Originally Posted by persian54
I am serious; I mean, I'm all for my wife working and having a career etc... but when kids come, that needs to become priority.
I don't want my children raised by a nanny..and I love my mom, but I don't want her raising my kids.
I've seen with my own eyes what happens when a child is raised by his mother vs being raised by someone else.
Also, the #1 cause for divorce is money...and next children.
I don't want money to be an issue and I want good, happy and healthy children.
When I read that you wanted your wife to do whatever you wanted, I immediately thought of that movie Not Without My Daughter