girl problems- friendzoned and im starting to have doubts... - Page 2

Optherion · 03-19-2012, 11:49 PM

One day you will realize you were a fool for wasting so much time on this girl. Many opportunities have probably passed you by. If you don't believe that, then you are probably going to be single until you are 40. Grow some balls and don't take someones shits. If you are jealous you cant be with her, then pretending your just friends is only screwing yourself over in the long run. You're getting used. Simple as that.

Grow some balls and be blunt with her. If she doesnt like what you have to say or how you actually feel, then theres 3.5 billion other women in the sea.

Ive been exactly in your shoes. You call the shots. Next time she needs something, just say no. The fact you have low self esteem just means she will never come back to you in the way you want. Girls never go for guys with pitty. They use them.

jesselou · 03-20-2012, 08:37 AM

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Originally Posted by carogers86

How does she meet so many people out of state?

ucsd has a military base right next to it and she's friends with alot of guys from there.

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Originally Posted by silvergray545

OP, your story literally sounds like what I went through not too long ago. This is what you need to do: Drop her. Once you stop calling, texting, etc. She'll instantly forget about you. Don't do her anymore favors either. Once you stop all that, the words "best friends" will never come out of her mouth again. She says that because you go out of your way for her and she doesn't want you to stop.

Wanna know what I did? After I realized all that, I went overseas on vacation and hooked up with a girl while I was there. Got over the girl that used me and I've been good ever since. I'm still friends with her. She'll text me occasionally wanting to hang out or grab a bite to eat. And I do but I never flip the bill or pick her up anymore. I've realized I'm way better off without her. She's been dating different guys on and off since. I'm glad I'm not in that situation anymore.

the thing is that i tried alienating her b4 during late sophomore and beginning junior year and then she becomes the one that calls and texts. so she doesn't mind being the one that initiates and will most likely keep it up even if its completely one way....
its hard to drop it completely without saying it straight up to her face. and i know most of u guys have said to just drop her immediately and move on, but its just so heartless to do that to another person when u've known that person for a long time and u know her family and all...

Comet · 03-20-2012, 08:52 AM

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Originally Posted by jesselou

and i know most of u guys have said to just drop her immediately and move on, but its just so heartless to do that to another person when u've known that person for a long time and u know her family and all...

want chicks? become heartless man...
otherwise you'll be forever friendzoned

man up dude.. the best way is cold turkey.. delete all ties and refuse to see her... you owe her NOTHING and all she does is USE you. If that's what you want, then anything we say won't sway you otherwise.

why do you feel bad for her? I bet she doesn't feel bad about you.. She just misses the fact that you do everything for her without her having to do anything for you...

silvergray545 · 03-20-2012, 05:49 PM

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Originally Posted by jesselou

the thing is that i tried alienating her b4 during late sophomore and beginning junior year and then she becomes the one that calls and texts. so she doesn't mind being the one that initiates and will most likely keep it up even if its completely one way....
its hard to drop it completely without saying it straight up to her face. and i know most of u guys have said to just drop her immediately and move on, but its just so heartless to do that to another person when u've known that person for a long time and u know her family and all...

I'm not trying to be a dick but you didn't try hard enough. If she was the one to call and text you, I'm sure if she asked to hang out or something, you said yes.

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Originally Posted by Comet

want chicks? become heartless man...
otherwise you'll be forever friendzoned

man up dude.. the best way is cold turkey.. delete all ties and refuse to see her... you owe her NOTHING and all she does is USE you. If that's what you want, then anything we say won't sway you otherwise.

why do you feel bad for her? I bet she doesn't feel bad about you.. She just misses the fact that you do everything for her without her having to do anything for you...

He's right. If she wants to do something or hang out, just tell her no. Or tell her you're hanging out with the guys tonight. Or find another girl and take her to the movies. Or whatever.

