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Originally Posted by JJFESQ
Invite him out (just you two) for a beer so you can talk it out. If he can't make time to talk then dump him.
If he comes then talk it out before you make a decision.
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^ This. If he says, "Derp I can't make time for that" say it's important, and it's about MY wedding.
IF he is your best buddy, take him aside and have a talk with him about what you expect out of him and how you can't do everything on your own. If he says, "sorry I can't do those things for you" or something of the sort, then say, "well I need to find a new best man..." Before jumping into anything talk with him first and tell him what you expect out of a best man. Either he'll demote himself, or you'll demote him...