I think the best start is the NCCBMWCCA Highway Safety School
then the 2 day driving school either at the Performance Center or the local ones offered by NCC at Jefferson or Summit
then wait for the one day annual event at NCC site for the M day... getting a full day of M driving at the PC for half the price. The NCC folks that register for that usually leaves together at Manassas somewhere for the drive down South.
If you follow that Track you will be a good driver at the end of the process that you may even want to become an instructor