The girl I used to have a thing for loved sushi, and I do too. Every Thursday I would go with a bunch of my friends and she would go with a bunch of her friends. We sat at different tables though. It's like the place to be on Thursdays here. Anyways, we started going together and sitting at a table for just the two of us. That went on for the longest time. Then I realized what you are realizing now. That next Thursday I didn't make plans with her for dinner, so naturally, she went with her friends. I showed up with different girl that night and we sat at our own table. I will never forget the look on her face when she saw me walk in the door with another girl. I did the same thing again the next week only with yet another girl.

You kinda need to do that because when girls get like that, they think the world revolves around them.

AU335i · 03-20-2012, 06:01 PM

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Originally Posted by ideliver

you need to learn how to really get a girl off...if you had made her cum really hard...she wouldn't be pulling this crap...she'd be following you around like a puppy dog begging for more

LOL.

itsmeek · 03-20-2012, 06:03 PM

Break it off w/her- once it's over, it's over. On another note- you went to college and still use the term "hanged out"???

And you may have feelings for her and all, but she sounds like a real slut.

Weird Side Effect · 03-20-2012, 10:18 PM

To the OP, reading your post made my head hurt. You speak and spell as if you're in fukcing middle school.

justinnum1 · 03-20-2012, 10:27 PM

great thread, love the spark notes idea

grieverr · 03-21-2012, 01:39 PM

OP, I hope that when you're "hanging out", you mean you're sleeping with her.

You obviously have feelings for her that she doesn't have for you. I don't care how much you agreed to only be friends, you want her. Meanwhile she's having you take her home after phucking someone in another state.

You, sir, are a sucker. But, it's the power of the vag....we've all been victims to it!

If she is your friend, treat her like one. I don't think you should stop hanging out with her. She is your friend, after all. But I do believe you should stop going above and beyond. The next time she asks you to do something you should ask yourself, "if this were someone else asking me, what would my answer be?"

Epacy2 · 03-21-2012, 01:58 PM

benzo23 · 03-21-2012, 02:00 PM

Bro just take out advise and cut ties with this broad, we've all been there and done that. We know what situation your in. Its best to move on to someone else as hard as it might be. Once she realizes "OH shit he's gone" then maybe she will act more interested.

carogers86 · 03-21-2012, 02:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Epacy2

Holy crap!! I laughed so hard soda came out of my mouth. Jeeezuz. Lol

panicos81 · 03-21-2012, 02:25 PM

find a girlfriend and all will be over

chungdae · 03-21-2012, 02:47 PM

1. Definitely in the friend zone, with a whore. That's pretty bad.
2. Sounds like you've never had a GF. That's worse.
3. Make money and then get laid.
"Disregard bitches acuire currency."

1speedbike · 03-21-2012, 02:52 PM

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and we hanged out twice

Stopped reading here, but I should have stopped at "high school."

Welcome to life. Here's your Prozac and your bottle of cheap vodka to drown your sorrows. Enjoy.

persian54 · 03-21-2012, 05:21 PM

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Originally Posted by silvergray545

I will never forget the look on her face when she saw me walk in the door with another girl.

Some things in life are priceless

ideliver · 03-21-2012, 11:52 PM

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Originally Posted by chungdae

1. Definitely in the friend zone, with a whore. That's pretty bad.

lol...that really bad...she's fucked guys just because they've asked...

Comet · 03-22-2012, 08:01 AM

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Originally Posted by persian54

Some things in life are priceless

or in this case, 200$ an hour :P

Bimmer Nerd · 03-24-2012, 02:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Gregxi

she is a whore and you are a fool

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Originally Posted by Wakka

this. welcome to the world of women

this +

So i am not even going to ask if she's hot. I've been at UCSD more than enough times.

And you're a fucking retard for getting used that much. Even a monkey with no brains would figure out that she's milking you harder than a 3rd world country cow.

shazzy04 · 03-24-2012, 10:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Epacy2

LMAO

CJ421 · 03-24-2012, 10:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Epacy2

LMAO

andybui82 · 03-25-2012, 01:32 PM

quit being soft. eff the friend zone.

