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Originally Posted by IDENTITY_MOTORSPORTS
I wonder about what it would be like to be with another girl
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oh man, that's a tough one! most guys your age that i know just started working, go to school, or still live with their parents. in all cases though, they go out and bring a different chick home every time.
i think it is extremely vital for a long-term relationship that both partners have experienced being with other people before. it is all cool to "save" yourself for after marriage and all, but then you'll be always wondering what it could have been like with other girls. it's hormones, you just can't avoid it. you'd still wonder about that even if you slept with 40 girls before you got married, but at least you could tell yourself with an ease "been there, done that,
not worth my wife/girlfriend."
in your case though, having wife and two kids, take a long and very cold shower, get her a bouquet of flowers, a box of chocolates, cook her a meal, take her out to see a play or something, and give her at least one good orgasm a week. she'll treat you like gold in return.