Short of a Photoshop, this is going to be a hard combination to find. Sparkling Graphite was only around for MY2008, so you have a very small audience to work with. On top of that, there are fewer E90s than E92s out there. And on top of everything else, you need to find someone who took the time to retrofit their rare Sparkling Graphite E90 car with 359Ms.
Current: '09 E92 M3 | Space Gray, Black Novillo, Carbon Leather | ZTP 2MK ZPP 2MT 6FL | link 1 / link 2
Mods: M Performance exhaust | ZCP suspension retrofit | Euro airbox | LCI Euro taillights | Style 359M wheels | CRT lip | BMW Performance: Mk. II spoiler / Mk. II non-electronic steering wheel / mirror caps / front grilles / side gills / intake louvers / emblem | OEM alarm retrofit | Space Gray bumper plugs
Gone: '01 "AP2" Honda S2000, '97 Ford Probe GT