Help W/ Dinner Date...

[hl0m4n]

i must say i hate 1 on 1 dinner dates. but anyway i got one tonight and want to avoid awkward pauses what are some good conversations over dinner and keep flow going?

to be honest, when im eating i just want to be left the f alone .

but in all honesty, after you get the basic conv down like school, summer plans, etc im done lol and that only lasts when the food arrives. this is why i like to meet chicks at social areas ie parties, bbq, etc.

[Verbiage]

InB4 the asshole comments.

[CollinsE90]

Did you used to be a man? Do you have a gag reflex? Things of that nature

[MTV]

Originally Posted by CollinsE90

Did you used to be a man? Do you have a gag reflex? Things of that nature

[Verbiage]

Well, I guess if you want to "f", then you'll keep her as entertained as possible

How about aspirations? Work, school..

How old are you? That could be a main determinant of your table conversation

[Topless 335i]

just mention something about twilight and you won't be able to get her to shut up.

[Verbiage]

Originally Posted by Topless 335i

just mention something about twilight and you won't be able to get her to shut up.

Fucking right.

[Saigon]

just be yourself lol

[JayKay335i]

Just relax and be your self. Do the normal BS bickering and stock shit and eventually you'll find something in common and take it from there.

[Verbiage]

Saigon, reasonable responses are not allowed in OT

[Topless 335i]

Originally Posted by Bavarian III

Saigon, reasonable responses are not allowed in OT

[samwoo2go]

I am assuming it's going to be the first date, or first "official" date and What i do, as lame as it sounds is have a few back up "emergency questions" I usually come up with 3 or 4 before hand and if an awkard silence should occur, pull 1 out of your stash. Don't ask generic questions like weather or any job related crap. Ask open ended questions, maybe talk about a mutual acquintance, traveling, make up some ambitious and unrealistic dreams you have (or if you really have them.) any question or subject that you bring up should aim to accomplish 1 or both these goals. Something that will inevitably lead you to compliment something about her, or something that will aloow her to run her fucking mouth non stop, so yo uhave time to chow.
Other tips. choose a crowded restaurant bar for dinner dates especially the first few, because
1, there will be a wait, which allows you to meet her at the bar so you get to naturally toss a few back to loosen up and so can she without looking like 2 alcoholics trying to get some food with their drinks.
2. since you will pay for the drinks (well i hope you will, you must insist to pay) this will breaches her first defense because it sets the tone for the rest of the night that you are in charge and you're not shy about your dominance, and bitches love been dominated unless she is a femnist, in which case, grab your shit and run, don't walk, run.
3. drinking on an empty stomach makes you drunker faster, which puts you in a better position of control because like a smart man that you are, you have eaten a little right before leaving the pad so you will always be less drunk than her, this gives you control and allows you to focus more on the game rather than eating later.
4. now that you got her tipsy after a drink or 2, let the jokes fly, severe laughing allows for natural first physical contact such as grabbing her arm, touching the face, depending on the jokes setting. It will also let you gauge how warm she is to you by her physical signs and choice of language. If you can get that 1st natural contact, (key word being natural, giving her a hug when you meet up is not a natural contact) out of the way before dinner, the actual dinner will be a lot more natural and less filled with anxiety. don't tell racist jokes, or blonde jokes, or any generic jokes. I always make up some outrageous shit that happened to me THAT day.
5. now that you are sitted, order something unusal if you can because it adds to the mystique and knowing more, always puts you in a power position.
6. A loud and "popping" restaurant will severly diminishes the effects of silence between you 2 and tend to lead conversation away from serious matters which is def a no no on first dinner date.
7. don't get too drunk because you won't be able to get it up later should the occasion arise, no pun intended

[Cab5er]

So you don't know what to talk about? So u want us to tell u what to say? Good luck.

[Kensta335]

pics of the date?

[silvergray545]

Ask her how she feels about anal. If she says she doesn't like it, get up and leave without saying a word.

[JayKay335i]

Get her drunk

[BillLee]

show her this thread.

[choicez]

1) Don't talk about your exes.
2) Don't talk about politics and religion.
3) Don't talk about how much you wanna pipe her.
4) But do grab something to drink to ease the mood.

[nusevad]

just ask her questions and have her do the talking if u run out of crap to say, whats her hobbies, where she grew up, does she like cars, does she like to give head, what are her plans after she grads, etc etc etc

[JayKay335i]

Originally Posted by choicez

1) Don't talk about your exes.
2) Don't talk about politics and religion.
3) Don't talk about how much you wanna pipe her.
4) But do grab something to drink to ease the mood.

Dont get into a full conversation, but you can get a quick religon/political point summery. I've found that the catholic/republican girls tend to not like abortion. I try and stay away from them. Not worth the chance.

[silvergray545]

Originally Posted by JayKay335i

Dont get into a full conversation, but you can get a quick religon/political point summery. I've found that the catholic/republican girls tend to not like abortion. I try and stay away from them. Not worth the chance.

There's always a way around that.

[Kiemyster]

Originally Posted by BillLee

show her this thread.

my instant reaction to reading this was screaming out loud. You got JOKES!!!! lol this is the best idea yet

GL OP....