Short of a Photoshop, this is going to be a hard combination to find. Sparkling Graphite was only around for MY2008, so you have a very small audience to work with. On top of that, there are fewer E90s than E92s out there. And on top of everything else, you need to find someone who took the time to retrofit their rare Sparkling Graphite E90 car with 359Ms.
'09 E92 M3: Space Gray, Black, Carbon Leather | ZTP 2MK ZPP 2MT 6FL | link 1 / link 2
Mods: M Performance exhaust | ZCP retrofit | Euro airbox | GTS DCT flash | JPN 240 ECU flash | Euro LCI taillights | CRT lip | OEM alarm retrofit | Space Gray bumper plugs | BMW Performance: Mk. II spoiler / Mk. II non-electronic steering wheel / mirror caps / front grilles / side gills / intake louvers / emblem