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      07-19-2011, 06:28 PM   #1
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insecurities itt

k so when I look in the mirror, I could hold my own next to brad pitt, but when I see myself in most pictures, there's this hideous awkward troll looking back at me D:

makes me so insecure until I see me in the mirror again

i'm just going along with mirror me, to help my self confidence, and I know women don't care too much about looks if you have a good personality, but man it's annoying.

I'm able to laugh at myself, take jokes, at least I have that

anyone else have this problem?
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so are you ugly or not? What do girls say? Are you fat? Unibrow?
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fit (I go to the gym), no unibrow

i never ask girls that straight up (insecure...) lol
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so are you ugly or not? What do girls say? Are you fat? Unibrow?
RW, take this over to eHarmony already would you???
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Dude you're fine, unless you look like a nerd you can get any girl, even then if you dress nice people will find you attractive.

Its more how you present yourself, I too look horrible in photo's but IDGAF because ladies say I look good in person.
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http://gizmodo.com/5661253/giz-expla...-in-the-mirror
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RW, take this over to eHarmony already would you???
nah, I need a confident man!


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Looking good is important but confidence is even more so.

A normally looking guy that is confident and secure can pull more tail than a good looking sissy-boy.

High levels of confidence and security can also attribute to professional success in life, thus, enabling you to attain more in life and possibly increase your chances of pulling even more tail.

Besides, ugly and fat can always be fixed via diet, Lipo, plastic surgery, etc...

Lack of confidence and security cannot, unless of course, it is attributed to your hideousness...LOL. Either way, confidence and security will probably take you farther in life than looking like Brad Pitt.

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Looking good is important but confidence is even more so.

A normally looking guy that is confident and secure can pull more tail than a good looking sissy-boy.

High levels of confidence and security can also attribute to professional success in life, thus, enabling you to attain more in life and possibly increase your chances of pulling even more tail.

Besides, ugly and fat can always be fixed via diet, Lipo, plastic surgery, etc...

Lack of confidence and security cannot, unless of course, it is attributed to your hideousness...LOL. Either way, confidence and security will probably take you farther in life than looking like Brad Pitt.

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"Pull more tail"..... that is fantastic!!
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"Pull more tail"..... that is fantastic!!
LOL! Yeah...I didn't want to use the word I was thinking about and risk getting banned

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Dude you're fine, unless you look like a nerd you can get any girl, even then if you dress nice people will find you attractive.

Its more how you present yourself, I too look horrible in photo's but IDGAF because ladies say I look good in person.
*relieved* lol

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Looking good is important but confidence is even more so.

A normally looking guy that is confident and secure can pull more tail than a good looking sissy-boy.

High levels of confidence and security can also attribute to professional success in life, thus, enabling you to attain more in life and possibly increase your chances of pulling even more tail.

Besides, ugly and fat can always be fixed via diet, Lipo, plastic surgery, etc...

Lack of confidence and security cannot, unless of course, it is attributed to your hideousness...LOL. Either way, confidence and security will probably take you farther in life than looking like Brad Pitt.

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I'm usually pretty confident, so thats good at least



alright, thanks guys !
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i hate seeing myself in pictures, i hate hearing my recorded voice, yet the ladies get all wet when they see my long curly hair, and i can tell that some of them look at me just as much as i look at them, so yeah, we're on the same boat !
nobody's ugly, you just have to find someone who likes the way you look

i wouldnt worry...
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i've noticed this too...look good in mirror, girls always say im cute, but look different in photos.....alternatively i've seen girls who look like crap in person, but who look beautiful in photos.....
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i've noticed this too...look good in mirror, girls always say im cute, but look different in photos.....alternatively i've seen girls who look like crap in person, but who look beautiful in photos.....
hahaha stop meeting people off facebook ^_^
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Self image is a terrible thing.

I look at my body and I see fat legs, a fat stomach, thin/no muscle arms, and I even tend to think negatively about my junk size, but I look in the mirror and my arms look pretty good, i'm not as fat as I think, and my junk is impressive.. and how I feel when looking in the mirror is the same thing people say to me, that i'm not fat, i'm not weak, and my junk is impressive.

It's our own crazy ass mind and the fact that when we look at our own body we are always looking down on it, and we're never happy with how we look.
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I am really insecure about the enormity of my junk... I can't wear certain kinds of underwear and I have to get dress pants tailored otherwise people stare...

Life is really hard. Even harder when I am hard..


I'm sorry... was this thread serious or are we making jokes to laugh about our insecurities?
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i hate seeing myself in pictures, i hate hearing my recorded voice, yet the ladies get all wet when they see my long curly hair, and i can tell that some of them look at me just as much as i look at them, so yeah, we're on the same boat !
nobody's ugly, you just have to find someone who likes the way you look

i wouldnt worry...
when a girls stare at you, is it usually good thing? this happens to me all the time, but i'm not sure if it's like 'omg cute' or 'wtf is that'



i had an imo perfect 10 scope me out and hold eye contact today... maybe it's just cause I see her every day at the surf club... lol
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when a girls stare at you, is it usually good thing? this happens to me all the time, but i'm not sure if it's like 'omg cute' or 'wtf is that'



i had an imo perfect 10 scope me out and hold eye contact today... maybe it's just cause I see her every day at the surf club... lol
Man... you need to go talk to a therapist. There are definitely some underlying issues that are causing your insecurity. Next time you think to yourself that some girl is thinking "wtf is that" ask yourself why you are thinking that way. Little by little that voice/idea will mute itself and you will have more confidence. You are definitely showing signs of social anxiety and low self-esteem. But, what do I know? I am just a garbage man.
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