Serious question: did my M3 lead me to an affair?

[NYCMCBM3]

Originally Posted by jakerx8

I'll take her off your hand and save you the trouble I am single and i like to play around with chicks ha

[schnell325]

Oh my. By posting on here you already know what you need to do.

[Abe_Froman]

Or bring up the topic of an open marriage... maybe your wife is not any more excited about being exclusive with you than you are with her. HONESTY!

[DISImzspd3]

I dont know bro. If she like's you for your car. Rip and Dip. haha. Leaving your main lady, is always a bad choice. But containing your little "flicks" on the side is important. Make sure they stay in there place. As a side chick. And nothing more. You got a wifey, she's the keeper, all other hoes fall underneath her. Never forget that. Never.

[theriz]

After years of marriage life becomes routine, you get up, go to work, go to the gym or supermarket (what ever your thing is) then come home, have dinner, tuck the kids in, watch tv and make love or dont make love to your wife, then off to sleep. Rinse and repeat the next day. Meeting someone new is like a spark, its something new, an adventure. You might feel like you need it ( and in some cases one might) but let me tell you. Its not worth it!! That person might also be looking for the same. Once you screw for the first time, that too will become routine. before you know it time goes by and you are back to square one, now with a different person.
Joe

So, so true.

[wchow16]

Originally Posted by chriszeh

maybe raiNed is a troll dropping bombs on here?

This ^^^

He's a long time member of this forum but he signed up in August 2011 and this is his first post. He's a TROLL!!

[Stronghammer]

What if your wife gets your car during the divorce settlement ? Then the new woman would leave you. Then you would have no woman and no car.

[e92_m3]

Originally Posted by rainNed

...but recently I have become friends with a female who probably became interested in me due in large part to my car. That's a shallow reason to be attracted to someone, no doubt.

Sorry to burst your bubble, but you probably met a gold digger. Think about it when you said, "...recently I have become friends with a female who probably became interested in me due in large part to my car." You yourself said that that is a shallow reason to be attracted to someone. Try telling her that the you borrowed the M3 and pick her up in a '95 Dodge Neon. If she treats you the same way, you may have met person who is not superficial. If she reacts, hesitates, and declines to meet up or see each other, she's definitely a gold digger.

Also, you should think of your wife before showing this woman that your available. Think 100, 1,000, 1,000,000 times before going into something like this. Your throwing away years and years of love that you and your wife built and cherished.

Think with your head above. Not with the head inside the pants...

[Prince_of_Persia]

Dont, doesnt worth it. Your wife wants you for yourself, not your car, it worth way more.

[aus]

This shit is like OT at Bimmerforums!!!

I thought it was going to be a smart ass joke thread.

[1sikbmr]

need pics of said female before response can be made

[JohnnyRoaster]

Put your d@#k in your pants and end the fling. Otherwise, cut your bank account and all possessions in half and kiss both of your chicks goodbye.

[theriz]

Originally Posted by JohnnyRoaster

Put your d@#k in your pants and end the fling. Otherwise, cut your bank account and all possessions in half and kiss both of your chicks goodbye.

i think its more then half..... just saying.

but agreed!

PS. put the beer DOWN! so you can get to thinking straight

[JohnnyRoaster]

Has anything actually happened at this point or is it just flirting? Be smart and move on. I have seen too many kids get hurt by their parent's bad decisions.

My business partner had an affair with a girl who worked for us. The problem was her husband also worked for us and it was hell when he found out. It ruined two marriages, four kids, and totally screwed up our business.

[JohnnyRoaster]

Originally Posted by stingray23

Why would you want to break an innocent persons heart just for a worthless whore thats gonna eventually drop you when she finds another sucker to drive her around? Its not worth it, no matter what.

Originally Posted by Titanium Silver

Wow, now we all know who the scumbag is... *******

Pretty weak dude.

You are right - it is weak. If you were standing in front of me you'd probably punch me. Probably deserve that.

But come on man, I said I was gonna delete that post. I don't want to have to close the thread. Yeah, I obviously posted under my regular account on accident, like a chump. But I left it because I wanted at least a few people to see it and know this post is real. Can you please delete the quote? Or you gonna make me close the thread?

[asukadc]

sorry, i'm only joking but i couldn't resist

[Titanium Silver]

Originally Posted by rainNed

You are right - it is weak. If you were standing in front of me you'd probably punch me. Probably deserve that.

But come on man, I said I was gonna delete that post. I don't want to have to close the thread. Yeah, I obviously posted under my regular account on accident, like a chump. But I left it because I wanted at least a few people to see it and know this post is real. Can you please delete the quote? Or you gonna make me close the thread?

Deleted. But seriously... sounds like a bad idea.

[piloto]

It would be weak if you go through with it, given everything you're saying about your wife. Be happy that hot, single women are still into you, but leave it at that. Work with wife to get things less monotonous and go from there. The other thing to consider is not only can this other woman ruin your marriage potentially, she can ruin your job, given you're coworkers. If the proverbial shit ever hit the fan, it can be troublesome at work. Just saying...

[southlight]

Originally Posted by wchow16

This ^^^

He's a long time member of this forum but he signed up in August 2011 and this is his first post. He's a TROLL!!

OP is legit.


Best regards,
south

thanks south.

Here's the earlier posts again. Nothing to hide.

I guess its Friday now, so here's something for you all to chew on for the traditional forum "Friday thread".

Oh, and yeah, I know the answer to my original question is "no". I can't blame a car for my indescretions. That's on me and only. But I figure it played a roll so maybe it is something for people on this forum to think about.

BTW, since I know people who didn't catch the original posts will be curious, you can PM this acct and I will tell you who I am. But dont' expect it soon - I am going out of town tomorrow and won't have a computer.

Wow, thanks for all the replies.

Fuck me, damnit. Just got through IM'ing her for about 2 hours. We talked for an hour today in person (sitting on a golf course), and I fought the urge to do anything off like a champ. I know, I am already betraying my wife just by meeting with her. But I am fucking trying to get my senses. I feel like a fucking sex-crazed teen with no control. What the fuck. And shee... she is just... not... relenting. I told her we should be friends, and she agrees. Then she tells me she can't wait to kiss me. Fuckin A.

Here's more info. We are co-workers. We are both professionals, and have established careers. We both drive BMW's, for what that's worth (nothing). Oh, and since I know people want every little piece of random info, she's Bengali and yes she is exotic looking and that obviously plays into the whole fantasy aspect. And yes, I have googled "Bengali women" and yes, I get it.

Again, happily married. HeartMD - thank you for a thoughtful response. And thanks everyone to your responses, frankly. I just like to hear any feedback at this point. I can't even tell my buds this - some of them I work with, and the others will tear me a new one.

Also, I have no intentions of leaving the wife, ever. I have no intentions of breaking up my marriage nor hers. We both have kids. It's way too complicated and I don't want to even think about going through all that.

What the fuck is wrong with me??

Too much beer, but you know what... FUCK It.

There now you know who it is.

I'm gonna leave that post for a while, then delete it and repost under the alias. Seriously, guys. I really am having a crisis.

[Titanium Silver]

Sucks you put yourself on blast so hard. Took about two minutes to find out who you and this "mystery girl" are...

Makes for a pretty interesting post though.