never, ever try to figure out a woman. They don't have a logical means to an end. They thrive on emotion, and pseudo pi-polar disorder. There could be a multitude of variables that may have caused her to initiate a connection with you, whether it be romantic or plutonic. And the bottom line is you are motivated by 1 thing (duh) and she is motivated by several. You will lose every time in the guessing game, because she has many check boxes to fill regarding you and/or your "relationship"…. whatever it materializes into. You are dangerously encroaching into the "just friendship" zone that you can never cross back from, so be careful. Be honest and be yourself. If you make your intentions known and it bounces back, look at it this way.... you get your seat back and she returns to the other side

My consultations are free....

Dali Lama Do All Day.

dude i grew up with two sisters i know what you mean when you say you'll never understand women lol I'm gonna try to make a clear point my intentions are more then friendship..

and I'll report back on saturday night

Alex@AKMotorwerk · 10-16-2008, 07:16 PM

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Originally Posted by ejazbmw

its official i have a date with her on Saturday!!!! first were going to get some something to eat i know a few good places that are nice, and after that were going to a party at my college..wish me luck...lol

Let me know how it goes bro

ejazbmw · 10-16-2008, 08:03 PM

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Originally Posted by nj323ci

Let me know how it goes bro

will do

Rick · 10-16-2008, 08:29 PM

OP: I feel jipped, we need a better pic than that thumbnail you posted earlier even though she does seem pretty fine from afar. Also, even though I trust you are now on the aggressive path,

please do be careful of the "friend zone" as previously mentioned. I am speaking from experience... I have a distant friend (girl) who I run into every now and then that is in my "friend zone," she is a single mom with a 2 year old.. and I have a serious girlfriend now. Every time I see her I always wonder where my life would be if I just had the fucking balls to ask her out on a real date when we were much younger. I did the lunch thing with her and hung out with her on the weekends and listened to her stories, etc. etc. but never went in for the kill, so to speak. If I was single right now, I could still never go for the "friend zone girl," because all I can imagine is her reaction if I did so.... something like Phillip Seymour Hoffman trying to make out with Dirk Diggler in Boogie Nights.

ejazbmw · 10-16-2008, 08:36 PM

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Originally Posted by rickc

OP: I feel jipped, we need a better pic that that thumbnail you posted earlier even though she does seem pretty fine from afar. Also, even though I trust you are now on the aggressive path,

please do be careful of the "friend zone" as previously mentioned. I am speaking from experience... I have a distant friend (girl) who I run into every now and then that is in my "friend zone," she is single mom with a 2 year old.. and I have a serious girlfriend now. Every time I see her I always wonder where my life would be if I just had the fucking balls to ask her out on a real date when we were much younger. I did the lunch thing with her and hung out with her on the weekends and listened to her stories, etc. etc. but never went in for the kill, so to speak. If I was single right now, I could still never go for the "friend zone girl," because all I can imagine is her reaction if I did so.... something like Phillip Seymour Hoffman trying to make out with Dirk Diggler in Boogie Nights.

haha yeah the pic is kinda small but you get an idea i guess maybe I'll take some pictures this weekend, and trust me I'm gonna be reallllly aggressive and make my point that i don't want to be just friends I'm gonna make my move at the end of the night to get a kiss just to make my intension's clear to her

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montreal_bimmer OEMconcept 174 Rep 5,593 Posts Drives: BMW Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Canada \| USA iTrader: (6) Garage List 2006 325i [10.00]	its already taken too long man.... ask for her number before she continues to look at you as just a friend.... nothing to be shy about... just do it... ask her to go for lunch on a saturday or sunday... girls love lunch, and it looks less like a date... eat lunch, go for a walk or a drive, then drop her off at home... be cocky and funny... make her want more... dont answer all her questions, and respond to some with another question.... make her laugh
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ejazbmw blahhh 302 Rep 6,355 Posts Drives: 2014 M235I Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: NJ/NY iTrader: (7)	its official i have a date with her on Saturday!!!! first were going to get some something to eat i know a few good places that are nice, and after that were going to a party at my college..wish me luck...lol
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WAYNEBO Captain 41 Rep 668 Posts Drives: 2007 335i Join Date: May 2007 Location: SoCal iTrader: (1) Garage List 2007 335i [0.00]	Ah Grasshoppa... If there is anything I've learned in my wise old years it is to never, ever try to figure out a woman. They don't have a logical means to an end. They thrive on emotion, and pseudo pi-polar disorder. There could be a multitude of variables that may have caused her to initiate a connection with you, whether it be romantic or plutonic. And the bottom line is you are motivated by 1 thing (duh) and she is motivated by several. You will lose every time in the guessing game, because she has many check boxes to fill regarding you and/or your "relationship"…. whatever it materializes into. You are dangerously encroaching into the "just friendship" zone that you can never cross back from, so be careful. Be honest and be yourself. If you make your intentions known and it bounces back, look at it this way.... you get your seat back and she returns to the other side My consultations are free.... Dali Lama Do All Day. __________________ 2007 335i 6MT Coupe, Monaco Blue, RPi Ram Air Scoops, Magnaflow cat-backs, H&R Sport springs, 19" Staggered Miro LM-Rs 2000 F250 V10 Superduty 4WD, K&N intake, Banks Monster exhaust, DR 8" lift w/ Welds on 37s
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Rick Stackin' Chips 171 Rep 608 Posts Drives: 2008 AW M3 Coupe Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Santa Monica, CA iTrader: (2)	OP: I feel jipped, we need a better pic than that thumbnail you posted earlier even though she does seem pretty fine from afar. Also, even though I trust you are now on the aggressive path, please do be careful of the "friend zone" as previously mentioned. I am speaking from experience... I have a distant friend (girl) who I run into every now and then that is in my "friend zone," she is a single mom with a 2 year old.. and I have a serious girlfriend now. Every time I see her I always wonder where my life would be if I just had the fucking balls to ask her out on a real date when we were much younger. I did the lunch thing with her and hung out with her on the weekends and listened to her stories, etc. etc. but never went in for the kill, so to speak. If I was single right now, I could still never go for the "friend zone girl," because all I can imagine is her reaction if I did so.... something like Phillip Seymour Hoffman trying to make out with Dirk Diggler in Boogie Nights. __________________
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