nmulax: No, I appreciate your sincereity, truly, thankyou!
I do love your "thinks that a good life means marriage, kids, house w/a picket fence" line though - I concur! I am definitely the 'odd girl out' if nothing but because I'm neither of the above...I DO own land and a house though...hmmm.
http://i176.photobucket.com/albums/w...100_1434-1.jpg
too big for a pickett fence...and kids...
thanks for your honesty guys.