How bout you just move to one of those locations that you so frequently visit. I'm sure you would fit right in.
As for the soldier's on the ground I would say most of them (there is always going to be a few pissed off) believe in what they're doing. I know guy's that have asked to go just so they can help out, I have friends that will never be the same because of injury's. They all believed in what they were doing, and they believe in there leadership. That's how the military works. So when it comes to your bullshit anti-war this and everyone hate's america that. Keep it to your self.
In my mind and alot of people I work with all agree. Ya can't support the troops if you don't believe in what they're doing. B/C they believe in what they're doing. I can't speak for them all, but everyone I've served with feels this way.