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Originally Posted by nmulax
I'm 24 as well, and honestly I couldn't do it.
Not to say you can't or shouldn't... just giving my point of view.
Understand that her kids will always come first. Also, it'd be good to know how involved the kid's father(s) is/are. Are you looking for a short-term gf? If so, walk away, the kids will just complicate that issue. If you're looking for something long term, keep in mind you may become a father figure to her children.
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agreed....there too many parties in this relationship....think it out.....you have to consider her, the kids, and the babies daddy...or daddies.....but seriously.....your young....there is a reason you dont have kids yet.....why take care of someone else's.....i couldn't....i passed on a girl like this for the same reason.....but if you really like her....try it out before you commit seriously to it....and remember.....double bag it....that girl is mad fertile