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If you don't want to go Individual than I'd say Melbourne red...... it is probably the least common Non-Individual colour on an M3! Personally I'd love a Melbourne Red on Fox Red Extended with Carbon Leather trim. MR/FR may seem like too much red but I seen it in person and it is beyond beautiful!

Maybe you should consider an Individual Paint colour...... You can get almost any BMW colour ever done (with a few exceptions.

How about Individual Brilliant white? That might be good for you seeing as you like white but don't want Alpine white!