Trust me, there is discrimination within the glbt community along these lines also, so this isn't just a "straight man" response. In Oz we call them "screaming queens" in the US, I believe they are called "Nelly Queens".
Just as there are butch "Diesel Dykes" and "Lipstick Lesbians".
To each his or her own I say.
The axis is the separatists who believe standing out is the path to ending discrimination vs those who seek integration and all the shades inbetween.
I just seek to be always be true to myself and do my own thing, but I don't see the need to shun the world in the process. I probably wouldn't have revealed my gayness (because it really isn't relevant to this forum) had I not read some of the comments in this post and felt the need to speak up against views I disagree with.
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