i live in this luxury building in rutherford -
http://www.avaloncommunities.com/new...rford-station/
it has an underground garage for parking, you are 10 minutes from secaucus and 10 minutes from hackensack. The train station is a 30 second walk out the front door and you are 2 stops from hoboken and 1 stop from secaucus junction.
It's a little expensive but way less than hoboken.