Depressed with life!! Sigh.. - Page 6

shah269 · 02-26-2013, 10:31 AM

Someone once asked me what situational depression felt like.
(Situational depression is depressive state caused by an external stimulus that causes your brain to produce less serotonin and thus puts you in a depressed state. This can become an issue if the external stimulus can’t be removed and or overcome for the brain “learns” to be depressed and in a way forgets how to cope and assumes a new normal.)

I said well….imagine taking a roll of sports tape, and wrapping up your chest to the point where you can’t take a deep breath…and have someone tie you to a treadmill with a knife stuck between your shoulders and a gun to your head….all you want to do is get off the fucking thing and take a deep breath.

Depression is no joking matter, I know many good men and women who are due to circumstances beyond their control in dire emotional straights. Some eventually find salvation via the passage of time or the elimination of the stimulus that was causing them great anxiety while others just go in.

So take a moment, if someone you know is depressed or is venting about their depression. Don’t mock them. Not only is it very bad karma but you are also hurting a friend who is reaching out for help.

Joekerr · 02-26-2013, 11:07 AM

^
You sound depressed. There there now, come, tell OT all about it. We are eager and sympathetic listeners.

carve · 02-26-2013, 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Joekerr

^
You sound depressed. There there now, come, tell OT all about it. We are eager and sympathetic listeners.

Schadenfreude i/ˈʃɑːdənfrɔɪdə/ (German: [ˈʃaːdənˌfʁɔʏdə]) is pleasure derived from the misfortunes of others

shah269 · 02-26-2013, 02:39 PM

Bad karma.....not good.....

Joekerr · 02-26-2013, 03:58 PM

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Originally Posted by shah269

Bad karma.....not good.....

Is ok - I don't believe in karma.

But in all seriousness, you are one of the more entertaining trolls I've come across so I tend to enjoy your posts.

STi_traitor · 02-26-2013, 04:13 PM

grimlock · 02-26-2013, 04:20 PM

^That's f-ing depressing

STi_traitor · 02-26-2013, 04:26 PM

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Originally Posted by badazzm

This shit real?

HAHAHA!

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Originally Posted by US///M3

Good find! Check mine out two post above.

STi_traitor · 02-26-2013, 04:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Nitty3series

Such a sad story- u gotta nice house a Beemer and a good job- but can't get pussie and don't have friends- ((((((. Who gives a fuk ))))))!) try the other way around - live Witt ya mom be unemployed and take the bus everywhere / and get laid a lot which would u prefer???

+1

M3Denver · 03-03-2013, 01:42 PM

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Originally Posted by STi_traitor

+1

+100
and we live in the most wealthy country in the world and ppl get down cause they cant have everything they want. Shit I had to wait till i was in my 30s to find a good woman to marry!! Try being patient man. Smile you have every opportunity to do amazing things, be successful. Look in the mirror and think of 1 thing every day that is good in your life and remind your self of that and be thankful! Also you could be in communist China or many other dirty despotic shitholes in the world. You are blessed to live in the west where you can eat every day and drink clean water.

We need to remind ourselves how lucky and blessed we are with what we have. good things also come to those who work hard towards a goal patiently and dilligently.

BMW E90 · 03-03-2013, 03:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Masterplan

Word of advice, don't decide to rob a liquor store. Cause on your way in, you'll have a sudden change of heart, and your conscience will come into play....

Lol who are you?! My motherf**kin' conscience?

Masterplan · 03-04-2013, 03:03 PM

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Originally Posted by BMW E90

Lol who are you?! My motherf**kin' conscience?

Thats nonsense. Go in and gaffle the money and run to one of your aunt's cribs!

karliejai · 03-11-2013, 01:17 AM

join a gym, a hobby club, a sports league just to get out and meet some people
do drinks or dinner after work with friends or catch up with old friends
invite friends over for dinner or pregame before going out
etc

just try to get back in connection with other people...
that would be a start

Alicesoy0503 · 03-11-2013, 08:54 AM

I work as a bartender and I constantly see people just entering the bar by themselves, just enjoying their drink. Often they end up talking with others, so maybe just go to a bar? One with people around your age

Nkc · 03-11-2013, 10:02 AM

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Originally Posted by M3Denver

+100
Also you could be in communist China or many other dirty despotic shitholes in the world. You are blessed to live in the west where you can eat every day and drink clean water.

Have you ever even seen or been to this so called "communist China"?

MRSSIIM3 · 03-12-2013, 12:49 AM

is this real?

shah269 · 03-12-2013, 08:43 AM

OP any better?

f30nynj · 03-12-2013, 08:51 AM

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Originally Posted by shah269

OP any better?

