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      09-17-2008, 06:44 PM   #1
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Am I right or wrong, need opinions

A poll question about life

I have a girlfriend that I plan to marry. I love her and she is perfect for me. She is everything a man could want. Being a man, my mind wanders and I find myself still chasing other females and I have cheated on her. I don’t think i am wrong in doing so. If I am a supportive husband and father I don’t see how this makes me a bad guy.

Life is never black or white, it’s always gray.

Do you agree? Or am I wrong.
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      09-17-2008, 07:00 PM   #2
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that depends, how recently/and how often have you cheated?
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that depends, how recently/and how often have you cheated?
agreed.

and just because you're a supporting husband and father does not wash away what you did.
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I cheated 3 times over 2 years. I am 27 years old.
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A Girlfriend can only dump you.

A wife can take you to the cleaners and make you pay through the nose for years to come after a nasty divorce, etc.

There is an answer there for you somewhere
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A poll question about life

I have a girlfriend that I plan to marry. I love her and she is perfect for me. She is everything a man could want. Being a man, my mind wanders and I find myself still chasing other females and I have cheated on her. I don’t think i am wrong in doing so. If I am a supportive husband and father I don’t see how this makes me a bad guy.

Life is never black or white, it’s always gray.

Do you agree? Or am I wrong.
You're really trying to rationalize your decision(s) to make yourself feel better, aren't you'?
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PRENUP!
That only protects what you have now, not what you make "together" during the marriage.
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3 times with 3 different girls? Or the same one on separate occasions?
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      09-17-2008, 09:17 PM   #11
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      09-17-2008, 09:18 PM   #12
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You're really trying to rationalize your decision(s) to make yourself feel better, aren't you'?
+1

and if you think you're gonna cheat again then your relationship has a problem or you just have issues you need to sort out before you put someone elses feelings on the line.
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      09-17-2008, 09:24 PM   #13
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Wow. That's fucked up dude. You're fucked up. There is no justification for cheating no matter how you twist and turn your words. Break up with her because she is too good for you.
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I cannot believe you would do that to a girl you plan on marrying. That is pure selfishness. I hope you get herpes from the girl you cheated on her with.
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      09-17-2008, 09:42 PM   #15
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Dude, you're not ready to marry.
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You're just trying to justify your infidelity. Grow up.
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dude im guilty too. but put the shoe on the other foot. It would not be cool if she cheated on you
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how can u claim u love someone and u dont even respect them? unless u 2 are swingers, but u make it sound like ur cheating... i mean u said it foo... "cheating"
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It seems as if people are typing from their soapboxes. I highly doubt most men would turn down relations when the opportunity presents itself. It doesn’t affect my love for my girlfriend.

Every time I see her I am excited; even still, and vice versa, I pay all her expenses as she starts her career as an artist and our families get along great.

She is happy, that’s what counts.
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It seems as if people are typing from their soapboxes. I highly doubt most men would turn down relations when the opportunity presents itself. It doesn’t affect my love for my girlfriend.

Every time I see her I am excited; even still, and vice versa, I pay all her expenses as she starts her career as an artist and our families get along great.

She is happy, that’s what counts.
Typing from our soapboxes? Seriously dude, any person with at least some respect for the person that they are in a relationship with, for themselves, and any morals would not cheat. It is unbelievably disrespectful to that person being cheated on. Just because it doesn't affect you doesn't make a difference. If you think it's no big deal, please go tell her and don't come back crying to us when your she lobs off your tallywhacker and feeds it to some fish. Please don't marry this girl, she's too good for a lying, cheating scumbag. And whoopdie-fucking-doo if you pay her expenses, why the hell should that make it any more "okay"?
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It seems as if people are typing from their soapboxes. I highly doubt most men would turn down relations when the opportunity presents itself. It doesn’t affect my love for my girlfriend.

Every time I see her I am excited; even still, and vice versa, I pay all her expenses as she starts her career as an artist and our families get along great.

She is happy, that’s what counts.
Her being able to trust you counts as well......
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