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      02-07-2013, 10:21 PM   #1
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Depressed with life!! Sigh..

Hey guys,

At this point of my life I have everything but friends, girl, and happiness. I am 28yo and have a well paying job,a bmw, a house of my own and even an athletic body(go running). Most of my friends are married now, the new friends are living little far away and due to some rumor that was spreading around, they are trying to avoid me. I dated a girl last year but felt like we didn't have any connection. I am not sure if I should just date or look for that special someone to spend the rest of life. I am ready to settle down, but am looking for someone from similar ethnic background so we can form a deep connection.

Coming back to the point, I don't speak to a lot of people during daily life cuz my firm is very small & I m pretty much my own most of the times. Don't have any meeting but I occasionally talk to a colleague sitting next to me. It's because he is old and very experienced, I can't talk like buddies. Also I am the youngest in the company. I am the type of guy who would never give-up & always looking for creative ways. But right now everything seems blocked.

So here's the gist, I am depressed about nothing happening in my life. I live near NYC, and I thought I was done socializing but may be I should start again. Feel I m too old to hang with drink teen kids.


Anybody went thru same feelings? Any suggestions what I should do?
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if you really want to just start hitting people up. otherwise hang out.
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This thread depressed me..

NYC???..go out and meet some women..what are you worried about?
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Maybe if we knew the nasty rumour that was being spread about you OT could help??
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This thread depressed me..

NYC???..go out and meet some women..what are you worried about?
LOL..I am not worried. I am not sure, I don't like to be the one to break up or upset.

I hate f___ing around just for the sake, I am matured and looking for a mature partner to be with and do things. How do I find that kind of girl or woman?

Tried joining dating sites, but my couldn't find one.
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Hey guys,

At this point of my life I have everything but friends, girl, and happiness. I am 28yo and have a well paying job,a bmw, a house of my own and even an athletic body(go running). Most of my friends are married now, the new friends are living little far away and due to some rumor that was spreading around, they are trying to avoid me. I dated a girl last year but felt like we didn't have any connection. I am not sure if I should just date or look for that special someone to spend the rest of life. I am ready to settle down, but am looking for someone from similar ethnic background so we can form a deep connection.

Coming back to the point, I don't speak to a lot of people during daily life cuz my firm is very small & I m pretty much my own most of the times. Don't have any meeting but I occasionally talk to a colleague sitting next to me. It's because he is old and very experienced, I can't talk like buddies. Also I am the youngest in the company. I am the type of guy who would never give-up & always looking for creative ways. But right now everything seems blocked.

So here's the gist, I am depressed about nothing happening in my life. I live near NYC, and I thought I was done socializing but may be I should start again. Feel I m too old to hang with drink teen kids.


Anybody went thru same feelings? Any suggestions what I should do?
maybe you are bored of the same routine. You need to travel, new hobbies or something.

Cheer up! Also enjoy the incoming Shah and JetFalcon hilarious comments
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Go to car meets, socialize with some fellow enthusiasts!

http://www.e90post.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=48
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maybe you are bored of the same routine. You need to travel, new hobbies or something.

Cheer up! Also enjoy the incoming Shah and JetFalcon hilarious comments
That's what is keeping me afloat. I am going skiing every other weekend with a new found ski buddies but haven't hung out with them yet and waiting for good time to strike chord.

I go running, traveling to Jackson Hole this month with a bunch of strangers to ski, so hopefully some new connections will help.

I've joined meetups recently and it seemed to help a little, I just need to go more often.
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Really? that was very quick... too bad.
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Sure will do. Thx
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LOL..I am not worried. I am not sure, I don't like to be the one to break up or upset.

I hate f___ing around just for the sake, I am matured and looking for a mature partner to be with and do things. How do I find that kind of girl or woman?

Tried joining dating sites, but my couldn't find one.
Do worry about finding ms. right..
you need ms. right now

That will get your confidence up and snap you outta of feeling sorry for yourself..Then you will be able to approach the women who are your "type".

You wont find anyone when you have anxiety over it.
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That's what is keeping me afloat. I am going skiing every other weekend with a new found ski buddies but haven't hung out with them yet and waiting for good time to strike chord.

I go running, traveling to Jackson Hole this month with a bunch of strangers to ski, so hopefully some new connections will help.

I've joined meetups recently and it seemed to help a little, I just need to go more often.
Go international! Visit interesting places with ancient ruins or other interesting places like Dubai, Tokyo, etc. Or meet other Bimmerpost users
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if you're depressed because you need a girl, that's probably the worst time to look
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if you're depressed because you need a girl, that's probably the worst time to look
More than girl, I need friends who I can call buddies.

I had a very close circle of friends & now they all moved and have families.
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More than girl, I need friends who I can call buddies.

I had a very close circle of friends & now they all moved and have families.
kinda the same here, but different. i moved up they stayed the same, couldn't contain the hate. though you could argue they were never really friends anyway.
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NOOOOOOOOOOOO
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