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Originally Posted by BMWE90
eh...I dont think its that big of a deal to be honest. Just let me him be. I think the only reason why it bothers u is because he is your "best friend". Therefore you think that he should include you in everything he does.
Before I got any further, Im not trying to offend you or anything like that. I am just simply stating my opinion.
THe saying "people change" is very true. Perhaps in your mind he's still the same and you guys are still best buds. Maybe you also think that since you guys are best friends, you guys should be more involved in each other's life. But maybe he doesnt have that same mind set you do. The thing with us guys is that we dont say things like "oh you're my best friend". It just kinda comes naturally. So again, maybe he just doesnt feel the same way?
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Nicely put, partially what I was attempting to allude to in my post. Don't allow yourself to get too hung up on someone. I have a friend from HS who is really smart and nice, but for some reason he is working an average non-career oriented job and it baffles me. We're different in that aspect and it's a learning experience for me knowing that despite similarities in friends, I have my own goals and outlook on life.