Getting better!! Joined couple of new meetups and meeting new people. I haven't really gotten to be friends with any of them just FB friends.

Moreover I've developed positive attitude and optimistic outlook on things. That's about it. I will def update once I have a girl

(not a random hookup)

shah269 · 03-12-2013, 10:21 AM

Very glad you are feeling better.
Yeah those meet ups can be fun. I mean it's kind of funny?
We are young we have lots of friends.
We go off to university we have lots more friends and are going out and having a good time..though we are broke as hell.
Then we all get jobs and some friends move but we still try to have fun?
and then well around 30...you look around and well....it's just you in a cube.
and god forbid if you are not married or having any kids by 35...you are just fucked!
You then look around and it's you....a bunch of older folks on deaths door and a bunch of 20 something kids who get drunk on thrusdays and are pissed because you have to go home at 3am to "work"

But glad you are doing well, drop me a line and let me know which groups you are a part of myabe we are in the same one?

nelnelxd · 04-19-2013, 01:47 AM

I'll be your friend=) no homo. Want to go bowling?

kihun · 04-19-2013, 03:22 PM

go to church buddy.

f30nynj · 04-19-2013, 03:59 PM

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Originally Posted by kihun

go to church buddy.

I am agnostic to religion. Thx for the tip.

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02-26-2013, 10:31 AM	#111
shah269 Lieutenant Drives: 2009 Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: NJ Posts: 578 iTrader: (0)	Someone once asked me what situational depression felt like. (Situational depression is depressive state caused by an external stimulus that causes your brain to produce less serotonin and thus puts you in a depressed state. This can become an issue if the external stimulus can’t be removed and or overcome for the brain “learns” to be depressed and in a way forgets how to cope and assumes a new normal.) I said well….imagine taking a roll of sports tape, and wrapping up your chest to the point where you can’t take a deep breath…and have someone tie you to a treadmill with a knife stuck between your shoulders and a gun to your head….all you want to do is get off the fucking thing and take a deep breath. Depression is no joking matter, I know many good men and women who are due to circumstances beyond their control in dire emotional straights. Some eventually find salvation via the passage of time or the elimination of the stimulus that was causing them great anxiety while others just go in. So take a moment, if someone you know is depressed or is venting about their depression. Don’t mock them. Not only is it very bad karma but you are also hurting a friend who is reaching out for help.

02-26-2013, 11:07 AM	#112
Joekerr Second Lieutenant Drives: 2008 BMW 335i Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Toronto, ON Posts: 293 iTrader: (0)	^ You sound depressed. There there now, come, tell OT all about it. We are eager and sympathetic listeners.

02-26-2013, 02:39 PM	#114
shah269 Lieutenant Drives: 2009 Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: NJ Posts: 578 iTrader: (0)	Bad karma.....not good.....

02-26-2013, 04:20 PM	#117
grimlock Lieutenant Colonel Drives: F10 528i Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Hong Kong Posts: 1,541 iTrader: (0)	^That's f-ing depressing

03-11-2013, 08:54 AM	#124
Alicesoy0503 Registered Drives: have none Join Date: Mar 2013 Location: amsterdam Posts: 1 iTrader: (0)	I work as a bartender and I constantly see people just entering the bar by themselves, just enjoying their drink. Often they end up talking with others, so maybe just go to a bar? One with people around your age

03-12-2013, 08:43 AM	#127
shah269 Lieutenant Drives: 2009 Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: NJ Posts: 578 iTrader: (0)	OP any better?

03-12-2013, 10:21 AM	#129
shah269 Lieutenant Drives: 2009 Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: NJ Posts: 578 iTrader: (0)	Very glad you are feeling better. Yeah those meet ups can be fun. I mean it's kind of funny? We are young we have lots of friends. We go off to university we have lots more friends and are going out and having a good time..though we are broke as hell. Then we all get jobs and some friends move but we still try to have fun? and then well around 30...you look around and well....it's just you in a cube. and god forbid if you are not married or having any kids by 35...you are just fucked! You then look around and it's you....a bunch of older folks on deaths door and a bunch of 20 something kids who get drunk on thrusdays and are pissed because you have to go home at 3am to "work" But glad you are doing well, drop me a line and let me know which groups you are a part of myabe we are in the same one?

04-19-2013, 01:47 AM	#130
nelnelxd Second Lieutenant Drives: 328i Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: brooklyn Posts: 200 iTrader: (0)	I'll be your friend=) no homo. Want to go bowling?