having kids will likely destroy your life. people with kids can't ever admit that they made a life long mistake and will justify it any way possible. the thought always crosses their mind but they dare never speak of it as to be looked at like monsters.
to the person that said this thread title is offensive... don't be so dramatic. your life might be ruined but that doesn't mean this thread has to be.
haha i'm just messing around. i'm really indifferent.
