Can you date a slut? Marry a slut? Turn one into a housewife?

[Precision]

It seems like 90 percent of good looking girls are sluts one way or another. The rare case that they are a sweet, low number of guy banging girl is so slim now a days it makes me wonder if it's OK to give a skeeze a chance?

Ex: Have you ever heard a girls a slut? Thought she probably was a slut? Known she was easy? Known she was a freak because of conversations you've had? But she doesn't seem to cheat when she has a boyfriend, and has been in a few fairly long term relationships?

What are you supposed to even do with that? This one girl I know is like that or at least that's how I feel... She doesn't go to school, lives in her shitty home town. Works a less than mediocre job

She has great boobs, a tongue ring and the sweetest face ever. BUT I'm not in play around mode anymore. Been there done that. What to do?

[jpsum]

once a slut, always a slut.

[Cyrax91]

You bone her

[Kiemyster]

fool them, fuck them, and leave them. this is what my mother always told me (true story). She calls it ffl lol.

all bitches are whores, even the ones that dont seem like it. When im ready for a real wife im going to buy one in syria or lebanon thats the way to go!

[solefald]

Originally Posted by jpsum

once a slut, always a slut.

listen to this man. he speaks the truth.

[Year's_End]

it's a tough call but i think it comes down to a girl's ability to stay faithful. most women are like guys and want to fuck around, it's as simple as that. what's more important is knowing if a girl has been in a relationship that ended for reasons other than cheating on her part. i typically have a serious convo about how i think cheaters are scum with whoever it is i'm seeing and i monitor her reactions to see if she's guilty of having cheated before. when i get a solid answer back in support of mine without any flinching i feel pretty secure about things.

once a cheater, always a cheater. trust is the most critical factor of any relationship and i don't want to deal with anyone who has any history of cheating. hell, a clean slut (if you ever find one) would be nice to have if she's the trusting type. you can prob do crazier things in the sack with her.

[KingOfJericho]

Find a foreign chick.

[zeenon53]

Every woman is a hooker but your mother....

[BTM]

Curious to know OP's definition of a slut. If a girl is single, and dates/sleeps with a few people, not sure that makes her a slut. If she sleeps around while in a relationship, or literally fucks 3 new dudes a week, then yea, she's a slut. If a girl has been in long term relationships and hasn't cheated, maybe fucked a few dudes in between and when single, I wouldn't classify her as a slut. I'd classify that as pretty normal. If you can't get past the fact a chick has fucked before, I don't know what to tell you. If she is in fact a slut, she'll have A LOT of growing up to do before considering a serious relationship

[solefald]

Originally Posted by KingOfJericho

Find a foreign chick.

as long as that foreign chick is not russian.

[UltimateBMW]

Originally Posted by BTM

If a girl is single, and dates/sleeps with a few people, not sure that makes her a slut.

It used to.

[1ForAll]

Can't turn a ho into a house wife.

[KGB7]

OP, you should marry a goat.

Jokes a side.
If you want a perfect angel house wife, then you should become Amish.
or
You should work on your insecurities first, then you can start looking for a wife.

You can take a slut and in turn her in to perfect house wife. But, a man has to have a very strong set of mind with a set of tools, to lead her to where he wants her to go, and shape her in to what he needs her to be.


But in the mean time, work on your insecurities.

[BTM]

Originally Posted by UltimateBMW

It used to.

It did? While I think true sluts are disgusting, the mentality that a girl is a slut if she sleeps with someone and isn't in a relationship with that person is not how things work anymore...A girl has slept with a few people before she met me? What do I care?

I personally think guys like calling girls sluts that they can't get, no longer fuck them, or fucks someone else that they want in some attempt to rationalize their own incompetence

[NYCGP]

Originally Posted by 1ForAll

Can't turn a ho into a house wife.

Dr. Dre said it best..

[UltimateBMW]

In the end, it'll be a struggle. Save yourself the hassle.

[KGB7]

Originally Posted by NYCGP

Dr. Dre said it best..

Smoking weed, singing about smoking weed, makes him an expert on sluts?? Interesting....

[UltimateBMW]

Originally Posted by BTM

It did? While I think true sluts are disgusting, the mentality that a girl is a slut if she sleeps with someone and isn't in a relationship with that person is not how things work anymore...

I believe you said a few, sir.

Originally Posted by BTM

A girl has slept with a few people before she met me? What do I care?

This statement infers a much longer timespan. (Life up until now) Not the same situation as 3+ squeezes between relationships, I think.

Regardless, at this point I've made it too technical. Lets leave it at, I have more conservative views on the matter.

[BTM]

Originally Posted by UltimateBMW

I believe you said a few, sir.



This statement infers a much longer timespan. (Life up until now) Not the same situation as 3+ squeezes between relationships, I think.

Ok a few. Most people don't get out of 1 long term relationship and jump right into another. A girl takes a year and a half between serious boyfriends, and sleeps with 3 people. Maybe a one night stand, another 2 she was dating/seeing, the last of which turned out to be her next serious relationship. She's slept with a few people in between relationships. She's a slut? Not in my book...

Don't get me wrong, the chick who gets her ass jammed up every weekend, whether she is single or not, is decidedly a slut IMO and disgusting. But simply being sexually active outside of a relationship is not being a slut.

[Quick6EF]

I think it depends on their age.

[Robin_NL]

Originally Posted by BTM

It did? While I think true sluts are disgusting, the mentality that a girl is a slut if she sleeps with someone and isn't in a relationship with that person is not how things work anymore...A girl has slept with a few people before she met me? What do I care?

I personally think guys like calling girls sluts that they can't get, no longer fuck them, or fucks someone else that they want in some attempt to rationalize their own incompetence

I agree. No sluts around here I'm afraid.

[Vanity]

Originally Posted by Precision

It seems like 90 percent of good looking girls are sluts one way or another. The rare case that they are a sweet, low number of guy banging girl is so slim now a days it makes me wonder if it's OK to give a skeeze a chance?

Ex: Have you ever heard a girls a slut? Thought she probably was a slut? Known she was easy? Known she was a freak because of conversations you've had? But she doesn't seem to cheat when she has a boyfriend, and has been in a few fairly long term relationships?

What are you supposed to even do with that? This one girl I know is like that or at least that's how I feel... She doesn't go to school, lives in her shitty home town still drawing blood for work (phlebotomist?)

She has great boobs, a tongue ring and the sweetest face ever. BUT I'm not in play around mode anymore. Been there done that. What to do?

Know you know what women have had to think about up until modern times.