03-19-2012, 11:49 PM	#23
Optherion Lieutenant Drives: Prancing Horse Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: SoCal & Vegas Posts: 464 iTrader: (0)	One day you will realize you were a fool for wasting so much time on this girl. Many opportunities have probably passed you by. If you don't believe that, then you are probably going to be single until you are 40. Grow some balls and don't take someones shits. If you are jealous you cant be with her, then pretending your just friends is only screwing yourself over in the long run. You're getting used. Simple as that. Grow some balls and be blunt with her. If she doesnt like what you have to say or how you actually feel, then theres 3.5 billion other women in the sea. Ive been exactly in your shoes. You call the shots. Next time she needs something, just say no. The fact you have low self esteem just means she will never come back to you in the way you want. Girls never go for guys with pitty. They use them. __________________ Current Stable: Some Audi with a V10, Couple of BMW's, one F Car, and one P car. One lonely GT-R with all the Euros.

03-20-2012, 10:27 PM	#30
justinnum1 Brigadier General Drives: 2013 335i Msport Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: South Florida Posts: 3,793 iTrader: (0)	great thread, love the spark notes idea __________________ F30 335i Msport Estoril Blue/Black leather sport auto. black grills, Performance Exhaust, HK,

03-21-2012, 01:39 PM	#31
grieverr Private First Class Drives: '09 335 coupe Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: NJ Posts: 167 iTrader: (0)	OP, I hope that when you're "hanging out", you mean you're sleeping with her. You obviously have feelings for her that she doesn't have for you. I don't care how much you agreed to only be friends, you want her. Meanwhile she's having you take her home after phucking someone in another state. You, sir, are a sucker. But, it's the power of the vag....we've all been victims to it! If she is your friend, treat her like one. I don't think you should stop hanging out with her. She is your friend, after all. But I do believe you should stop going above and beyond. The next time she asks you to do something you should ask yourself, "if this were someone else asking me, what would my answer be?" __________________ Spending on gas is like paying for a ticket to ride a rollercoaster - Crazy Bimmer

03-21-2012, 01:58 PM	#32
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03-21-2012, 02:25 PM	#35
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03-20-2012, 06:03 PM	#28
itsmeek Lieutenant Drives: 2009 E90 335xi Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: DC Metro Posts: 409 iTrader: (3)	Break it off w/her- once it's over, it's over. On another note- you went to college and still use the term "hanged out"??? And you may have feelings for her and all, but she sounds like a real slut.

03-20-2012, 10:18 PM	#29
Weird Side Effect Side effects may include... Drives: e90 M3, e46 M3 Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Houston Posts: 172 iTrader: (0)	To the OP, reading your post made my head hurt. You speak and spell as if you're in fukcing middle school.

03-21-2012, 02:00 PM	#33
benzo23 Colonel Drives: 11 e92 AW MSport Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: FL Posts: 2,308 iTrader: (0)	Bro just take out advise and cut ties with this broad, we've all been there and done that. We know what situation your in. Its best to move on to someone else as hard as it might be. Once she realizes "OH shit he's gone" then maybe she will act more interested.

03-21-2012, 02:47 PM	#36
chungdae The Asian Sensation Drives: 2009 Alpine White M3, S1000RR Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Miami, FL Posts: 697 iTrader: (2)	1. Definitely in the friend zone, with a whore. That's pretty bad. 2. Sounds like you've never had a GF. That's worse. 3. Make money and then get laid. "Disregard bitches acuire currency." __________________ 2001 Audi S4: RIP 2008, Infiniti G37S: Traded 2009 Honda CBR1000RR Sold 2009 BMW M3: Current 2011 BMW S1000RR: Current

03-25-2012, 01:32 PM	#44
andybui82 Colonel Drives: The Blop1 Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Blop PNW branch Posts: 2,334 iTrader: (4)	quit being soft. eff the friend zone. __________________ Cars: SGM 325i (Retired) l BSM 135i (Retired) l SS to Gloss White S2000

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