check out adams videos on youtube. they go through alot of the carwashing steps and tell you what type of products to use when and where on your vehicle. after that check out either detailersdomain.com or detailedimage.com. read up on the reviews of products that interest you. you will soon realize that detailing is kind of like a guess and check. you buys some products test them out and you either fall in love or might just want to try other things out there. let us know what questions you have about certain products after you read up on some reviews
best of luck