I don't know how to feel about this...

[KingOfJericho]

Originally Posted by dreamingat30fps

I'm sure your grandpa was a great man, but to say that just because your grandpa was that so was every other man in the 50's is bs. I'm positive there were just as many assholes back then as there are now. This idea of the "good old days" is simply not true and can be mostly attributed to nostalgia.

Exactly.

Good ol' days = swept under the rug and not talked about.

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Mr.Brown135

I have had a couple of girlfriends, but i have been with my current girlfriend for 4 years and will be proposing to her soon. So, I think it would be safe to say my grandad would be proud of me.

Good for you.
Well we all have different beliefs, good thing is you can normally/hopefully find something that matches with you.

[ScreaM]

Just carrying on a time honored tradition.

Instead of stripping their way through college..girls now have the option to bilk middle age men for money through these sites.

It's like any escort service..if the price is right than the guy can sample the goods..otherwise its just a major cock tease

Then again most of these guys are just lonely so they'll take whatever they can get.

[JAM3S]

Also lol @ paying when girls give it up so easily these days. Those guys are doing it wrong.

[carve]

Originally Posted by JAM3S

Really is alarming that 3/4 black babies are born to single mothers. I think its not looked at as a negative anymore as more people are dependent on the government and the government loves that kind of stuff. The black community certainly doesnt care about those numbers. They have bigger priorities like complaining about Super Bowl commercials being racist.

But I think those numbers back up my statement about our culture and its decline. The numbers are increasing for whites and Hispanics too. Although some would say African American culture is different than mainstream American culture. You cant blame poverty for those numbers either since numbers wise there are more whites living in poverty than any other ethnic group.

Another contributing factor to the decline of our culture is the emasculation of the American male. But thats another few paragraphs not worth getting into as I feel like im rambling at this point.

Agreed on all points. I'd wager the broken families are what's keeping black demographics on crime and poverty so bad- it's just a lot easier to blame it on whitey or government policies.

Ditto on the emasculation thing. I was there not so long ago.

That said, if you can't sell it you don't own it. Prostitution should be legal, and I'm fine with women being able to embrace their own sexuality so long as it's not at the expense of their children.

I also disagree with the "good old days". More like seeing the past with rose-tinted glasses. My grandpa on my moms side was and is a great man- he's my role model...but he had his wild days, too. On my dad's side...abusive loser alcoholic who I only met a couple of times. Not many people talk about guys like that though. Statistically, we have a more peaceful and egalitarian society now- I'm just afraid of the irresponsible and litigious sides taking over soon.

[carve]

Interesting perspective...

[dreamingat30fps]

Originally Posted by carve

Interesting perspective...

There go 2 hours

[carve]

Huh? It was only a couple of minutes. Did you get hooked on BigThink videos?

[dreamingat30fps]

Originally Posted by carve

Huh? It was only a couple of minutes. Did you get hooked on BigThink videos?

Yes. At least 2 hours on particle physics and string theory. Good thing work is slow today.

Reminds me of when the Discovery channel was watchable.

[grimlock]

This speaks to how you want to conduct a relationship. Affairs, open relationships etc in my opinion don't work in the long run because it's making a promise just to break it - or it's like saying, I am on a diet BUT except for this - it is self-defeating.
I can understand if you find yourself in such an unfortunately situation and would never judge, however if you're starting from scratch this is not something you should aim for; it's like saying I'm going to be a health nut but I eat junk all the time - it is contradictory and will not work.

[Vic311]

You don't pay prostitutes for sex..you pay them to leave afterwards

[Exite]

Most of this “shit” has been going on forever it's just now with social media and 3421321321321 "journalist/fgtlogger" sites on the internet the masses now know about "dirty" shit people do.

IMO fucked up but not a big deal.

[Exite]

Originally Posted by JAM3S

Also lol @ paying when girls give it up so easily these days. Those guys are doing it wrong.

That's kind of a weird assertion. Women are humans too some of them just wanna fuck like any other human being. Some of them aren't giving anything "up" that's just your view point.

[JAM3S]

Originally Posted by Exite

That's kind of a weird assertion. Women are humans too some of them just wanna fuck like any other human being. Some of them aren't giving anything "up" that's just your view point.

I think you need to go back and read my post a few more times.

I was saying those guys shouldnt be paying for sex because girls give it up easier these days...... then, you say I am wrong..... then, you being the bright individual you are, prove my point by saying some women "just wanna fuck".

And yes women are "giving it up". In 99% of sexual pursuits, it is the man going after the woman and the woman deciding when sex happens.

[KingOfJericho]

Most of the guys who are doing this are married, as it says, so it's not like they're hanging out in clubs and bringing home chicks. These sites allow them to skip the bullshit that they don't have time for anyway and skip right to the monkey business.

[shah269]

The things money buys you....I don't want to call it the investor class renting out the working class for sex but...well....yeah why not?

If you are liquid enough to be in the investory class and want to rent out your local GAP girl while you are married to your mistake of a dry vagina wife.....why not?

[carve]

Originally Posted by JAM3S

And yes women are "giving it up". In 99% of sexual pursuits, it is the man going after the woman and the woman deciding when sex happens.

I think his issue is just that the wording is a bit...misogynistic. "Giving it up" implies coercion.