I have the software/hardware to address this, but not well versed in using it. I'm sure I could figure it out though. What part of VA are you in? I'd happily exchange coding services for the opportunity to ride in an M3. (I've been thinking about buying an 08 e93 not local to us and all of the dealers in the area have been highly guarded in terms of test drives :/)... Feel free to email me:
ChristopherROwens@gmail.com